Cross Pollution

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Cross Pollution will affect you and you do not even realise that it is happening. Now is the time to change that.

It is a continuing danger to your No Contact Regime.

Are you struggling to escape continuing feelings of misery, anger, dismay and sadness?

Are you finding that out of nowhere you are wanting to find out what the narcissist is doing?

Are you wanting to date again?

Does your No Contact Regime not seem to be working?

Are you wanting to communicate with the narcissist in some way?

Are you finding you cannot shake thoughts and feelings about the narcissist?

If any of the above resonate with you, then Cross Pollution will be a factor and you need to address it.

This Logic Bulletin explains what Cross Pollution is, what it does, how it affects you, how to recognise it and what you can do about it.

You need to understand and recognise that it is highly likely that you have involvement with more than one narcissist in your life, although you may not realise it. The presence of these narcissists result in Cross Pollution. Although you may not regard these other narcissists as causing you a problem, their presence causes Cross Pollution which can lead you to vulnerability towards a new narcissist in a different environment or the Cross Pollution can weaken your no contact regime with regard to an existing, problematic narcissist. It is a clear and present danger for victims of our kind, it is imperative that ย you understand what it is and then you can take evasive and remedial action to address it and then protect yourself further.

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5 thoughts on “Cross Pollution

  1. A Victor says:

    This one stands out to me, very important information, especially since we do seem to attract them.

    1. WhoCares says:

      AV,

      Cross Pollution is definitely something I think that empaths underestimate.

      1. A Victor says:

        I agree! I didn’t even realize it was possible until I heard this one. It really brought home the “addiction to narcissists”, not just “a” narcissist. And how TTU affects me affects how I will deal with another one I may run into even romantically. I know she keeps my ET a bit elevated all the time, just knowing she’s up there waiting to pounce on me again, every fcking time I see her. So I think holding off on dating yet for a while is still a good idea. Which in turn pisses me off also. But, I don’t want another romantic narcissist, so I will hold off for a while yet. My son is still supportive of the idea of me moving, he can see how much she stresses me out, he can see how horrible she is to me. She is horrible to him also but he handles it better, he’s more removed of course, and I protect him still, from her. He has said, “I’ll stay with her, it’s fine.” But, where would I go? I don’t know how it would work out, but I do think about it from time to time. And then, at some point, she will need more care and will need to go into a home, can I sustain until then? That is the question. Practicing ANC as much as possible is very helpful, I can go 2-3 weeks even without any in person interaction. So then it is a matter of not thinking or talking about her. And I have those pretty well under control also. I do not talk about her any more, except once if there is a flare-up, then I let it go. This is progress, it takes power from her and gives it to me which has in turn made it easier to do this, a good cycle. I didn’t mean to get into all of this, thank you for “listening”.

        1. WhoCares says:

          AV,

          “I know she keeps my ET a bit elevated all the time…So I think holding off on dating yet for a while is still a good idea.”

          It’s wise of you to be aware of that.

          “But, where would I go? I donโ€™t know how it would work out, but I do think about it from time to time. And then, at some point, she will need more care and will need to go into a home, can I sustain until then? That is the question. Practicing ANC as much as possible is very helpful, I can go 2-3 weeks even without any in person interaction.”

          I know you are not really asking me, AV, but in my experience (every time I escaped a narcissist) there was always somewhere to go. I may not have liked the idea – but, for me staying was worse than the option of living elsewhere (even if the alternative living arrangements were less than ideal and not very convenient, for a time).

          Your situation is different – in that you can be in the same building but have very, very limited contact with your current narcissist.
          For me, (I did consult with with HG about going ANC with my mother , before ‘ANC’ was officially called that and HG gave me very explicit advice on how to handle that). Afterwards, I ended up going full NC with my mother, because I knew that any contact with her was going to impact my well-being, my son’s well-being and my ability to look after hm.

          You will figure out what’s best for you AV – and whichever it is, I am sure you will find much support here. ๐Ÿ’œ

          1. A Victor says:

            Thank you WC, I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. Nothing is off the table right now as far as my mother. I have talked with HG about my situation also, and listened to the instructions on ANC several times. I also spend a significant amount of time here, it is very supportive, even reading back articles and comments I learn a lot. Mostly from you all and HG though. ๐Ÿ’•

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