The Tinder Swindler : Part Two

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  1. Witch says:

    Yep at this point we have seen a lot of photos of him and have also noticed that he likes to pout for the camera too

  2. Asp Emp says:

    RE: the subject of – Supplementary cards – one card company kept writing and “offering” me to join, application form enclosed etc.

    Coincidentally, it is the same card company that I observed on the company’s banks statements!

    That fkg little gob-shite. The more I read about this Tinder guy, the more I remember and can “link” what this little ass did.

    Yes, I repeat, I got off lightly.

    Ah that fkg little shit.

  3. Bubbles says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    I was under the impression you needed a certain amount of ‘points’ in order to obtain an Amex Platimum card along with substantiation of being able to pay back eg job permanency, credit checks n such, even for quickie loans
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    1. HG Tudor says:

      If you credit is good and you have the income you can apply and receive “one off the bat”. He was of course getting the women to apply for cards off their accounts which they could use as supplementary card holder.

      1. Asp Emp says:

        HG, it would be another red flag should someone ask how is your credit score / rating so soon after you meet them. That guy I mentioned in ‘The Tinder Swindler : Part 4’ told me his was poor and I inadvertently told him one of my ‘weaknesses’ (your ‘The Narcissist Knows Your Weaknesses’ article), despite it being a strength of mine.

      2. Bubbles says:

        Dear Mr Tudor,
        I have never ever been introduced to supplementary cards. My money, my responsibility. No way in hell would I allow this type of card. I was brought up in a different era.
        Thank you for enlightening me.
        Luv Bubbles xx 😘

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I allow supplementary cards. When all is golden and then well, you know the rest…..

          1. A Victor says:

            An example of a bad man who does “good” things? Thankful for the good things of course!

          2. Bubbles says:

            Dear Mr Tudor,
            Haha yes, but you’re different, you’re always in control
            These girls obviously weren’t
            Big difference
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          3. lisk says:

            My NarcX suggested a supplementary card.

            I took it thinking, “Wow! This means he’s REALLY serious about us.”

            His “commitment” tricked me into tolerating a lot. I started to sense that the AmEx was being used to control me—and watch my every move—but tried to suppress my intuition. Later, I always felt like I was being sneaky and deceptive when I purchased items on my own Visa card, because I didn’t want him criticizing my purchases or knowing my locations (like which restaurants I ate in while he was at work).

            Anyway, as you all know, devaluation happened, etc. Upon our split, I received “alimony” (I’ll give you all this if you move out), which included the permission to use the AmEx in an emergency. I never touched the card again (Thanks to HG’s work and consultations!).

            The card expired and the new one got sent to his address. I assumed he would cancel the card now that it’s been 3+ years but I still get AmEx Rewards notices.

            I leave it alone and do not touch the idea of notifying him. “Please remember to cancel my card” = Fuel.

          4. HG Tudor says:

            Good example and pleased to note you applied my work, Lisk.

    2. Empath007 says:

      He also faked employment for these women… so they could show the credit card companies they were making substantial amounts of money. It’s interesting to me he wasn’t charged with fraud on that account.

  4. lickemtomorrow says:

    Appalling. That’s what I thought about this second part.

    I’m appalled on two accounts.

    One is her willingness to give and keep giving him money with no questions asked. I understand ensnarement and addiction, and have heard more than enough stories now to indicate how overwhelming they can be, but I’m appalled at her lack of good sense here, considering he claims to be dealing in diamonds and have a very wealthy family to boot. I’d be suggesting he look to his family, other business associates, other longer term friends to help him sort it all out. I’m not quite sure what level of addiction this is … or maybe it’s level of vulnerability … but she’s really put herself in the firing line and many people will not ‘forgive’ her seeming lack of financial good sense in doing so. She got there in the end and blocked him after realizing she’d been scammed, obviously must have felt devastated in that moment as well, but his dismissal of her at that point was chilling. He really couldn’t give a damn. That is the most devastating thing of all.

    The second is his ability to scam these people and this poor girl for money without a second thought. The lack of conscience and sense of remorse is tangible. It’s beyond my ability to fathom how you don’t consider the consequences to others, and he plays the game as long as it can be played. Once he gets an indication that his ruse is up, he’s gone. Not even a second thought. To add to that he threatens her when she blocks him! How is this man allowed to continue to thrive in the circumstances? What does that say about our society? Depressing.

  5. NarcAngel says:

    Gotta hand it to Simon in operating with economy where he can by employing Ponderous Pete, who looks like he’s content to be paid in ham and hookers.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Ham and hookers, the breakfast of champions

      1. Asp Emp says:

        Is that what you call an Omelette Surprise, HG? (LOL)

  6. lisk says:

    TOTALLY dead eyes. He actually looks stupid, like his brain is empty, too.

    1. Asp Emp says:

      Lisk “like his brain is empty, too” – thanks for the laugh….

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  8. Asp Emp says:

    He says about being “blocked” – that reminded me of MRN suggesting that I did the same thing when I hadn’t at that time…….I am so thankful to finally understand what Narcspeak is 🙂

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