Good Intentions – The Narcissist’s Unconscious Wants


I want to give you my perfect love.

I want to look over you, protect you and care for you. I want to spread my wings and shield you from any harm that might come your way. I want to see you smile. I want to hear your uplifting laugh. I want to see you shine.

I want you to feel adored and special, I want you to feel my love for you that is beyond anything you have ever known before.

I want to feel your gentle touch upon me, I want to engulf you in my all consuming and never bettered passion, I want you to moan in delight at my touch and caress.

I want to be with you every moment of every day. I want to hear your voice calling my name. I want to see your texts filling my inbox. I want to see your name listed several times amongst the missed calls.

I want to be your sun so I light up your life and you orbit around me. I want to be your sole giver of warmth and life, the very thing, the only thing that you come to rely upon.

I want to dress you in finery, the best that I can afford. I want to see you wear what I suggest you wear and that you put that dress on just for me.

I want you to breathe my air, letting it fill your lungs and tasting so sweet that you will never want to breather the air of another.

I want you to see the world through my eyes, I want you to think the same way as me, I want you to anticipate my thoughts ,words and deeds as if you are living through me.

I want you to be a part of me. I want you to not know where you begin and where I end. I want you to taste what I taste, hear what I hear and speak with the same tongue as me.

I want you to become within me, assimilated into my being, an extension of me. I want you to discard everything you have known before and embrace me in totality. I want you to cast away your identity, your support groups, your social networks and instead be utterly dependent on me for your every need.

I want you to forget who you were.

I want.

15 thoughts on “Good Intentions – The Narcissist’s Unconscious Wants

  1. Abe Moline says:

    I wish you to blossom, leaning on my love and optimism and compassionate care.

    I wish you to be strong and beautiful, like I know you are, so everybody can see you the way I see you and wonder and smile and feel happy around you.

    I wish you to be free of fear and guilt and pride, and still let me be next to you, so we can together enjoy this wonderful world and life.

    I wish you to see how in your imperfections lies your entire and complete perfection.

    I think I lost her at the last one… 🙂

    1. foolme1time says:

      Oh Abe, I don’t know whether to laugh or cry? 🙃

      1. Abe Moline says:

        Haha, definitely laugh, FM1T!
        Crying is optional… 🙂

        1. foolme1time says:

          Abe I actually did a little bit of both. “ I think I lost her at the last one”, is what made me laugh. 😊

  2. Presque Vu says:

    This reminded me of American Gods – Series 1 – episode 8 (Come to Jesus)

    Bilquis (The Queen of Sheeba)

    ‘Bilquis is in her temple, bedecked in body jewelry and diaphanous robes. Her worshipers dance and writhe naked as Bilquis anoints them with a black substance on their foreheads. A king approaches to knock her off her throne. She welcomes him and they have sex with him transforming into a black liquid when she finishes with him. The orgy of worshipers also transform into black liquid for Bilquis to absorb’

    Ultimate ownership, totally subsumed.

  3. Alexissmith2016 says:

    Oh this is so true! And when they’re besotted with you, if you play it just right they will do bloody anything for you (as long as you don’t succumb to their seduction).

  4. Lou says:

    This one describes well the general message I received during the years I spent with my ex. It‘s like I had, in appearance, a golden period for years that was in reality a very long and slow devaluation.
    Most dull, boring, depressing years of my life. I wish I could erase them.

  5. Veronique Jones says:

    Honey do narcissists really believe that in the beginning or is it just BS they tell us to suck us in ???

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It is an unconscious want of the narcissist.

  6. Joanne says:

    It is good intentions though, right? At least at the very, very beginning?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Our intentions are always good, it is you that make them turn bad.

      1. Joanne says:

        Lol, that’s right I forgot 🤣

  7. Pamela Dianne says:

    Better yet, I will not get angry even though I do have the right to. I will pray that God gives you a brain injury that wipes my memory from your mind but lets you continue to live as you are. You can’t feel something for someone if you don’t know them.

    And it’s just a formality…you don’t know me anyway. You need more work on your conscience and soul to satisfy me.

    You don’t deserve to suffer, but you will not encroach on me anymore.

  8. Pamela Dianne says:

    You better get on your knees tonight and pray I win this lawsuit, cause if I don’t and I don’t get justice, I will come for your narcissist soul. And you really don’t want to know what I can do to a soul.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Unfortunately narcissist’s do not have souls, we just eat them. You would be far better off applying GOSO.

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