Kicking The Hornet´s Nest
Does the narcissist keep coming after you?
Are you being repeatedly hoovered?
Want to know what to avoid doing to provoke the narcissist?
Need to understand why the narcissist will not leave you alone?
You need to grasp the concept of “Kicking The Hornet´s Nest”
Through this Logic Bulletin you will gain more insight and understanding into why the narcissist behaves as he or she does, through a plethora of examples so you can ensure that you never got stung again.
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Hi HG, narcissist I was dating 3 years ago (I was his IPSS and I am in no contact with him, he is blocked) does a creepy thing – he is trying to steal my friends or people I am in contact with. When he sees I am close to someone and I like this person (you cant hide everything on social media and its been 3 years!) he tries to befriend this person and love bomb them (even though they are males). This is strange because he has IPPS for a year. And during those 3 years he wasnt wasting his time, he was dating numerous people. But still he cant let go some kind of influence on me even though I moved on, dont contact him, do not talk about him, he cant contact me, nada. But he is always in the shadows.
If I like someone, we talk on social media, I can count to three and… there he is – he tries to steal this person’s attention and direct it at him. He is kind to them, he tries to charm them with knowledge and sense of humour. He doesnt go deep with them, he just wants to show me they could like him better or I dont know… Why does he do this? I do not react.
Firstly, I suspect part of your perception of this situation is being affected by emotional thinking. This is common. He may not be approaching them as keenly as you may believe. This needs to be stated and assessed. Secondly, if this is occurring with the regularity you state, then he is asserting control over you indirectly through them. You are entering his sphere of influence on social media and thus his narcissism is alerted to your presence with the response to assert control. Consult with me and I shall explain in further detail what is going on and what you can do about it.