Empath Detector

empath detector

Understanding the relevant school and cadre of empath that you belong to is an integral part of arming yourself so that you effect a GOSO Campaign (Get Out, Stay Out) with the maximum effectiveness.

Recognising where you belong with regard to one of the four schools of empath and then the relevant cadre not only aids you in learning more about yourself and how your school and cadre attracts particular narcissists, it will weaponise you in your quest to GOSO and also assist you in evading narcissists in the future.

This consultation is conducted through the provision of a protocol which is straightforward and provides confidentiality between the parties. A questionnaire is provided which elicits a broad range of information about you and your behaviours to enable me to then analyse your responses and provide you with an accurate and easy to understand response through an audio sound file.

Ensuring you know what you are means you will avoid the mistakes that occur with self-analysis through lacking objectivity. It will ensure you do not embark on courses of action which are suited to different schools and it also enables you to plug the gaps in your own defences and achieve GOSO sooner and with less effort.


  1. Please effect payment using the PayPal button below. Your financial details are not seen.
  2. You will then be sent the Common Sense Protocol and the Empath Detector Questionnaire.
  3. You complete the Empath Questionnaire and e-mail this to narcissist1909@gmail.com . Please keep your response to 1200 words and under. If you need to exceed this you can obtain additional word bundles at US $ 40 per 500 words required to cover the additional reading and consideration time. Please advise if you require this in addition.
  4. I will analyse your information and then provide you with your school and cadre of empath with explanation within 96 hours of receipt of the questionnaire through a report identifying the relevant elements applicable to your school and cadre and determining your prevailing school and prevailing cadre, based on the answers and information that you have provided..

If you have any further questions about the consultation, do e-mail me at narcissist1909@gmail.com to learn more.


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27 thoughts on “Empath Detector

  1. Kim e says:

    Hg. Looking for info on martyr cadre for an empath
    Thank you

  2. strongerwendyme says:

    Took it and I am : Standard (with elements of Co-dependent, Super and Contagion). Carrier (with elements of Magnet, Martyr and Geyser).

    Quite the variety? (shrug). It is very interesting in that you can have some awareness and pause before diving into everything instinctively. For example, knowing I’m a Carrier I will now stop to determine if doing something (or not doing it) will be the right thing for me (not just right for everyone else or “take it for the team”).

    Lots more delegation will be happening (fuck off co-dependent and martyr cadres!). I do believe my abilities to take on a a huge workload/responsibilities while delivering excellent results quickly (even if it hurts) and to solve problems efficiently have been taken advantage of.

    As for the Contagion part of me (not huge percentage, but there it was)…hmmm. Kind of weird/odd, but does explain a lot. I have been able to realize that sometimes I will start to feel bad about something suddenly and can’t figure out why because nothing bad has happened to me. But it has to someone around me. And this can happen with people I’m not in proximity to. I do realize it’s not my feelings though.

    I’m now more interested in reading the elusive Contagion article now.

    Thanks HG, interesting process! 🙂

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are welcome.

    2. strongerwendyme says:

      Clarification: when I said “fuck off co-dependent and martyr cadres: i meant the percentage of me that has those characteristics, not to people who are those cadres.

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Too late now SWM, there are legions of CD and Martyr Cadres with torches and pitchforks chanting “Burn her, burn her!” on their way to your residence!

        1. strongerwendyme says:

          Ha ha!

    3. Narc Noob says:

      SWM – there are so many standard carriers here. Or perhaps I can just see them as I know I am also one. Your description above sounds very similar to my own self-diagnosis, including all the extra elements. The CoD and martyr part I do like in me, either!

      I like your take on whether it is for you, or the team. I am slowly learning the same! Is that introspect now you know what you are more like, or did the test point this out?

      1. strongerwendyme says:

        Seems many self classify themselves as SE. I wonder how many have actually taken the Empath detector test.

  3. Tamara says:

    I am interested in taking it. Can knowing what kind of Empath I am ‘better my life’? Is there some leeway by way of ‘multiple answers’? Sometimes I over-analyze things and i wonder if it could give false results. Other times, my head is in the clouds; this might vary the results, too. I feel like I might break the machine. I think that by the time I’m done, I will have written a 300,000 word essay, trying to explain things, and end up owing thousands of dollars to find out what kind of Empath I am. I’m so curious about it! I am an INFP, if that helps.

    1. Tamara says:

      Oh, I found my comment; I think I already know what my results will be on the Empath Detector. So, I probably do not need to take the test. Besides, not to sound manipulative, but I was looking for a bit of encouragement to do so since I am on the fence about it. Therefore, due to the lack of response, I think I am sweetly being told “it is not important for you to take this test”.

      1. HG Tudor says:

        If you mean you wanted encouragement from me, do understand that I have over a thousand communications to address each day and therefore if you do not receive a response (not that anybody is entitled to one anyway) that does not mean that you are being ignored or that taking such a step is unimportant. It simply means I have not had time to address it.

        1. Tamara says:

          Thank you, Mister Tudor; I am sorry for sounding entitled in any way. I know you are under no obligation to respond to me. I just meant that I kind of thought I was being told in a “supernatural” sort of way that the test was not important for me, personally, due to the absence of an answer from anyone. I simply was trying to find out if it was important for me, personally, to take this test. And, I took the “no answer” to mean (from Higher Power), “no, it is not important”.

          1. HG Tudor says:

            You are welcome. I am not suggesting that you sound entitled but rather making the point to you (and all others) that I am under no obligation to answer anything in the comments section, of course I often do.
            I understand that you were referencing a higher power, which of course, could well mean me!

          2. Desirée says:

            Hi Tamara! i don’t qualify as a message from a higher power, but what I can say is, I took the test and found it to be incredibly helpful in understanding myself. Like you, I also wasn’t sure if the test would be useful to me since I was already pretty sure I am an empath. But getting the results and what they meant allowed me to move forward even quicker than normally. If this test is the right thing for you is up to you to decide, but I would strongly recommend it, if you’re interested in that.
            For example, I had an incident on saturday that made me kind of emotional for no good reason. Thinking about why that was the case, I remembered my results on the Empath Detector. I immediately understood why I was reacting this way when somebody else probably wouldn’t. Understanding the relation of what had happened to who I am as an empath made my emotional response vanish almost instantly, I was abled to apply logic and it has not bothered me since and I doubt it ever will again.
            So yeah, if you’re curious about knowing exactly, I suggest you go for it! There’s also no problem in being very specific, it might even add to your results and help you move forward!

  4. Narc noob says:

    Does your Twitter account still exist, HG?

    1. HG Tudor says:


      1. Narc noob says:

        Thanks HG. The link below didn’t work as it’s *not available*.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Thanks NN, this sometimes happens. The one in the menu bar works.

  5. Lorelei says:

    I really recommend this. I truly thought I was a horrible person and HG told me I wasn’t in so many words—I believe my narcissistic traits were used to survive at times and I was mixing survival mode up with my basic personality/sense of self. When not under the sphere of influence of constant abuse I’m much more “the basic me.” I couldn’t see the good qualities that had been muted/buried. At least I hope HG didn’t screw up my analysis!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Of course not.

      1. Lorelei says:

        But what if I’m a mid range narcissist and think the information I gave you is true! 🤷🏼‍♀️

        1. HG Tudor says:

          You are not.

          1. Lorelei says:

            So I’m just a run of the mill basket case. That is better than a narcissist at least! I just want to be normal.

    2. Narc noob says:

      What did you get Lorelei? 😊

      1. Lorelei says:

        Standard empath NN. I assumed with my consistent cheating behavior this was not possible. Well—I am leaning more toward it’s hard not to have affairs when someone doesn’t speak to you or demeans you for 10+ years. In fact, my primary motivation for my main affair was conversation and not sex. Bottom line—I still have zero guilt and maybe it’s a bit of blame shifting but I don’t care. My main affair was a fairly long term situation.

        1. Narc noob says:

          If you don’t carry any guilt that has some big benefits. I’d say after 10 years of bad experience with said partner would make any person who is looking after themselves, run. All the best. I’m sure things will work out and you don’t have too many obstacles (Ns) to work through! 🤞🤗

          1. Lorelei says:

            I guess it does have some benefits. Unfortunately the obstacle course is full of crap to sift through but it certainly isn’t boring trying to clean up the mess.

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