Fuel is the first Prime Aim of our kind. You need to understand it and how it applies to your interaction with the narcissist. One element of that understanding concerns its applicability in terms of potency, amount and frequency. Often victims believe they have given a huge amount of fuel when they have not. Other times they think that they have given no fuel, when actually they have. This will assist you understanding more about fuel and how that is affecting your dynamic with the narcissist.