A Glimpse Of The Future
It is well known that our kind operate by the wearing of masks. We have learned how to portray those emotions which we do not feel. We have ascertained that in certain situations we are expected to respond in a particular way. We know that by donning a particular mask we are more likely to charm and seduce you. We are aware that maintaining a certain mask the vicious malevolence that lurks beneath can be kept in check so that we achieve acceptability and the advancement of our agendas. There are occasions when we will give you a glimpse of what lies beneath this mask. I am not referring to when we whip the mask off and subject you to devaluation. That is a purposeful and intended act on our part. I am not making reference to when the mask fractures as a consequence of the ignition of our fury and the lesser and mid-range of our kind are unable to keep the mask in place so that the ignited fury erupts and the malicious beast is unleashed. There are occasions however when we provide you with a fleeting glance beneath the mask as to what lies beneath. This will happen during the seduction period. Sometimes it is as a consequence of the effect of a particular agent, such as alcohol. Sometimes, especially with the greater of our kind, it is done as deliberate act in order to gauge your reaction. In such an instance, we tell you of what lies ahead to see if you baulk at the suggestion, or that more likely you respond in a sympathetic manner of even by way of denial.
“I couldn’t ever imagine you doing that.”
“That won’t happen with me though. It might have with other people but I will treat you better than they have.”
“You’re not like that, don’t be silly.”
“I don’t see you doing something like that, you are too nice.”
If you respond in such terms when you have been given such a warning, then this is a green light to us that we have you under our control and that you will accord with our desires and machinations. It also allows us, when we do eventually behave in the manner described down the line during the devaluation, to throw it back in your face by saying.
“I did warn you.”
“Why are you complaining? I was upfront that this would happen.”
“I told you so.”
“It’s no use crying about it now. I told you what I was like.”
“I told you and you chose to stay with me. It is your fault.”
Not only does this enable us to avoid blame, something we must achieve, it will also result in you reacting and providing us with fuel.
With the lesser or mid-range of our kind, these comments are more akin to thinking aloud. The mask does slip, unintentionally for a moment, through the explanation of a future behaviour before it is realised what has been said and the disclosure is brushed to one side, denied or passed off as a silly comment owing to drink or being tired. Why do these comments arise in such a manner from the lesser and mid-range of our kind? Is it guilt or remorse? No, because those emotions are not felt by our kind. It arises from a lack of control. The “bad” behaviour that will arise at some point is lurking beneath the surface and like a cat fighting to get out of a sack, it is always wanting to make an appearance but is prevented from doing so by the maintenance of the mask that is worn. Occasionally, through the loss of control – it may be drink, it may be fatigue, it may be through inattention – what lurks beneath makes a brief and fleeting appearance before the control is exerted once again. Here are fifteen portentous show and tells of our kind. Should you ever hear these comments you ought to pay heed to the warning that you are being given.
- I am a bad person really.
- I will only hurt you.
- You should stay away from me.
- I do bad things. I cannot help it. I always do.
- I will make you wish you had never met me.
- It will go wrong, it always does.
- You will end up hating me.
- You don’t know what you are getting into with me.
- You shouldn’t do this.
- You should leave while you can.
- This is going to turn out badly.
- I have to hurt people.
- I don’t want to hurt you, but I will.
- I just want to fit in.
- I’m not what you think I am.
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AR
At the beginning, “Trust” were every second word… He wanted me to trust him ! I told him , that “Trust” is something he had to earn…
Susisorglos
I had deja vu when i read your comment. But i see that you wrote your comment on 23th Sep.
And ?? I try to help… My
“transaction ” ( it’s nothing else) is long over..😉 But , I try to give some hope cause , I was there , where some readers be..
“I am not a human being. I don’t think and operate as normal human being(after i asked why did he say so?)”
“Don’t trust me”.
“I am omnipresent”
He was self-aware psychopath with whom i worked on few group projects.
One day he admitted to me about his feeling of emptiness and lack of conscience in person.
It will go wrong, it always does.
You will end up hating me
During one argument he said, “It always ends up here for me”
Meaning all roads with him end up in a dead end. A ditch. And I know I’m no different than any other sorry person who spent time with him.
They may despise us and feel the anticipation of fuel when we trust them, but I think there’s also a level of rage. How dare we proceed as if the universe were a benevolent place, when they have to look over their shoulders all the time, watching for potential rivals, watching for the inner hollowness to catch up to them at long last? How dare we be so placid in our silly hopes of a Happy Ending, when they know it’s all going to turn to dust and ashes? Boy, are they gonna work us over for that optimism! Why should we expect any kind of long-term fulfillment when they have to go searching for a new source of blood every time they finish draining the old one, or the taste just palls?
He sent me a picture with a saying:” Good Girls go bad, because bad Boys don’t treat them right.”
Another hint was, that he told me,just at the beginning, that he will not take any sh** . There are so many others… I was wondering, how can you start a ” relationship ” with this message ??
But at this time, I didn’t knew with what I’m dealing with…. The funny thing about it is, that they betray themselves…
Makes sense now ….and I have heard this shit before yet another point awarded to hg
During the golden period with my ex lesser, he used to tell me that a lot of people hate him. I would say “who could hate you” or “what’s there to hate”.
Then after we moved in together he always said
” I bet you had no clue what you were getting into when you got together with me” I thought he was joking.
I THINK I’VE HEARD AT LEAST 8 OFTHESE. COMMENTS. DID THEY SCARE ME AWAY? NO ! WHY ? MAYBE BECAUSE I WAS GROOMED FOR THIS KIND OF B.S. BY MY PARENTS , I WATCHED IT FOR 18 YEARS , I LIVED WITH IT. FOR SO LONG. SOME OF US THINK WE ARE INSANE BECAUSE WE CAN TAKE IT OVER,AND OVER AGAIN. WE JUST HAVE LEARNED. EARLY ON THAT WE’RE DESIGNED TO BE OTHERS WHIPPING BOARD. THEN H.G. TUDOR COMES ALONG CHANGES EVERYTHING . FOR THE BEST. KEEP LEARNING FROM THE BEST, HE’S A GENUINE GOD SEND TO US .⭐💯 THANK YOU HG. SINCERELY SHARON
I agree!! 😀
Love your comment, but why are you yelling?
MAI51 I’M SORRY , NOT YELLING. I HAD A MINI STROKE AT 35 YEARS OLD , I COULDN’T SPEAK AND LOST MY VISION IN THE LEFT EYE . THEN MY SPEECH CAME BACK , BUT, MY EYE IS STILL VERY BAD. SOOOO I HAVE TO USE CERTAIN WAYS. TO TYPE ..🔥👍👍 THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENT 💃
I’m sorry to hear that….. I appreciate you explaining and I hope you continue to recover…. that must have been a terrifying experience x
YES IT WAS . MY HUSBAND AND I WORKED FOR A PUBLISHING COMPANY , WE HAD OUR OFFICES AT HOME MY WORK WAS MOSTLY SPEAKING ON THE TELEPHONE & THROUGH THE MAIL. REALLY DIDN’T UNDERSTAND WHAT HAD HAPPENED TO ME THE DAY BEFORE ,( I LATER BECAME A NURSE AT 43 YEARS OLD ) BUT THAT DAY AFTER MY WONDERFUL CEREBRAL NARCISSIST HUSBAND (NOW PASSED AWAY ) SAID WHEN HE HEARD ME SPEAKING ON THE PHONE TO OUR CLIENTS , ” TAKE THE MARBLES OUT OF YOUR MOUTH , YOU SOUND LIKE YOUR RETARDED. I COULDN’T EVEN SAY THE NAME OF THE COMPANY , I COULDN’T EVEN SAY MY OWN NAME .😷🙊👓.
It’s worth yelling about! Lol
KELLY D. I SHOULD ADD — ALSO HE TOLD ME EARLY ON ( I WILL DESTROY YOU , I WILL WRECK YOU ) AND STUPID ME THOUGHT , WOW – WHAT A NUTS SENSE OF HUMOR. #16 ON THE LIST ❗❗❗❗😈
How about “I’ll never leave my wife. You deserve better.” ??
LEAVE MY WIFE. WELL HE,S RIGHT ON THAT ONE , YOU CERTAINLY DO DESERVE BETTER , MUCH BETTER THAN HIM ❗❗❗❗❗❗