Sex in Devaluation
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How to tell which cadre you´re dealing with? Compliment his dick (gentlemen compliment her tits and ass)! The somatic and somatic-elites will want to f…you, the cerebral and cerebral-elites will stonewall, not respond and/or find 1.000 excuses why they cannot have sex with you!
You use the narc detector naturally.
Of course, H.G. 😉 😀
Oh yes! Shaming my sexual preferences, shaming my sexual orientation, shaming my sexual behavior, shaming my past, triangulating with other women: lovely, isn´t it?
All of that and more. Done in such a way that shutting down occurs but it’s not recognisable, at least at first.
If you´re a virgin, you´re prudish and boring, if you´re experienced, you´re a slut, if you´re homosexual/heterosexual/pansexual/bisexual it´s the wrong sexual orientation, if you have curves, you´re too fat, he likes slim girls, if you´re slim, you´re too flat, he likes curvy girls, no matter what hair color you have, it´s the wrong one, not to forget that either you´re too old or too young, if you´re hair is dark, he triangulates you with blondes, if you´re a blonde, he likes brunettes/dark hair, if you´re ginger, meh, then nobody likes a ginger No matter what you are, it´s WRONG.
Hahaha! you just reminded me of a time I was triangulated with an actress who looks complete opposite of me. I turned and said, “Well, she’s not an option is she?” Hahaha I learned many moons ago not to pay any attention to that triangulation nonsense. I just didn’t know that it was.
I always got triangulated with women who were what I am NOT: experienced promiscous women when I was totally inexperienced, decent religious women when I was already experienced, blonde women, dark haired women, non-caucasian women, you name it! Everything I am NOT. 😀
On one hand I view triangulation as a lazy and unimaginative tactic on the narc’s part, but on the other, I acknowledge it is high on efficiency and effectiveness because we do all the work for them in falling for it.
The best answer to: “There’s plenty of fish in the sea”
Is still: Yup, and there’s better bait too.
Annnnnd exit to no contact…
Correct, whatever you are, whatever you like, it’s always wrong somehow. Huh. His loss. I finally decided that. And, I am much happier than he is, always have been, so it’s all good.
Pretty much sums up Jr. High right there. Slut or prude? Too flat or too busty (and therefore a slut)? Nascar sports (uncool) or so good at sports she must be butch?
There was a prissy mid-ranger type at one publishing company. She was cordially hated by nearly everyone. The guys in production were scrupulously polite to her instead of pranking her computer, a dead giveaway she wasn’t accepted. One (female) editor said this woman was “the type of person who enjoyed Jr. High.” Not high school: Jr. High. It summed her up perfectly. It was the one time in her life when she could not only criticize others but even offer to Help Them.
Lapse, relapse……