Why did the narcissist choose you?
How did he or she go about deciding that you were the ideal target for him to launch his campaign of seduction upon?
Did you do something to attract the attentions of this dangerous foe?
This direct and comprehensive book will enable you to understand what it is that the varying types of narcissist look for when they are searching for victims. Whether you wish to prevent it happening again or you need to understand why you were chosen, this book will deliver the answers in an uncompromising and straight forward manner.
What are the things that various types of narcissist look for?
How do they go about establishing their targets satisfy those traits?
What are the Special Traits which attract all narcissists?
Where are their hunting grounds and which is the most dangerous?
Who does the narcissist go after and why are certain people left alone?
What does the narcissist mean when he or she is looking for green lights?
These questions and more are answered in this hard-hitting and unsettling look into why the narcissist chooses you.
3 thoughts on “Sitting Target”
I read it! VERY good book and a real eye opener!! I always have been proud of being an empathic, sensitive person who is ready to help others, who loves animals, who is honest, who is emotional (a bit hot temper though), warm and caring, compassionate, decent, supportive: I´m the perfect target. Became “only” a supplementary source (“inner circle friend”) of a passive-aggressive Mid Ranger. But now I know exactly why I have been chosen and what this person wants from me.
Thank you for doing so.
There are some funny scenes where HG describes the Lesser Victim Narc going to a pottery class or something and then, ‘showing off his general incompetence,’ to gain sympathy.
HG says something along the lines of, ‘The Lesser Victim Narc, is a truly pathetic creature,’ which I found hilarious, as I have known at least 2!
One sent a mass email after not hearing from him for a decade asking for money–didn’t even address it to me or ask how anyone was doing–just me, me me and the other was this artist I knew who would put himself down just so he could get compliments.
Yet then if I disagreed with him about some trite idea he would defend it vehemently. So clearly he had very strong opinions but just wanted sympathy and compliments when it came to himself.
I don’t do well with Victim Narcs, as I feel I have very little empathy for them. Both these guys were world traveled and grew up wealthy but neither wanted to hold a job. Boo fucking hoo. I don’t usually attract them or if I do they don’t stick around long.