How To Stop the Hoovers : Assistance Package
The hoover and the narcissist. They go together like gin and tonic, cheese and onion and Laurel and Hardy. Where there is a narcissist, there comes hoovers – whether they are benign or malign, they will happen and you need to know how to stop them.
In this detailed Assistance Package you will learn about
- How the different schools of narcissist operate with regard to hoovers
- Why does the narcissist hoover?
- What does the narcissist want to obtain from you?
- Why do victims struggle to prevent hoovers?
- What the two fundamental elements are with regard to hoovering
- Your part in the success or failure with regard to preventing hoovers
- The role salami slicing plays in hoovers and how it is so dangerous
- The Hoover Carriers
- The need to Close the Bridges
- A wide range of tips and techniques to help you Close the Bridges
- Identification of the key areas to enable you to stop the hoovers
- What forces the narcissist to go elsewhere
- How to avoid advertising yourself for hoovers
This material is unsurpassed and will not be found anywhere else. It is available for a limited time at the discounted rate of just US $ 50 for a jam-packed audio file delivered by email and is an essential part of your toolkit for Knowing and Beating The Narcissist.
Do not delay, get weaponised today.
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Like cheese and onion? That must be a British saying!
HG,
Im sure they are worth every penny.
Ok.. how do I do that??? Consultation
Obtain the Assistance Package
I have sent an email
So if my x narc discarded me but said he would love to talk to me if we can be nice to each other but yet when I accuse him of having sex with the 18 yo that works with him hes 65 he gets mad says when I talk crazy shit that’s when he blocks me.. it’s been 3 days since I’ve been blocked and said to me on 12/15/19 best we lose all contact then on 1/11/2020 says hed love to talk why does he say that?? Why does he block me for weeks then unblocks me?? If he has new supply why does he still try to keep in contact
Hello Hayla,
Based on the information provided
1. I prefer disengagement to the term discard. Since you are still in contact with one another you may have not have been disengaged from.
2. Your status in the Fuel Matrix needs to be ascertained :-
a. If you are the IPPS there may not have been disengagement, but rather devaluation
b. If you are the IPPS there may have been disengagement and you are now being hoovered.
c. If you are an IPSS, you are being hoovered and treated in a shelf manner.
I need more information from you to ascertain this accurately and this requires a consultation.
You are blocked to assert control over you because that is what he unconsciously needs. He then contacts you because he wants to ascertain he has control over you and there has been a Hoover Trigger and the Hoover Execution Criteria have been met. He will block and unblock as a consequence of
1. How you are behaving towards him
2. His need for control
3. Other factors in his Fuel Matrix – for instance, how he is interacting with other people as this impacts on this need for control over you.
The all encompassing answer is that based on him being a narcissist, he does all of this to achieve The Prime Aims, first and foremost of which is fuel and control. If you want to understand more about the dynamics of all of this and to ensure you put an end to it, there is much more to convey to you and much more information needed from you and this requires a consultation.
This was something I told nick about 4 months in the relationship.. the blocking and unblocking thing.. the breaking up repeatedly. I asked if it was a control issue. If he was trying to be in control.
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Last week I almost passed out at work. Scared the boss because I kept getting lower to the floor. Told her I was out on a med temporarily to get through stuff. Spilled the beans.
She talked with me about no contact. Asked if I had him blocked. Told her that he blocked me. She asked about his friends. They were still in my fb. She told me I needed to remove them. I balled. And I described Hoover’s. Told her he would come around again possibly.
That night I went to check on my fb group. Had to open my messenger.. his icon was there….wth? Heart pounding. I click on it.. the messages were unblocked. He unblocked me..his profile I could see again… i was unblocked only what i saw was the last thing I saw posted 2 months ago. But I know hes had other things because my friend showed me a pic thinking I might be disgusted at how awful he looks.
Anyways, I knew he may contact me. I dont want to hear anything: ( I feel like I posted this somewhere but dont recall getting comments. That day was our 2 year anniversary. I balled.
I blocked him. Now he cant do the block and unblock game with me. And I deleted his friends. Still cry over that. I LOVED. .these people. I love nearly everyone!!! I want to see them all grow and prosper in life.
One day they might want answers. I dont want to move on in life and wasted 2 years with incredible people. They were trying ttto help all along. Listening ttto me cry etc. His best friend is so dear to me. I love her. I love them all.
Some days I am making notes in my hone of all the things I want to tell her. She was with a narcissist. Lessor. And she is who I went to back in august with my concerns. She didnt think nick was an N because he would always ask hher” what am i doing wrong”?
She was so patient. Anyways, I know she hasn’t reached out since the last time I spoke to him. And honestly, we were supposed to hang out one day when we were both still.toogether. she never replied and it was consistent with her character and also what nick said she does. So I dropped it. I’m tired of begging people to be available or a friend. I deserve better than that.
But kind been wondering if triangulation was occurring because one day nick asked if I hung out with her and I said no. She had to go to work early. Just not sure who to believe anymore. Not sure if it’s real or if hes pitting us all against each other.
Also, physical contact with the N is a no no. I dont like to communicate any other way unless I have too. I like body language mixed with tone of voice. I can understand people better.
I got scared again, Ns like physical contact for .my same reasoning.. he always told me he thought I was an N. And that his ex wife shanna he thought was an N.
I just studied communication along with relationships or personality and if you want to understand best… then you need more than text or voice. But since I know that and prefer it am I being narcissistic or simply doing what’s best?
If someone is a Narc and ask to take a narc detector, can you find they are a narc if they are unaware and they rewrite history and project etc?
Thanks everyone!!
You don’t take it on yourself
“You dont take it on yourself”
What’s that?
There were several paragraphs in that vent.. not sure what the reply was in regard to.
If someone is a narc, and asks to take the consultation, will a middle or lesser be detected if they dont see what they do themselves?
To anyone who reads, I’m trying to figure out just how necessary it is to find out if I’m a narc or empath?. Or do I just assume I know what I am? I’ve been asking this a couple times. Will it help me quite a bit? Or is that something to learn down the road?
You do not take the NDC with regard to yourself.
Take the EDC.
HR777
I believe the most important start is to know what you are rather than to try to figure out what someone else is or why they do the things they do. None of that is important until after you know where you fit. The Empath Detector will help you better make sense of all of the information offered as it applies to you and you will be better able to focus instead of second guessing, which is causing your confusion.
honesty – definitely worth doing the ED test!
I waited far longer than I wished I had. Like many others I kept wondering was I in fact a narc? Sometimes I thought I was, other times not. The fact you consider it a possibility means you’re not a narc. A greater would either know, for certain know. A mid wouldn’t even question it they would presume they are not.
But to know what type of empath you are and how you fit into the dynamics of being entangled with a narc are invaluable.
Just knowing allows you to analyse yourself more. In knowing, you can in effect predict your own behaviour based on this and understand why you respond to the narc the way you do, what changes you need to make etc.
Well worth it. I toyed with the thought for far too long.
I’d be interested in this package, but I’d prefer a written file because audio is more difficult for me, Italian, to understand. Is it possibile?
Not at this stage, no.
Hello Stella, at this juncture it is not available as text.
Mr Tudor
As it was only this week I learned from you that the hoover occurs also as part of seduction, is it possible to expand on that issue deeper in an AP?
I am very very interested.
The AP will cover all types of hover, including those in seduction. If you want specific information about the topic, bespoke to your situation, please do organise a consultation with me and I will be pleased to assist you further.