HG,
May I say you do have quite a beautiful, masculine arm. The forearm is symmetrically muscularly proportionate to the bicep. That is a nice physicality to behold in this day and age of the over-developed, meathead gym rat that seems to be touted as the masculine ideal of this generation. Also, your elbow is smooth and expertly exfoliated. Oh, to live the life of the beautiful people…at least I can peep. I am not ashamed to admit I would love to live the day in the life of an upper echelon citizen; someone confident, wealthy, connected, beautiful and liberated. Thanx for sharing the bits and pieces of your glamorous life. I’m still mourning the death of Robin Leach!
Dearest HG: We can make requests, like lisk just did? If so, I would like to request a cup that says: Outnumbered but Not Outgunned: I felt touched when you suggested that book for me. I felt like a Warrior Princess, for a change. I had a teardrop out of one of my eyes. Truth. Thank you. HG, How is it determined which of your books are in paperback or not? Are you planning to continue to have paperback books? I still like paperback even if that also is not politically correct to say, these days. Will the book, Outnumbered but not Outgunned, probably stay electronic? I can not get that book out of my mind. If not, I may just have to tip-toe carefully into the world of electronic books. I ordered the other 2 that you suggested in paperback: Sitting Target and Sex and the Narcissist. The Sitting Target book is coming from England. Can you believe that? Ever Presence for sure. Will I have the original covers or the new covers? I hope I receive the original, but I feel glad either way. I find it sort of exciting. I never had anything sent to me from a foreign country in all my life, until now. I hope there will be regular type stamps, but it is okay, if it is United Parcel Service, or something like that and mechanically stamped.
Logic Defenses On. The “O” is an i/o (on/off) symbol as on a computing device. It is a clever play on the symbol and its meaning. Buy one. Others will know.
I am a successful professional in California married 5 years to what I believe a mid range. To cut it short, he had a terrible childhood. Even taken out of school not Educated for years and taken from London in Somerset to serve what I think is a borderline maybe narcissist mum. She hated him to leave for me. With me he drives now at 47 in two countries, got employed, traveled and married and sober as I set boundaries. When good, all good. But his mum takes drastic steps from 14 months silent treatment when we got married. I wrote to her every month telling her that her son loves her… no reply. To last year she took a knife and stabbed herself writing her son hates me in blood on her door when he was returning home to me. She has no friends, never did, does not leave her home and her mother raised my husband as “ mum.” He got himself educated only his grandmothers last dying wish at 28. But had a heart attack at 37 and returned to his biological mum until 42 when I met him and later married. My question is: he does silent treatment, there was physical violence until he got sober and took dv classes. We are separated now. Could therapy save him? What if it’s learned behavior versus narcissism. How do you know? He suffers my baby and I want to help but I cannot tolerate the abuse. Won’t. Is their hope?
Kimberly, Welcome to the blog. You have a good heart and I am sorry you have been exposed to these obvious narcissistic behaviors (and perhaps mental ill behaviors on the part of the mom). I hope you get a consultation with HG soon and keep reading here. You can never change another and you deserve a life free from abuse. You have the opportunity to start fresh. I hope you do, and I wish you the very best as you go forward.
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HG,
May I say you do have quite a beautiful, masculine arm. The forearm is symmetrically muscularly proportionate to the bicep. That is a nice physicality to behold in this day and age of the over-developed, meathead gym rat that seems to be touted as the masculine ideal of this generation. Also, your elbow is smooth and expertly exfoliated. Oh, to live the life of the beautiful people…at least I can peep. I am not ashamed to admit I would love to live the day in the life of an upper echelon citizen; someone confident, wealthy, connected, beautiful and liberated. Thanx for sharing the bits and pieces of your glamorous life. I’m still mourning the death of Robin Leach!
Thank you EL. Yes, as I am an Elite, I am athletic but not On The ‘Roids.
I only see, “Once You Know You Go!”
Please, I would love a coffee mug that says:
GO
SO
There is one
Dearest HG: We can make requests, like lisk just did? If so, I would like to request a cup that says: Outnumbered but Not Outgunned: I felt touched when you suggested that book for me. I felt like a Warrior Princess, for a change. I had a teardrop out of one of my eyes. Truth. Thank you. HG, How is it determined which of your books are in paperback or not? Are you planning to continue to have paperback books? I still like paperback even if that also is not politically correct to say, these days. Will the book, Outnumbered but not Outgunned, probably stay electronic? I can not get that book out of my mind. If not, I may just have to tip-toe carefully into the world of electronic books. I ordered the other 2 that you suggested in paperback: Sitting Target and Sex and the Narcissist. The Sitting Target book is coming from England. Can you believe that? Ever Presence for sure. Will I have the original covers or the new covers? I hope I receive the original, but I feel glad either way. I find it sort of exciting. I never had anything sent to me from a foreign country in all my life, until now. I hope there will be regular type stamps, but it is okay, if it is United Parcel Service, or something like that and mechanically stamped.
Thank you for ordering.
I was wondering what the logo underneath the ‘Logic Defenses’ means? It looks like a “UN”
Logic Defenses On. The “O” is an i/o (on/off) symbol as on a computing device. It is a clever play on the symbol and its meaning. Buy one. Others will know.
Thank you, FYC. Yes, I like the Logic Defenses!
(said in voice of Bond villain):
“Ah! Flames logo! My old friend. I’ve been expecting you…”
I am a successful professional in California married 5 years to what I believe a mid range. To cut it short, he had a terrible childhood. Even taken out of school not Educated for years and taken from London in Somerset to serve what I think is a borderline maybe narcissist mum. She hated him to leave for me. With me he drives now at 47 in two countries, got employed, traveled and married and sober as I set boundaries. When good, all good. But his mum takes drastic steps from 14 months silent treatment when we got married. I wrote to her every month telling her that her son loves her… no reply. To last year she took a knife and stabbed herself writing her son hates me in blood on her door when he was returning home to me. She has no friends, never did, does not leave her home and her mother raised my husband as “ mum.” He got himself educated only his grandmothers last dying wish at 28. But had a heart attack at 37 and returned to his biological mum until 42 when I met him and later married. My question is: he does silent treatment, there was physical violence until he got sober and took dv classes. We are separated now. Could therapy save him? What if it’s learned behavior versus narcissism. How do you know? He suffers my baby and I want to help but I cannot tolerate the abuse. Won’t. Is their hope?
Therapy cannot save him.
https://narcsite.com/narc-detector/
Kimberly, Welcome to the blog. You have a good heart and I am sorry you have been exposed to these obvious narcissistic behaviors (and perhaps mental ill behaviors on the part of the mom). I hope you get a consultation with HG soon and keep reading here. You can never change another and you deserve a life free from abuse. You have the opportunity to start fresh. I hope you do, and I wish you the very best as you go forward.
FYC
You’re a treasure.
Caroline R, You are so kind. Thank you. Kimberly’s heart is the real treasure and I hope it will not be wasted another moment on these narcissists.