The Greater Narcissist Knows and Waits


You have been disengaged from, but the Greater has experienced a Hoover Trigger but he knows what he is, he knows what you are and moreover he knows what to expect.

It’s just a question of time.

He will wait…..

Listen here

24 thoughts on “The Greater Narcissist Knows and Waits

  1. Veronique Jones says:

    I don’t think my narcissist knows me very well I am not the like most empathic people I don’t chase anyone he pushed me away and I let him go something I learned the hard way foolish to take him back

  2. FoolMe1Time says:

    “ Feeling unknown and you’re all alone, flesh and bone by telephone/Lift up the receiver, I’ll make you a believer.”
    This one always reminds me of this song, and so it plays in my head time and time again!

    1. Sweetest Perfection says:

      FM1T, “reach out and touch faith”!

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Haha my friend! “ I feel you, Your heart it sings!” 🥰

        1. Sweetest Perfection says:

          I love that one!

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            Me too, and this one! “I’ll take you to the highest mountain, To the depths of the deepest sea.”
            That’s all now, don’t want to anger the man up above! Thanks HG, for letting these through!

          2. Sweetest Perfection says:

            I listened to Halo last night. I wonder why …

          3. FoolMe1Time says:

            I wonder! That song is one of my favorites. The power in words are amazing!

          4. Sweetest Perfection says:

            Haha there’s no mystery, FM1T. It’s because we received the article entitled “You Wear Guilt” last night. Or my last night, as I know people here live in different time zones.

  3. A says:

    Does a person’s position in the fuel matrix make a difference to the greater narcisists thinking (intimate sources only) – specifically a candidate IPPS who was put on the shelf for only a few weeks and then escaped?

    Short relationship of 6 months, we had apartment together (funded by him), he was a greater, cerebral narcisist (successful entrepreneur, on UK rich list at one time, blah, blah), and anchor narc – long suffering wife and kids, all of which I was introduced to as his new partner and triangulated with.

    Is it only the actually embedded IPPS’s that are are subject to the thinking you make reference to (in your truly fascinating blog that ‘saved’ me from the horrendous fate that was planned)?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hello A-
      The person’s position in the fuel matrix is a material consideration with regard to the application of the Hoover Execution Criteria and therefore in turn with regard to how the Greater Narcissist views and interacts with that individual.

      If you want input on your specific situation, I need more information in order to provide you with accuracy and suggest you organise a consultation.

  4. fauxfur5 says:

    It reminds me of the Yorkshire Ripper tapes that circulated years ago. cocky and oily but with menace. It’s all a bit Hammer Horror to me.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Wearside Jack sends his regards.

    2. alexissmith2016 says:

      hmmmm on a side note, I’ve noticed Ripperologists tend to be midrangers who believe they’re greaters

      That is based on a sample size of 3/3 whom I’ve only known for about an hour.

      A fair assumption HG?

      1. Renarde says:


        I would not say that I am a Ripperologist. Occasionally, I do frequent the forum but simply to see if there have been any new developments.
        I DO see plenty of males cock-waving so I think you are correct there.

        On and on they drone. Almost completely missing the point that out of the canonical five, four were ripped upon on the street with Mary-Jane Kelley but utterly torn apart in a way that is extremely unusual. I have written about this on my blog. I have a shrewd idea of who did it and it also resolves another mystery, the Jack the Ripper diary which surfaced in the 90’s.

        It IS a fake but also it isn’t. It was written by the Ripper but he frames his own brother. This makes a lot of sense because no scientific test has ever shown it to be a fake.

        It is a contemporaneous account of circumstances in 1888.

        It wasn’t just the five either. It goes far more than that. A young boy child was murdered in the Midlands in HORRIFIC circumstances. That poor lad’s PM has STILL not been released into the public domain. It should have been. Is that not the point of the Coroners’ office? Or am I being dumb?

        What possible reason could there be to withhold this? Even now. The boy wasn’t important so there murderer must have been.

        JtR was a Greater. Cerebral I’d say.

        Well said, Alexis.

        1. alexissmith2016 says:

          Ah I was making a bit of a sweeping statement tbh. Each time I have a friend over from outside the UK they always want to go on a Jack the Ripper tour. I’m happy to go and it is interesting. But each of the guides have been mids (probably who believe they’re greaters – you can see it in their eyes). So I was generalising rather a lot Hahahah. But yes I agree I’m sure jack, whomever he was was a greater/pure psychopath.

  5. Please HG, what goes through the mind of the Narcissist when we finally stop reaching out?

    Do you wonder why? Or not think of us at all?

    Do you run through what went wrong, that we are now retreating? Or not think of us at all?

    Does it make you itch to reach out when you know that we aren’t coming back again? Or not think of us at all?

    Are we completely removed from your minds unless there is a trigger?
    Do you ever daydream of us and reminisce?

    Or are we completely forgetable?

      1. It was good to read this. Thanks HG!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          You are welcome STBS.

  6. Oh my god HG.

    It’s that purring. You have it to. It is hypnotic. It causes one to hold her breath and then later, to hyperventilate. Pushing in headphones, so hard that it hurts, so as not to miss a split second.

    It’s a weapon! And it’s a deadly one at that.

    I need every single aspect of “no contact” covered or I am in very, very big trouble.

    5 months since he had made contact and I haven’t contacted him in ages (er…a month), so I am safe for now at least. I will NOT be contacting him again, now that I know that it’s utterly pointless.

    But God help me please, if he comes knocking. I could resist a txt. An email. But that purr. That f*cking purr…!

    How can something of such spectacular beauty be capable of masquerading such malice?

    There is f*ckery afoot!

    1. MB says:

      STBS, I’m with you on this one. I love a good purr/soft growl. I also know the pressing of the headphones onto the ears. Glad it’s not just me!

  7. Sweetest Perfection says:

    Damn this is good. I almost called you, HG! Haha. I actually could imagine my narc saying the last line: contact me contact me.

    1. Sweetest Perfection says:

      ***though he’s far from being a greater. Fortunately for me.

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