20 Things HG Loves/20 Things HG Hates (Right Now)
Do you want to know what your favourite narcissistic psychopath loves right now and also what he hates right now? Do you want a glimpse into his mind to gain insight into the way he looks at the world? Do you want to experience black and white thinking? Of course you do.
Dive in and find out in this special and limited edition recording the twenty things which HG loves and the twenty things which HG hates RIGHT NOW and why.
HG I’m confused is this the third edition of love/hate? Either way it doesn’t matter to me because hearing your voice makes me happy! I’m also happy to be back on the blog! It’s been awhile and I was caught up in a love connection, or so I thought. Met a very nice guy on a dating app. Went out with him three times and I was so excited because there were no red flags and he was so nice. But not overly nice. He talked about things we could do on future dates and seemed to like me and I really liked him. Then today he texted me and said he met someone else but thinks I’m a wonderful person and wishes me luck. I’ve been heart broken all day. It might seem ridiculous after three dates but I thought we could have something. Anyway I’m just happy to be back!
No, this is the first one. There are two Love/Hate packages.
Welcome back CandaceMarie.
Thank you NA 😊
Dear CandaceMarie,
Hi lovely, glad to see your pretty smiling face again
You’re lucky he sent you a text, that was kind of him, most blokes just *poof* vanish
Never put all your eggs in one basket my sweet
3 dates, that’s nothing, barely scratched the surface …. it’s all show anyway
A good indicator is the 3 month mark wait, before your even ‘ begin ‘ to have any kind of feelings
That one wasn’t meant to be, good experience, yes
Ricky Nelson did a song “Fools Rush In”….. that’s a good one for empaths haha
Please dont be heartbroken over someone you don’t know, a tad disappointed, maybe
Next
😂
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
Hi Bubbles thank you for your kind response. You are right I don’t know him. I am feeling better about things. It was my first dates since I broke up with my ex narc so maybe I was too hopeful. But I already have new prospects and this time I am not going to assume anything. Dating sure is different from what I remember. Dating apps are probably not the best idea but I don’t know of any other ways to meet people.I don’t like bars/clubs. But I am being very careful and I have already spotted a few that could be narcs because they came on strong and couldn’t accept simple boundaries. Anyway I hope you have a great day 😃
Dearest CandaceMarie,
Just make sure he’s covid free first 😂
Dating can be fun without all the emotion
Allow yourself time
Time always tells
Take care sweetheart
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
I’m sorry honey! But at least he had integrity & told you – that is super rare nowadays!! Random but a way to meet men could be something simple like standing at the deli in the grocery store. I’ve found people in general start talking to me there almost every single time.
HG, I was just watching the trailer for Before Sunrise and it made me think of you. I loved Ethan Hawke for 2 years. Like, I was waiting for him to arrive. These were the ’90s.
I l love you, HG. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=25v7N34d5HE
I’ve purchased several of the items on HG’s “Loves” list. I must say, he has very good taste. Very pleased with all. I agree with many of his “Hates” too!
I like a lot of classy shit too, but sometimes I just want a glass of bubbly and to watch Spaceballs.
Bibi, it’s not necessarily “classy shit”. Ha ha They are quite useful items!
Ooh!!! You mean secretly HG loves wine from a box? His fave novel of all time is Twilight and he is loath to admit the Fast and Furious series is really his fave?
Tee hee. Just teasing, HG.
Last month I got drunk off a bottle of Mourvedre and started hula hooping. That was a classy night.
Bibi, you’re a riot!
Oh and BTW, if it is true that HG remains grounded in his likes and doesn’t go all Gwenyth Paltrow on the elitism, then that only makes him more alluring.
Spaceballs it is!
I’ll give him credit for that when he admits to sitting leaning up against the courthouse and chugging Wild Turkey from a bottle.
White chocolate with a shot in it and MST3K.
Times New Roman!
Why was Comic Sans created again?
For the new PC user to think that they know how to do some graphic design.
lisk
Where is the bottle of gin and the warm bath again?
Dear Hg
If you are not very careful, with your indiscretions, you wont need to be dead before you see the curvature of the Earth.
I’ll set a perfectly, parabolic trajectory which has just enough energy to place you into orbit. If you’re an especially good boy, I’ll see to it that you are placed into one of the Earth’s Langregian points. So you can look down at this Blue Dot in perpetuity.
I can do the maths and everything!
P.S How much do you weigh?
If I am dead, I cannot see anything, so that made no sense.
True, but once you did say that you will still need your brain once you are dead.
No love. You wont he dead.
It’s in the first sentence.
X
Your first sentence suggests that ordinarily I would need to be dead to see the curvature of the earth. I pointed out that if I am dead, I cannot see anything. Therefore, your sentence made no sense.
HG, I think what Renarde implies is that once you are dead, your soul is free to roam the curve of the earth, or spy on people, or visit your grandma or whatever you choose. It’s your death. You are free from taxes and obligation. Like the B-52s song,
“Roam if you want to
Roam around the world”
Thank you for clarifying. Problem is, when you are dead, that is it, game over.
I don’t know what would be worse. To find out we love and hate the same things, or to find out you hate what I love and I hate what you love.
@bibi
Haha I thought the same thing. Do I really want to know?
I found it was a combination … always better for the narc to tell you than the other way round.
At least that way you know you’re getting the truth 😉
I might start my next relationship out that way. What are 20 things you like and 20 things you hate?
Can’t be ensnared so easily with any luck!
@lickem
they will start saying some bollocks about how they like women with your coloured eyes, they like strong independent women and dislike it when men use women, they dislike child abuse lol any basic vague shit that they assume you will agree with
Good point. I’ve already gone back to the drawing board!
The problem with empaths is we’re too open and honest.
I don’t know how to be a closed book. And for now that seems to be the only answer.
A targeting narc or a narc in a Golden Period would know exactly what to love and to hate in order to have you ensnared by his “truth.”
Yes, I was forgetting about the ‘targeting’ aspect of this which is most likely how I became ensnared, so they’ve read your story before they even begin the approach. Danm! Thought I had it all figured out there for a moment … back to the drawing board!
PS: If he wasn’t a targeting narc I might be able to get my questions in first …