The Rules of Ex Club – No. 12
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Vent Your Spleen! (Please see the Rules in Formal Info)
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HG if someone from your fuel matrix would say to you, “I’m done. I don’t love you anymore. I don’t know if I ever really did”. Would that wound and hurt you? Or would that just be more fuel for you?
Depends how it was stated to me.
I think I understand. If it was said with tears streaming down there face and a mixture of anger and hurt in there voice, that would give you fuel. If they simply looked at you with no tears or emotion in there voice and simply said, I don’t love you anymore, I don’t think I truly ever did. Turn and walk away. Stated this way, it wound you. Correct
First would be Challenge Fuel, second would be wounding but understand how hard it is to be completely fuel free in person with us, therefore most of the time it will be Challenge Fuel FM1T.
Thank you HG, I personally do understand how hard that would be to say without any fuel. I couldn’t even write it without fuel being present!
FM1T
……she says as she ends the sentence with an exclamation point lol.
NA that is something he would usually have caught! Hahaha! I don’t know if you’ve noticed but I have actually been cutting down on the exclamation points in my comments?! 🤣🤣🤣🙃
FM1T
Haha. Hard to notice a decrease when you use another exclamation and add a question mark. You can’t help it FM1T – you’re a fuel fest even on a keyboard.
NA Haha. So true! I just get so excited I can’t help myself, half the time I don’t even look at what I’m writing, I just hear the words in my head and start tapping on letters and hit send! I think at times I even hold my breath as I write! 🤦🏼♀️ Yet another reason I will never be able to leave the safety of HG, the Tudorites, or the blog. 😘🙃
FM1T, this reminds me of one of my last convos with the x narc. He was trying to get a reaction from me. He said “we don’t have sex anymore because the constant conflict is unattractive to me” I said “no we stopped having sex because I am no longer attracted to you”. It was not intentional it just came out. It was completely fuel free. Keep in mind I was a broken appliance at that point. The reaction I got from him from my fuel free comment was better than any reaction I got when I was emotional. It was satisfy.
Have you explained the N paranoia, and if not, can you? Also, does it change given the school?
Yes I have and yes it does.
Sorry, I uploaded it in Spanish.
Hello, H.G.Tudor.
Conclusion, in the narcissistic world they look like the sultan with a harem of hundreds or thousands of women according to their matrix. They simply choose, which of us unsuspecting will spend that night with him. How subordinate and undervalued are we women. Submitted like objects to his pleasure.
This meme reminds me so much of the tale of a thousand and one nights. Telling stories, due to their tremendous boredom, being executed at dawn.
Because of the Sultan’s trauma of being deceived, so, we were not his Sherazade.
Hg. Do you think you can find your Sherazade?
Funny thing about folktales, they’re all loaded with narcissistic reminiscences.