The Rules of Ex Club – No. 30


7 thoughts on “The Rules of Ex Club – No. 30

  1. lisk says:

    Is *any* post-discard contact (that gives no urgent information) from a narc a hoover?

    1. HG Tudor says:


      1. lisk says:

        Thank you, HG.

        I have about a million follow-up questions to your answer. However, before I ask, I will follow your advice to Linda DiArchangel and order/read “Black Hole.”

  2. Julia says:

    Hg, why is the most recent ex most at risk?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Greater risk of Hoover Triggers and greater risk of the Hoover Execution Criteria being met because there will be more reminders and a greater likelihood of that ex still ‘being around’ and also with higher emotional thinking still, making them susceptible.

  3. Linda DiArchangel says:

    How does a narc Hoover exactly? I don’t believe love does. He’s too wrapped up with getting his married gf to be his.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thousands of different ways. Read Black Hole and search for ‘hoover’ on this blog.

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