The Ten Tests of Competing Prospects




I have grown weary of the incumbent primary supply. The fuel that ought to be provided at a premium level has become diminished in quantity and quality. Whilst it still flows as part of the devaluation that continues, the time has come to audition for your replacement. I am courting you following my usual preparatory work once you have been targeted and I have now commenced your seduction. You are not alone. I am seducing someone else as well. It makes sense to have an insurance policy after all. You won’t know about this competitor (at least not yet) but believe me that when you are in the early stages of being seduced by our kind, it is highly likely that I was seducing someone else. In order to identify the best source of fuel so we choose the most effective primary source, we will set a number of tests. These tests are not so arduous that they will risk the seduction failing, but are designed to ascertain which of the two, or more, competing prospects provides the best fuel. This current performance amounts to a strong indicator of future performance. Here are ten of the tests that are commonly utilised.


  1. Sending the same text message to both prospects to see who responds the fastest.
  2. Sending the same text message to both prospects without concerns as to the speed of reply but as to which provides the best fuel-laden response.
  3. Arranging a date with both prospects and then cancelling (with a view to re-arranging of course) to determine who is the most disappointed and which of the prospects tries to keep the date alive by making adjustments and alternative suggestions.
  4. Calling both prospects in the middle of the night to see who answers.
  5. Sending the same gift at the same time to see who thanks us the fastest and in the most appreciative manner.
  6. If sexual coupling has occurred at this early juncture, then sleeping with you both in the space of 24 hours (or less) in order to determine who is the more fuel accomplished lover.
  7. Feigning a minor emergency and seeing who responds the fastest and with the greatest concern and compassion.
  8. Suggesting a date when I know that the prospects have something else on to see who will break their existing engagement in order to see me.
  9. Having a lieutenant try to arrange a date with you to see if you rebuff him and make mention of me.
  10. Holding a social media challenge to see how many likes, re-tweets, comments each prospect applies to my postings in a three-day period to see who posts the most and provides the most fuel.


Not only does this contest between the two prospects provide us with plenty of fuel coming from two fuel lines, it enables us to determine who we should focus our greater efforts on to ensure they are seduced and become our intimate partner and primary source. If the contest is too close to call after the ten tests above, then additional tests will be applied and the ten above will be re-run also. The winner becomes our intimate partner but the loser does not go home empty handed, not at all. They are likely to be awarded the status of inner or outer circle friend and they will be kept within our sphere of influence as a supplier of fuel. They also a future role to play in a prospective triangulation and there may even be a promotion in the offing at some point….

15 thoughts on “The Ten Tests of Competing Prospects

  1. SMH says:

    Kim e, If you are reading this, feigning a minor emergency. That is what he did when he quit his job and into the following weeks when he asked for my concern and compassion, which I gave. Actually, it all started with him not getting a job for which he had applied. Then he quit the other one. This is one of the ways in which I felt like he thought I was competing with IPPS, even though I was not.

    1. Kim e says:

      SMH…….Or possibly other options with other people. How many IPSS’s do you think he had?

      1. SMH says:

        Kim e, I do not know for sure but I intuit that there were none during the affair part (there was at least one before, while I was away, and one three months after my escape). This is partly because I told him as a condition that I was to be the only one or there would be hell to pay. That’s not to say it could not have happened virtually, flirting, etc, but for about a year I am quite certain that I was the only IPSS. I do not think he had a very extensive fuel matrix on that level. He had many demands on his time (which was true as I knew from IG) and traveled a lot to places where he would not have affairs (for instance, you don’t sleep around where HIV is rampant or where you have to travel with an armed guard). I emailed with IPPS in part because I suspected he had another IPSS and he resisted using condoms. I truly did want IPPS to protect herself if my intuition was correct.

  2. Violetta says:

    I flunked repeatedly. Oh dear.

  3. Christopher Jackson says:

    I see that you are in a white three quarter length lab coat walking around looking at your nominees kill themselves in order to see what manipulative tactics can be used…just like a hamster running around air circles…going nowhere fast thank you for sharing

  4. Patrick Bateman says:

    I understand that… Recently i was seducing two females to see which was the best attention provider… Unfortunately I’m living proof of true extremism, in regards to one of them i cut off ties with her because she spent more time on facebook then talking with me, (i triangulated her with the app)… I was mad that she would watch television while on video chat instead of giving me undivided attention, when i turned my phone on in the morning i was not lavished with a bombardment of text messages from her,,,, she would hang up the video chat first without delays of i love you and hanging on until “i decide” to end the call….. These are just some of the reasons why i can’t make it work

  5. Lori says:

    Is this possible with ipss s ? I feel like the narc did this with the ipss s not the ipps as he is an anchor type and been married a long time but it seemed to me he puts peroectuvr ipss s against each other in which he crowns one candidate

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It is possible yes. If you want to understand a specific scenario use this
      that is what it has been created for.

  6. Teah Brandell says:

    I am currently in the disengagement phase of my narcissistic relationship. I’ve been on YouTube for about 12 hours this whole week, listening to nothing but HD Tudor repeatedly to help me cope and gain understanding of this situation. As the post the reads above… I found out that my narc was doing the exact same thing. I had enough of the triangulation I was recently involved in and I was compelled to do some snooping through my narc’s things…. I was able to find out that it was not just me and the secondary in the harem, but several other women. I was the primary, then my narc made me the secondary overnight! I found out that during the duration of our 2-year relationship, my narc had at least three women he devalued at one time from three different cities (I found letters, cards and pictures). Women were saving money for him, had their lives on hold, buying homes in hopes of building a life with him and sending pornographic pictures of themselves. As HD Tudor mentioned above, my narc did about five of those things and I saw the evidence with my own eyes. I was fortunate enough to be enlightened where the other women are not enlightened. Three women had his signature tattooed on their bodies, thinking they were the only ones. Involvement with a narcissist is a very serious matter. Like HG Tudor stated many times… “Once You Know, You Go!!”. I have blocked all contact. He tried to call me from a private number and I just ignored the private number. It is the hardest relationship that I’ve had to get over. I have felt depressed for weeks leading up to this. But HD Tudor’s material is helping me to get out of this dark place right now. It is still a process that I. But I have to continuously read his material. May have to set up a consultation if it continues to get worse because these emotions are creeping up on me with a vengeance!!!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It would serve you excellent well to establish a consultation sooner rather than later, in light of what you have written, Teah.

      1. Teah Brandell says:

        Thank you HG, you’ll be hearing from me before this coming weekend. Gives me something to look forward to.

  7. cogra002 says:

    Exactly what happens. Exactly. I didn’t know at the time, of course. Now I know the signs.
    I did experience most of this, and can tell I did well on these tests. My responses and fuel hit the required spots. Still, discard had to happen. The connection with our videos is a huge dose of Narc heroin.
    All shots of Narc heroin. Who wants to party??

    1. Desirée says:

      Narc heroin! But as Bibi said, I’d rather snort a line of ants.

      1. cogra002 says:

        Well it’s how they addict us, once we’ve passed the tests. The lovebombing is (40) shots of Narc heroin a day.

    2. Narcmare says:

      I have been the prospect before but didn’t realize it at the time. Thank you for pointing out the signs so we recognize them.

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