This place is a world leading resource for the provision of information and insight that promotes true understanding and enables people to gain control from often seemingly hopeless situations and achieve freedom. Through my articles, books and the answers I provide each day on the blog, hundreds of thousands of people have found the accurate and critical information necessary to understand their entanglement with a narcissist.
For those who seek specific answers on how to beat their narcissists and achieve freedom and embrace all associated with gaining such an accomplishment, it is necessary to attain access to the content of my various Private Consultations, Logic Defences and Assistance Packages.
For a variety of reasons these critical services are inaccessible by many. Several empathetic readers have donated generously in the past to these individuals and this was the catalyst for my creation of the Angel Assistance Fund to enable the delivery of bespoke consultations for those who otherwise would be denied such crucial assistance.
Here is one Angel’s story, the request for help and their gratitude after receiving help
“I first want to say that I am so grateful to have stumbled across this site and that there is clear and no nonsense information for those of us who have been impacted by those of your kind. I am in no way hostile of you as I think you even the score in a way, and I am fascinated with the way your mind works; indeed the way everyone’s mind works. Just not the emotional damage. But I wasn’t involved with you. The fact that there is this fund is amazing because the devastation caused by narcissistic abuse is so far reaching that it traumatises for years, preventing just the foundation of healing sometimes as we struggle just to get our feet on the ground.
I find it really uncomfortable to ask for help here, not only because I am sure that there are many who need it and I like to handle things on my own.
As a single mother of a high functioning autistic son, living in California, I was definitely not in a position to withstand the several years’ worth of emotional, psychological, and mental fallout that spending years with a narcissist does and finally it has affected my work and therefore my income.
After escaping that entanglement 8 months ago I had to move from my house of five years in the middle of a housing shortage (due to fires here). After months of suggestion from my doctors and bosses, I finally have had to take medical leave from work beginning in September to deal with the effects of complex ptsd before they get any worse. They are affecting my ability to work anyway. I already struggle with bills.
After coming to your blog I realised that my grandfather who abused me was a narcissist, I have had 3 since then. I still hate the term victim. The way I have survived I suppose is to be a warrior and not wallow. But it sinks in. I didn’t have a word for it. Despite an education. You don’t see it when you live in it.
To make matters worse, my son’s father, whom I divorced 6 years ago, is also a narcissist I think, a highly verbally abusive, passive aggressive type who recently got into a tussle with the police who now has a hurt elbow and has gone on medical leave, effectively cutting child support in half, and so a third of my income. I am not a slacker, in fact, I decided instead of slowing down, I took on a second job. That’s who I am. I compartmentalise, I put the horrors aside when I was last being devalued, discarded him, got to work escaping, moved, got a new roof over our heads, took a second job, worked more, and handled all the ensuing crises. Now I have come to the point where I am shutting down finally. So here I am and I need help, please.
I asked you for help and you all delivered.
The assistance I have received from HG and the Angel Assistance Fund has been profound to say the least in my ongoing journey to recovery from my narcissists. Unfortunately for many of us, the toll that narcissists take on us emotionally, mentally, physically and financially can be devastating whether or not we provided anything to them financially. After being stripped of self-esteem, our sense of security and reality, and left dumb struck by the multiple levels of abuse; it is often all we can do just to get through the day and try to get out bed, work, raise our families, all the while we are searching for answers, solace, sanity, and help. Usually this “help” has a steep price and quite often is not appropriate and can re-traumatize us as well as costing us financially. After 13 years of narcissistic abuse, the last four being sandwiched between two while trying to parent my son, I was depleted in every way possible. I had spent money on therapists, a couple of online self-help programs that did not help and were redundant, and performed poorly at work so I lost income despite taking on a second job. I had also moved house which helped cut ties but also had a steep financial cost.
Then I found HG’s work and all the pieces fell together. My experience was put into words; there was no fluff. I knew I had found the right place and the right person to give me the answers I needed; who better than a narcissist himself to give the tools to take back my power. I read everything I could, and knew I needed more and purchased what I could but knew I needed more. Then I saw the Angel Assistance Fund opportunity. At first I was hesitant about asking for help; but it has proved to be worth its weight in gold.
I am so grateful to you all, I feel less scared and for the first time in a long time I feel in control of my life and those who depend on me. I cannot measure how valuable that feeling is.
Due to my situation, I needed assistance on several levels. Both as a co-parent on one side, and a partner of a completely different presentation of narcissist on the other. In recovering from one and learning more, I uncovered the other. So thankfully I received assistance with more than one package.
I am able to review the audio packages often and I do, as they reinforce that I do indeed have more power than I thought. I could not have done this financially without the Angel Assistance Fund and I am sure I would still be at the receiving end of manipulations I can sidestep, as well as reverting to emotional thinking about both narcissists which keeps us trapped whether or not we are in a formal relationship or not. The Angel Assistance Fund allows those of us who have lost so much already, and are willing to take the blinders off and keep them off, to receive the guidance which will truly get us free.
Thank you so much to HG and Angel Assistance Fund. I am happy to contribute whatever I can to the fund as I am recovering to pay it forward for the rest of us in need and who are willing to listen and assimilate the information.
I know many of you will relate to this Angel’s struggle, as well as the pleas from many more Angels awaiting my highly effective assistance. Please do not hesitate to donate today to assist these Angels in need. Please use the PayPal button below.
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Angels in need of my services may email me at email@example.com to seek assistance in accordance with a short protocol which has been devised to ensure fairness in this process.
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Should the fund be in credit on each 6 monthly anniversary of its creation that sum will be donated to charity and I will conduct a poll to let readers choose a relevant charity for the donations to be sent to and the fund will start once again.