Can I Control the Narcissist?
How often do you want to bring about some outcome with the narcissist? Make the narcissist pick you as the primary source, make the narcissist repay you, have the narcissist see the error of his or her ways, cause them to attend therapy and make good the damage they have caused?
Can you cause these things to actually happen and why are you compelled to achieve this?
You can understand more by listening here
I listened to this the other day. From my experience there is NO way to control the narcissist in any fashion. The only I could do in the end was end the ‘relationship’ and cut off contact. Speaking with lawyers and the police in regards to outstanding issues with him has shown me there would be no resolution in the circumstances I found myself in. Furthermore it has been my experience that he has no respect for authority, so a call to the police would infuriate him and then I would be on the receiving end of more abuse.
No contact only way we can’t control evan if no contact we keeping g control of our self