Smearing and Smear Campaigns
This Logic Bulletin provides you with clarity, understanding and a further foundation in the creation of your Logic Defences so you reduce your Emotional Thinking and achieve freedom from the narcissist and narcissistic abuse.
This Logic Bulletin covers :´
What is the purpose of a Smear Campaign?
Who uses the Smear Campaign?
How are they used by Greater Narcissists?
How are they used by Mid Range Narcissists?
How are they used by Lesser Narcissists?
What prompts the Smear Campaign?
How your behaviour relates to the Smear Campaign.
How your actions will assist you in avoiding Smear Campaigns.
How you are actually overly concerned about the Smear Campaign when you need not be.
How smearing is used against the IPPS and Former IPPS
How smearing is used against the Shelf IPSS or DLS
How smearing is used against NISSs
It will give you reassurance through the removal of many misconceptions about Smear Campaigns and enable you to avoid them, stop prolonging them and cause you to be able to ignore them far more readily.
HG , when you have smeared your Narc why is he still with you and have not disengaged. Very surprising.
Your behaviour did not cause a disengagement trigger and there has not been anything else which has caused a disengagement trigger, therefore he remains with you as IPPS.
Thank you so much for answering my question HG. I will need to change my behaviour and ignore him then.
The narc isn’t smearing his ex. He says he’s in love with her and only ever says nice things about her. Why?
To triangulate her with you.
Why is it that narcissists are so good at smearing but empaths suck at it ?! Even though we are the ones telling the truth we always somehow manage to make ourselves look like idiots haha. Must be that Narc over confidence when delivering information. Silence is my best friend ! haha.
1. You do not need to control people in the way we do.
2. You are often governed by your ET when trying to “debunk” a smear and end up making the mistakes which are set out in the book Smeared and this logic bulletin.
What I’ve discovered about your comment #1 recently is that as a co dependant I often try (keyword being try) to have a lot of control over situations. For example, while dating my narc I would put off parts of my life to be around him more in attempt to stop behaviours like drinking, drugs, cheating etc. In trying to control him… he was completely controlling me (no surprise) but it good to admit this to myself. I now understand my approach needs to be different. Because I can’t control anyone. And if I try… they will only end up consuming me and controlling me. I’m better off focusing on what feels right for me instead of attempting to rescue someone… we are all responsible for ourselves.
Very right, E007.
❤️ hope you’ve been well Lisk 🤗
HG, is this Logic Bulletin not available at the lockdown discount? (I could not find the discount code box.)
No, this one is not included in the discount.