You had no idea what you were dealing with.
You thought you could trust them.
You only did it to please them.
You thought they were being kind and understanding.
So many people creates videos containing sexual content involving themselves (and others), send nudes and/or disclose other sensitive information to the narcissist. The list is extensive and includes
Admitting to behaviour which could compromise your relationship with friends
Disclosing information which could affect your work, reputation and standing
Providing information to a narcissist which could jeopardise your licences or fitness to serve
Giving the narcissist sensitive financial information
Telling the narcissist about abuse you have suffered
Sending the narcissist a sex video or pictures of a sexual or embarrassing nature
Admitting to behaviour which could compromise your relationship with family
Providing information to the narcissist which could be used against you with regard to an existing romantic relationship.
Evidence of illegal behaviour, such as drug usage.
In those circumstances whether it is a sex tape or some other individual YOU need to know whether the narcissist will use this against you and if so in what way?
Using his unrivalled knowledge of the behaviour of narcissists, HG Tudor details clearly and extensively how this material is used by the narcissist so you can know what to expect so you can make informed decisions AND gain reassurance.
The Logic Bulletin includes
What is the mindset of the Lesser, Mid Range or Greater Narcissist when acquiring this information at the outset
Why do narcissists gather such material
How each school of narcissist will use the material in the following scenarious
IPPS in Golden Period
IPPS in Respite Period
IPPS in Devaluation
Former IPPS who escaped
Former IPPS who has been disengaged from
Dirty Little Secret
Non Intimate Secondary Sources (friends, family, colleagues)
Will it be used and if so, when?
Detailed scenarios with regard to Lesser, Mid Range and Greater for each of the situations detailed above, referencing hoovers and Malice Campaigns
If you fear that a narcissist may make use of sensitive material against you from the past, a current ensnarement or to guard against such disclosure in future relationships, you need this material so you can understand what to expect rather than continue to be anxious and worry.