Fury
Fury is present in all narcissists.
Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult?
Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered?
Why does he walk off and disappear?
Here is the answer.
By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the narcissistic dynamic.
What is fury? Why is it something beyond anger in a certain group of individuals? Where does this it come from and what is it used for? What ignites it and what is your part in this ignition? What does this ignited fury do and why? Why does it never recede? Ascertain whether people in your life suffer from it and what does it mean. Why does the narcissist cultivate it and how is it used against his or her victims? What can you do about it and its effects? These questions and more are answered in a revealing expose of the fury of the narcissist.
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Once upon a time there was a group of friends who got on well. One has a 30th birthday party and sent out invites to a select number of people. Including me. Yet, when I found out that one particular person was going, I decided not to attend. Why? Because this person was particularly nasty towards me. She goes to this party. After this party weekend, I get contacted by around 4 friends. All shared similar story. They were absolutely horrified, upset and vowed to never speak to her again. What did she say that caused such a definitive and collective decision? The party was held by someone who married a German and lived in Germany. A lovely and clean country, beautiful places around there. I say clean, because there was no dog sh*t on the pavements, no chewing gum stuck on the pavements, litter-free public areas. It’s not like that in the UK. Oh, yes, what did she say? She made racist remarks and said too much about WWII and was especially nasty about the German side of this war. She professed to be of Jewish origin (which was totally and utterly false). She was not joking, even if she had said it in jest, it was have received a similar reaction from those present. She also slandered me very badly (trying to put a ‘bad’ reputation against my name to my friends). She never apologised to anyone. She never ‘took’ back the words she said to all who was present at this party. She contacted me via a friend (one who was present at this party) around 15 years after the incident. Note – she did not contact me directly. I said ‘No. Never’. My friend who married that lovely guy who was born in Germany, he died young due to a rare illness. Their children lost a really decent and caring father. They were all under 11 years old.
I’d blocked her on FB. So did the others when they saw she ‘came’ back into the midst of old school people who knew each other. But, those people who were not present at this party do not know what really happened. If they did, would they have also ‘cut’ her off?
To this day, that ‘decision’ remains. With the same friends. How’s that for loyalty?
It’s not about perceptions. It’s about morals. Decency. Loyalties. For me, because I am a good person. And for humanity, for those who died under such a terrible tyrant’s need for control just because of his “chosen” ‘select’ particular ‘appliance’. If his ‘choice’ was just the same brand of washing machine, no cookers, no ovens, no televisions were allowed to be in existence, so they had to be ‘obliterated’. If any of the ‘chosen’ brand of washing machines malfunctioned, they were destroyed too.
In this instance, I am a good woman, speaking up, not just for myself either.
Oh, yes, I also recalled a ‘statement’ that I made to one of them Lessers at a previous job – that if all the guys in that workplace were to put their balls into one bowl and you put mine into a same sized bowl, my balls would be spilling over the edges !! (including that prick’s that I was speaking to – speaking – not shouting at – speaking to) – yup, this empath’s ‘speeches’ had impact (laughing). His face. It was certainly a ‘404’ for sure. It was one of those times when they were having one of their little shit-throwing ‘competitions’ amongst themselves. Those thick Lessers, ball-less dragging-knuckles-on-the-tarmac chicken-shits when I was pissed off, really pissed off. That company was worthless without me, those Lessers knew it. The last workplace? They lost a good asset too. It is only when that valuable ‘asset’ is gone, do they realise their true loss. Fk em. Fk em all.
Such a ‘revolt’ from other people’s behaviours contributes to myself ‘revolutionizing’ myself further. No platitude forthcoming because I deem it unworthy. Only those who are deserving of my platitude continue to receive it. Tra-la-la’ing out of the room……
Hahahahahahahaha…….on, dearie me……so good to re-read this, and, laugh 🙂
Ooooh, how narcissistic of me, to respond to my own comment!!!! (hahahahaha).
Hello HG, are you planning to write something about Putin’s war in Ukraine? I’m sure your perspective on whats going on right now would be very insightful!