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Fifty questions posed by those who have been subjected to the clutches of various narcissists. Fifty answers from the narcissistic psychopathic mind of H G Tudor.
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Hi HG,
I’ve been following your blog for a few years now and have found your posts extremely helpful as I’ve dealt with the notorious highs and lows of a narcissistic relationship. Specifically, I dated a mid-range narcissist on and off for about 3 years, with the formal relationship most recently ending around 7 months ago. During the past 7 months, my N has historically only waited a few days – or sometimes weeks – before ending his silence and contacting me. Historically, I responded favorably to those contacts however a couple of months ago, I told my N that I was seeing someone else. Although he initially scrambled to win me back, in his last text to me (about a month ago), he wished me well on my “better life” and promised to stop “dragging me through the relationship” because I was “clearly seeing someone else behind his back.”
Although I haven’t heard from him since then, I noticed that he always watches my stories on social media. Why would he want to do that? I assume, but don’t know, that he’s seeking other partners and he doesn’t otherwise attempt to engage with, or contact, me.
Ps. I know that I should block him on social media but he previously told me that something “bad” will happen if I do, so I’ve been hesitant to actually do so.
They are passive hoovers.
He issued a threat re blocking him, see my article about narcissists and threats and better still, do this https://narcsite.com/private-audio-consultation/
When someone engaged in these sorts of murders there is a planned element that is contrary to the concept of not having control over fury etc. How do you explain such situations?
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This is a detailed matter, I will discuss it with you when we next speak.