Sitting Target
Why did the narcissist choose you?
How did he or she go about deciding that you were the ideal target for him to launch his campaign of seduction upon?
Did you do something to attract the attentions of this dangerous foe?
This direct and comprehensive book will enable you to understand what it is that the varying types of narcissist look for when they are searching for victims. Whether you wish to prevent it happening again or you need to understand why you were chosen, this book will deliver the answers in an uncompromising and straight forward manner.
What are the things that various types of narcissist look for?
How do they go about establishing their targets satisfy those traits?
What are the Special Traits which attract all narcissists?
Where are their hunting grounds and which is the most dangerous?
Who does the narcissist go after and why are certain people left alone?
What does the narcissist mean when he or she is looking for green lights?
These questions and more are answered in this hard-hitting and unsettling look into why the narcissist chooses you.
I got targeted three times, once as shelf IPSS (probably lower mid range somatic), once as IPPS (upper lesser type A somatic) and once as NISS (middle mid range type A elite).
Now I understand why I got targeted.
Enjoyed the book a lot and learnt a lot.
This book is unmissable! A priceless masterpiece. As Covid-19 restrictions were relaxed in our state, it is summer in the Southern Hemisphere and people are socialising again, I am reading this favourite book for the third time. Sounds stupid but I was reading the book at the beach 2 weeks ago, I was so immersed in the reading that I got a sunburn. But it worth it ! Helped me today to spot few Narcs and do not reciprocate their attempts. Independent players , by the way , not hunting together.
One was trying to impress with swimming skills abruptly cutting the distance and following me in the water, the other one was trying hard on the sand , as a result I simply turned my back and put the resting bitch face.
Why they spotted me – maybe because there was a hot day but the wind very strong and I helped
other people to collect their belongings flying away.
But start learning slowly that I don’t have to be nice and friendly to everybody.
I found this book very insightful as part of learning about narcissism. The ‘traits’ and ‘Special Traits’ gave me indicators into aspects of my own characteristics as an individual, which aided me to ‘learn’ about these traits within myself.
A worthy book to obtain, if someone is looking to understand some aspects of themselves (which, I believe is not so obvious elsewhere outside KTN site / Knowledge Vault), as well as learn about narcissists and why you are ‘targeted’.