Are you or somebody you know chained to the narcissist? Are you a co-dependent? What does this mean? How did you become this way? How does the narcissist know what you are? How does the narcissist exploit this condition and how might you escape him? These questions and more are posed and answered in this fascinating book. Delivered direct from the dark-hearted master, the narcissist provides his unique observations on those who are co-dependent and find themselves chained to the narcissist.





2 thoughts on “Chained

  1. E&L says:

    Dear HG,

    In the book CHAINED you write “they (the CoD) is an arrested form of our kind (the narcissist).”

    On your post titled THE EMPATHIC SUPERNOVA you say “Whereas the Co-Dependent has strong and many empathic traits with little and low narcissistic traits…”

    My question is: if CoDs and narcissists are born of the same “soil” and share a kindred “seed”, did the CoD’s
    narcissistic traits and the narcissist’s empathy become the proverbial “collateral damage” of a failure to thrive scenario with regards to a person’s collective personality?

    Thanks in advance if you are inclined to answer!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hello E and L, the CoD started out life as a narcissist but rather than become one, they in a sense, became the opposite of the narcissist yet need the narcissist extensively for the reasons explained in Chained. They sailed so close to becoming a narcissist but then diverged so they became more or less an opposite yet hugely drawn to narcissists. Their N traits became sacrificed, they are still there but not as extensively. With regard to the narcissist, the empathy did indeed become the collateral damage as in the loss of it or the failure for it to even develop to begin with.

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