Boo! Prince Harry and Meghan Markle Booed!

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  1. Adelyn Ivy says:

    I Think Meghan Markle Is on the same level as Amber Heard, Melania Trump, Virginia Thomas, Hilaria Baldwin, Rebekah Neumann, Kimberly Guilfoyle, Elaine Chao, Ivanka Trump, Lara Trump, Blac Chyna, Anna Sorokin, Patrizia Reggiani, Vanessa Trump, Elizabeth Holmes, Ghislaine Maxwell, Wallis Simpson, Leona Helmsley, Heather Mills, Marjorie Taylor Greene, Carolyn Bryant,

  2. Viol. says:

    DM article:

    “Meghan’s surprise engagement during the Invictus Games: Duchess gave ‘inspiring feedback’ during visit to an entrepreneurship course for girls and non-binary youngsters in The Netherlands in April”

    Aside from providing a rousing game of Woke Word Bingo, this story raises all sorts of possibilities in terms of the guidance provided by a woman with a bunch of shell game companies in lax-lawed Delaware and a string of unfulfilled contracts.

  3. Bubbles says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    Just saw your Smirk video on you tube after I commented here … does one need to check your YT as well as your blog? Same same but different …..bit confused 🤔
    Ta muchly
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It would be advantageous to do so.

      1. Bubbles says:

        Dear Mr Tudor,
        Sorry, I didn’t explain it properly.
        When you post here, do we need to check YT at the same time or vice versa, …..maybe I just receive them out of sync, I’m having trouble viewing this post, it showed once, disappeared and now I have to type it in. I think some gremlins have taken over 😈
        You’re just way too clever, too fast and too slick for me 🐰🐢
        Everything you do is advantageous heheh
        Luv Bubbles xx 😘

        1. HG Tudor says:

          It would be advantageous to keep one eye here and another on my YT channel, Bubbles.

          1. Bubbles says:

            Dear Mr Tudor,
            Thank you. I’m ‘trying’ to keep up with both …..I just don’t know how you do it all….incredible !

            Also, I just want to give you a very warm heartfelt personal thanks for all your work and what you have taught me over all these years. Without your logic and reasonings I would’ve struggled with some very personal dealings concerning my mother and numerous govt heavyweights in the aged care industry (I had another narc two days ago, trying to bully me over the phone whilst I was out at lunch, whatever she very rudely instructed me to do, I have totally ignored) haha

            I’ve been able to conduct myself in a very positive confident assertive manner and not feel pressured or intimidated by their narcissist bullying tactics and there have been way too many. Any pressures, I overcame, refocused, took out the emotional equation and then I was able to present clear substantiated examples which lead to resolutions and obtaining what I wanted for my mother. Your strategies truly work ….coz no one messes with Bubbles anymore. Hehe
            Thank you ever so much ☺️
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          2. HG Tudor says:

            You are welcome.

        2. k mac says:

          Hi Bubbles!
          He has forced me back over here do his lack of posting on YouTube. Damn HG. 😁

          1. Bubbles says:

            Dearest k mac,
            It’s called clever manipulation 🤣😂🤣😂
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    2. Viol. says:

      You get different comments and conversations. I like seeing the variety of discussions.

      It’s also fun when a Sugar wanders in and has an interchange with HG.
      Well, it’s fun for most of us. I doubt the Sugars have much fun. Unfortunately, I also doubt they take advantage of a splendid opportunity to LEARN something.

      Given the yahoo articles that are popping up on my phone, the media hacks haven’t learned much either. They don’t seem to recognize that royal events are put on the calendar far in advance, and the Cambridges couldn’t cancel going to Cardiff if they wanted to (not that they DID want to). Any “invitation” from Duchess Sizzler was a deliberate attempt to put the BRF on the spot.

      Wonder what she’d’ve done if someone actually show up and there was no baby to sing to? Word is she left the kids in the US when HM wouldn’t give in to her demands for at least one merchable photo.

      1. lickemtomorrow says:

        I actually don’t believe the children were with them either. I think they left them in the US and the snaps of Lili were taken on a separate occasion with their friends. There is no sign of them during the whole Jubilee, no snaps of them being retrieved from the private jet (hypocrites!), and only pics of play equipment which they likely brought back with them for her birthday. The reason we probably got the snaps were

        1/ To compete with the Cambridge children

        2/ To convince us the children were there when they weren’t.

        It would not cost a narcissist parent anything to use their children to spite others and it seems Harry’s wife has been doing this all along as well as merching them.

        What’s the story with the $100,000 contributed to Archewell for Lili’s birthday? I wonder who contributed that and why we even need to know. It’s like they had children to raise money for charity! Fuck’s sake. Get on with parenting. Idiots.

        1. Bubbles says:

          Dearest lickem,
          Also, why would anyone order a cake decorated with peonies for a child’s first birthday ?
          Any ‘normal’ person would’ve had a kids cake.

          Why were there no kids listed on the flight manifest there n back? If they hired a professional photographer to take that photo of her, I’d sack him, it was awful ….no legs!
          Where was Archie ? Apparently there’s no public listing of a birth certificate for Lilibet in America.

          It’s all a bit suss and getting sussier by the minute.

          Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          1. Viol. says:

            Bubbles, that “birthday cake” left me shaking my head. Any supermarket or Dairy Queen can give you a cake with Dora the Explorer or a Disney Princess on it, or just the cartoony pink rosebuds bordering “Happy First B-day, Maddie!” typical of kid’s cakes, not these subtly-shaded, sophisticated flowers suited to an engagement party. Thomas the Tank Engine or Minions if it’s a boy. In the UK, they have Caterpillar cakes: same idea. When I was a teen, we’d get a Pepperidge Farm layer cake and plunk a candle in it.

            I know she likes to show off money, but she must have had birthday parties as a child, and there’s infamous footage of her bossing around other kids at somebody else’s birthday party. Does she think she’s “showing them how it’s done”?

          2. lickemtomorrow says:

            Bubbles 🙂

            You are 100% right on the kids cake … everything for the cameras or the ‘look’, nothing for the child. That’s how you know you’ve wandered into narcissist’s territory.

            Ah, I haven’t seen any reports on the flight manifesto, but that’s an interesting tidbit and I had a sneaking suspicion from early on the children weren’t with them. The fact they went sight unseen apart from a belated photograph after they had departed and returned to California, plus no images of other relatives with Lili … good chance she got the word there would be no photo ops with the RF before they left the US so why bother bringing the poor innocent children. They’re only good for the narcissist’s purposes, sad to say.

            It was an odd photo, I agree. Why sit her on the path in the garden for a start? The garden does not make it obvious where she actually is, the sun could have been shining in California as well. Unless you had been at Frogmore Cottage, you wouldn’t know from what little we see in the pics if there is any truth to the ‘rumour’ the children were there. But, back to the garden path … it seems an odd setting and hardly professionally set up, so I’m with you on sacking him. If I think back to my own children’s birthdays they would have pics with their cake showing their age, pics of them with family and friends at the party, they would have party hats, balloons, presents, etc. We see images of the friends children with face paint on … why does Lili have no face paint? Surely the birthday girl would be the first to have her face painted and want to join in the fun? That’s another oddity for me. It’s like she’s at the party, but not of the party. Is she not allowed to join in the fun?

            Yes, where was Archie having fun with his sister at the party or his cousins at the celebrations? It was totally a family affair and those poor children have been kept from all of it, to be isolated at a supposed birthday party that took place and the only people we have pictures of at that party are random friends. If the various Royal children were shown at all the other celebrations, why not this one if they attended? Was there an absolute blanket on Harry and his wife being seen with any of the RF regarding their desire for publicity? It doesn’t seem so as they were photographed with relatives children at the Trooping of the Colours.

            I’m calling BS on this whole affair.

            And still no listing of a birth cert for Lili in the US? Very suss indeed, Bubbles, and I agree, getting sussier by the minute! Why the need to hide the details if it is all honest and above board? Is it just the narc’s need for control or is there a much more hidden agenda going on?

            Having said all that, the little girl in the photo is beautiful and innocent, and I hope she is protected.

            Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the shenanigans, Bubbles <3 x

          3. Bubbles says:

            Dearest Violetta and lickem,
            Hope you don’t mind me responding to you both ?
            I agree with all your sentiments along with so many unanswered questions and why, why and more whys? This is what happens when a narc is involved ……WHYYY?
            I made all my kid’s birthday cakes. Your list of cakes were delightful V and any child would’ve been in complete raptures over of any them. I made a cute bunny for our daughter’s first birthday cake.
            Peonies just happen to be Nutmeg’s favourite flower …how selfish of her to have them on a 1year olds cake
            I’ve been viewing body language experts, photography experts, royal reports on their antics and they’re all saying the same, photos have been photoshopped and the latest pic of Nutmeg holding a child was taken when she was much younger and skinnier.
            The fact they were both ‘ wired for sound ‘ is despicable. We know narcs have no conscience or scruples, but Harry ? How much lower will he go ?

            Conspiracy theories are in abundance…..are the children surrogates, were there ever real baby bumps or was it a false belly, is Lilibet the gardener’s granddaughter’s child, did the Queen in fact meet a child in the allotted 15 mins, so on and so forth. The fact is, ‘sources’ are in full force and headlines are causing quite a stir, gossip and of course most importantly, revenue. Nutmeg and Ginger are making worldwide news even though the masses have lost all respect for this very mentally disturbed couple and are turning their backs on them in droves.

            Any self respecting person/s would bow out gracefully, but these two have axes to grind and a grudges to bear. Let’s not forget about Nutmeg’s mother….what part is she playing in all this ….her minion ??
            Talk about a Markle debacle ….the unwanted surprise gift that just keeps giving and nobody wants! The cheek, the nerve, the gall, the audacity of her returning to England when she so brutally bagged the Royal Family. Just goes to show her hide is tougher then a rhinoceros!

            Nutmeg thrives on ‘mystery’ it appears….. (more like money) ….. well lets hope it bites her in her right ‘non royal’ bum and she fades into oblivion when the truth is finally exposed and some other poor rich billionaire sucker will come along and replace stale stagnant fuelled Ginger after being thrown out onto the heap along with all her predecessors.

            If the kids do by chance have her DNA…..heaven help them and their futures!
            We will never hear the end of it !
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          4. lickemtomorrow says:

            Bubbles, that’s interesting what the body language experts, etc, have to say about the images. Wouldn’t be surprised if there was some photoshopping going on and those are questions you never have to consider when it comes to the Cambridge kids. When you have that comparsion, there is no comparison. It makes Markle’s narcissism so obvious. The difference between her and Catherine show her up for what she is and I can imagine the clash – not to mention the envy – that would have meant there was no chance of Markle ever being able to manage that scenario long term. She would never be the ‘main attraction’ and once that became more obvious (and it’s even more obvious now) she was gone. Harry, the white knight in his own mind, rode right into the sunset with her. Reports are he was furious about their reception and second rate placing at the Jubilee and I can’t see either of them coming back any time soon. At the same time, they’ve kept Frogmore Cottage for now which means they want to maintain some level of connection or control when it comes to being part of the RF.

            The ‘wired for sound’ is another interesting aspect of their visit. What were they hoping to achieve? A misspoken word, some fodder for their Netflix caper, another Oprah interview with an element of race baiting thrown in? Who would ever trust them again? I think that’s the impression we got and the message they were given. “We don’t trust you.” Enough said. Where there is no trust there is no relationship.

            The questions around her pregnancies and the children’s births are never ending. No further mention of a Royal Christening, so not sure where that’s at, unless the 15 minute formal meeting with the Queen involved a private chapel as well. Personally, I doubt she carried either of those children even if they have her and Harry’s DNA. Having said hat, Harry’s DNA has always been in question.

            Ultimately, too many questions and not enough answers.

            It would have been nice if they bowed out gracefully a couple of years ago as promised … never going to happen. Doria has been a ‘no show’ for quite a while. What’s that about? Markle’s compassion extends no further than is necessary for her to gain attention for herself and certainly doesn’t extend to her ill father. There doesn’t seem to be any sense of how that is tripping up her ‘caring’ facade. Although Thomas always seems to fall ill when he has promised to be part of the celebrations. First with a heart attack at the time of the Royal wedding and now with a stroke. Is the pressure just too much or is he future faking for some kind of a response? There is a need to factor in some questioning around his narcissism as well. Doria is like some kind of Manchurian Candidate – she’s been programmed to perform as necessary and is currently out of the picture.

            I could go on all day with my ‘conspiracy theories’ 😛

            I don’t think Markle’s hide is that tough. I think she and Harry found themselves in an untenable position, having been invited to the Royal Jubilee and then rightly and royally snubbed. She had resisted returning and perhaps thought with this invitation, which was a whole of family affair, she could maybe make her reentry as part of that, thus taking some of the heat off while the focus was not completely on her. The expressions of the people at the Service of Thanksgiving was probably a good sign that the heat was still on as disapproving eyes burned into the back of her head. God, I loved that! You could have cut the atmosphere with a knife. As you say, gall, gumption, audacity – at least that’s what she tried to imply. I can shit all over you and you still have to accept me and show the due respect. Duper’s delight until she also had to confront the unforgiving public.

            She has already fashioned a partial takedown of the RF, they have now responded. If the narcissist has to win, I can’t see her going quietly into the night and leaving Harry for a more juicy prospect. She’s going to milk this for all it’s worth and Harry leaving her is the only option. I don’t know what it will take and for now I think he’s too far gone. He’s burnt all his bridges and will now need to cling to her for any type of solace. If she makes her way into US politics he will become Mr Markle. The end.

          5. HG Tudor says:

            I do not regard what you have written as conspiracy theories, but valid questions.

          6. lickemtomorrow says:

            High praise indeed. Thank you, HG.

          7. Viol. says:

            Bubbles: no problem at all. The exchange of information and observations is one of the benefits of these discussions.

            The children’s party that’s really for the sake of adults has become endemic, thanks to social media and competitive materialism. A Newsweek article titled, “Parent Praised for Triggering ‘Walk Out’ of Child’s Birthday Party” involved an expensive preschool party that was so overscheduled for photo ops, no one could possibly have enjoyed it, including the birthday child. The parent who originally posted pulled her three-year-old daughter out before she had a public meltdown, as several kids had already done. The girl’s friends wanted to leave with her, and the hosting parent was furious. Never occurred to her to ask why a bunch of preschoolers were screaming to leave a party instead of screaming because they didn’t want to go yet! I mean seriously, how many children have you ever seen leave a party willingly, vs running around hopped up on cake and ice cream, denying (in tears, on the groubd, if necessary) a parent’s observation that “somebody needs a nap”?

            One astute parent commented, “I just had my son’s sixth party, and I let him and his friends basically run around until it was time for food… Then they ran around a bit more until it was time for presents. Then they ran around until it was time for his friends to go.”

            Parents who want a little more structure might organize a game of musical chairs or “duck-duck-goose,” but the overpriced party with miserable children herded into photo ops (why couldn’t Uncle Anthony go around taking candids, like a normal party?) has a narcy vibe to it.

          8. Bubbles says:

            Dear Mr Tudor,
            Ok let’s erase conspiracy stories and insert speculation, rumours and made up crap 🤣😂
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          9. Bubbles says:

            Dearest lickem,
            I luv your thoughts on this hehe
            Narcs will milk the cow til it’s skin n bone and then some
            All I can say is ….I wouldn’t put it past her to run for politics and actually get in, look what she’s done to the Royal Family single-handedly.
            Hopefully America wouldn’t be so ….how can I say it politely ……”naive” ….to elect her
            She’s back to her drawing board scheming on something …. now we wait
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          10. Bubbles says:

            Dearest Viol,
            How horrendous! Those poor kids, what a disappointment.
            My children’s parties were planned, after getting ideas from the kids what they wanted.
            Usually no more than 2 hours with themed, home made party food and cake.
            It was scheduled from beginning to end with lots of games, food, then cake for the finale along with my famous lolly bags. We varied parties and venues year to year as they got older. We had their 16th and 18th parties at home but no 21st’s. For their 21st, we suggested a party or cash …..they chose the cash……but still went out with their friends as well. Win win
            We didn’t have mobile phones or social media back then, Mr Bubbles was our photographer ….best memories ever…..for all of us !
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  4. WiserNow says:

    I feel for Harry. He looks miserable because he is miserable. He actually feels the emotional discomfort and unhappiness that’s written on his face.

    He has lost a lot and the losses are compounded by his wife being selfish and cold-hearted. Plus, he is in devaluation.

    1. Bubbles says:

      Dearest WiserNow,
      I’ve also noticed the difference, Harry’s getting worse. It’s interesting to be on the outside looking in to see all the changes taking place.

      In a way, I can relate our son’s situation to Harry’s, deep down our son has been miserable and struggled mentally and financially over these last years and his situation has recently worsened. There is a massive housing crisis here in Australia, sellers wanting ridiculous prices and rental property owners hiking their prices up thru the roof. Our son just got kicked out of their rental after their renewal came up and are now having to move into a caravan (we’re now in our winter season) as you just can’t compete with the fifty or so others in front of you with money, bribing to get a look in.
      We all know, it never ends well.
      Luv Bubbles xx 😘

      1. Asp Emp says:

        Bubbles, I am so sorry to read what is happening at present xx

        1. Bubbles says:

          Dearest Asp Emp,
          Thank you AE….as a mother, it’s heartbreaking to see what’s transpiring with our son…. it may be the final straw that breaks the camel’s back ….we can only live in hope.
          His Narc still isn’t working, too busy staying home sponging off our son and playing with the cat and dog.
          Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          1. Asp Emp says:

            Bubbles, thank you for your response. It difficult as it is just to observe as it happens. I know you would do anything to help your son but not the “pet-sitter” (poor choice of words, I am sorry, but I know you understand). It could be, as you say, a catalyst for change for your son. Xx

          2. Bubbles says:

            Dearest Asp Amp,
            I believe the American term …..’trailer trash’ would be more apt
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          3. Asp Emp says:

            Laughing…….ah, Bubbles 🙂 Good thing that a cat, nor a dog can order ‘farts’ from Alexa (Google)….. I came across a YT video of a cockatiel, apparently, it was ordering stuff while the owners were out, which included ‘Hello’ (laughing so much at mo!) as part of the shopping list……and yes, it ordered ‘farts’. The owners asked Alexa to relay back the shopping list…..hilarious! I just had to share this with you 🙂 xx

          4. Bubbles says:

            Dearest Asp Emp,
            Thanks AE I looked it up . That was funny, who would’ve thought a bird could place and order, clever cock 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

      2. WiserNow says:

        Hi Bubbles,
        I’m sorry to hear about your son. That is a very difficult situation to have to move into a caravan. It must be heartbreaking for you as his mother. I think the pandemic has exacerbated the situation as well.

        Narcissists can make things so hard that it becomes impossible to keep continuing with the same situation without making some kind of change for self-protection. I hope your son soon sees that the situation with his relationship needs to change for the better for his own sake.

        I also hope you can stay strong and optimistic Bubbles. Things *can* end well or progress more positively if your son starts to shift his mindset and starts to see that his relationship is not a reciprocal one. There is hope and it doesn’t have to end badly.

        Is there a possibility that your son would be open to learning from HG?

        All the best to you and your son Bubbles xx 😘

        1. Bubbles says:

          Dearest WiserNow,
          Thank you for your kind comment WN
          Yes, unfortunately the pandemic has definitely had an impact on everything, I’m just relieved he’s not living in his car or a tent, as so many others are. It’s a national disgrace.

          Our son would not be receptive to unsolicited advice and as parents, we have to just sit back and wait til asked. He already knows what we think about boundaries and we won’t budge.

          As we are all aware, being involved with narcs, we are blinded as to what’s happening to us until devaluation starts and then it’s not until separation from the narc, that we try to understand and put the pieces together. I do not feel he would appreciate Mr Tudor’s valuable teachings, as I feel all it would do in his eyes, is prove us right.

          All we can do, is be there for him, if and when he needs a shoulder to cry on.

          Also, my mother is not helping by being completely obstinate and exhausting.
          I’m trying to stay strong and be optimistic WN, I certainly can’t crumble now …..I’ve got more living to do, plus Mr Bubbles needs me hehe 😜
          Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          1. WiserNow says:

            Hi Bubbles,

            You’re welcome, and thank you for your kind comment too.

            I’m not really sure what to say Bubbles… you know your son best and you and Mr Bubbles are the most aware of what your son will or won’t be receptive to. I feel for you as his parents. You can’t tell him what to do and you can’t push your advice on him either. He will make his own decisions according to how he responds to his own circumstances.

            Being a parent is difficult. I think you’re doing a great job though and I think that your strong boundaries and willingness to be there for him are a huge solace for him. I hope that things get better and that the situation progresses in a positive way in the longer term. I also hope you can stay strong and optimistic, and Mr Bubbles can too.

            Narcissists can be *so* obstinate and exhausting when you are dealing with them. I have a feeling HG will say that about empaths too (haha) but at least the ability to self-reflect and learn exists with empaths. Narcissists seem to become even more obstinate.

            I saw another comment for this post where you said: “so many unanswered questions and why, why and more whys? This is what happens when a narc is involved ……WHYYY?”

            ..that made me laugh. Yes, there are so many WHYYYs. Sometimes, my empath trait of trying to heal and fix together with the trait of positivity blend and go into overdrive and I frantically ruminate about how the ‘whys’ can be resolved. Then my mind goes into a spin when I realise there’s no easy or quick fix. Then I feel like opening a window and screaming out into the street, saying, “WHY???”

            It relieves the internal pressure of dealing with narcs, at least 😜 xx 😘

          2. Bubbles says:

            Dearest WiserNow,
            Thank you so much for your warm caring response……so sweet of you WN ☺️
            We’re there if he needs us, that’s all we can do.

            Here’s an example of why I said why ?……our greater friend came over for drinks on the weekend. He sat down and immediately starts saying how thankful he is to be here and for inviting him and how’s he’s truly looking forward to a wonderful time with us, which was so out of character for him. Then……during the course of the afternoon he gets up and gives Mr Bubbles a long hug, and then, he starts dancing with me to his favourite song. Never in the 30 years we’ve known him has he ever done that …..right out of the blue…..why did he do that ???????

            Obviously, (as Mr Tudor keeps reiterating) it’s for much needed fuel …..I kept thinking …..fuel fuel fuel haha
            His wife asked me a question, I looked at her and responded ……HE immediately butted in and said why aren’t you looking at me too ? 👀 😂

            Why did Tom Hanks react the way he did ? Clearly, the body guards were not doing their job properly. Why is everyone so uptight, why is everyone swearing ?

            ‘Why’ do any of us do what we do ? That’s the $64,000 question hehe 😜
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

          3. WiserNow says:

            Dear Bubbles,
            People can be unpredictable and narcissists even moreso. Perhaps the narcissist’s need for control from moment to moment means the narcissist’s moods can change rapidly and illogically (to the non-narcissist). If a non-narcissist is in an interaction with them, the non-narcissist will also need to alter his or her behaviour to ‘correspond’ with the narcissist. It’s an ongoing unpredictable ‘dance’, but after some time, even the narcissist has certain ‘patterns’ that are predictable to a certain extent.

            After I saw your comment about Tom Hanks, I looked up his reaction on YouTube. It’s surprising that Tom and his wife Rita Wilson were walking amongst a group of fans in close proximity with no body guards keeping the fans at a distance.

            Right before Tom told the fans to back off, there was one fan – the one who bumped into Rita – walking closely side by side with Tom asking for an autograph. Tom ignored him and kept calm, even though the fan was in his face with a pen asking for an autograph. Then the same fan walked into Rita because he was focused on Tom. Rita yelped, turned around and told him to stay back. Then Tom lost his temper and told them all to back the f**k off. At that moment, Tom’s ‘calm’ front fell away because his wife was almost knocked down.

            The body guards should have been there from the start holding back the autograph hunters. That was a dangerous situation having ‘fans’ that close to the couple. I think that most actual ‘fans’ wouldn’t be that determined to get an autograph. I think there are people who collect autographs either as trophies to add to their collection or to sell. If Tom did stop and give the autographs, he’d probably have to stay there for half an hour and it would have become even more dangerous.

            Why is everyone so uptight and swearing? I think swearing happens when tempers flare up and tempers flare up when patience and/or empathy is at a minimum. Patience and empathy go down when stress levels go up, and stress goes up when there are external pressures and ‘fears’ of one kind or another.

            You probably didn’t want or expect a forensic response to your comment and the questions you asked. The Tom Hanks incident was interesting to me in light of your questions though, and it made me think about the ‘whys’. There are reasons and answers for the ‘whys’. Often, in the moment, the reasons aren’t clear and unexpected things can throw people off and make them do uncharacteristic things.

            Thank you for your comment Bubbles. It was a good example of human behaviour to think about and learn from.

          4. Bubbles says:

            Dearest WiserNow,
            I very much appreciate your explanations as it also gives others an opportunity to learn and you add a deeper perspective.
            I have to agree WN, narcissists do become predictable, yet remain unpredictable at the same time haha

            Tom Hanks instantly reacted to a situation regarding the safety of his wife, fair enough, however, why employ body guards ? He could’ve controlled his swearing, as with Will Smith. I thought the fan may have stepped on her heel. I believe if one becomes famous, you need to understand, prepare and take on board the challenges that go with the responsibility and demands. Times have changed and some need to step away and refocus. However, we all know that won’t happen to those with big egos haha

            I certainly didn’t mind the forensic response hehe
            Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  5. Bubbles says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    Her supercilious smirk said it all !
    Thank you for your fabulous analysis 🧐 ……once again 🥳
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  6. Liza says:

    I can’t understand why she is so obstinate about wearing outfits that marque the waist, she is square, it does not suit her. I’m as far as one can be from a fashion or style connaisseur, but even I can get that if you don’t have a waist that is thin and well marked, it is better to avoid belts and stuff that attract attention to that part of your body, plus, she would look far more elegant if she wears more fluid fabrics. Here again, unless you are very tall and filiform, rigid and stiff clothes make you look shorter and thinker. I hope for her that narcissism has an impact on style, otherwise, it would just mean that she has an awful taste.

    1. A Victor says:

      My ex had a fantastic sense of style, and he’s the same school and cadre as Harry’s wife. As such I tend to think it’s her taste.

      1. Liza says:

        Haha I was trying to give her an escape route and let her blame it on her narcissism but apparently, we should surrender to the evidence and just admit that she has a questionable taste.

        More seriously, maybe her narcissism blinds her to her real appearance, maybe she sees herself differently. I have a cousin who has no awareness whatsoever of her real looks, she would show me something worn by a gorgeous model on Instagram and tell me that she plans to buy something similar, even if she has nothing similar to the girl in question.

        1. WiserNow says:

          Harry’s wife’s style choices make me think she has a schoolgirl or immature approach to fashion. It seems to me she chooses outfits for their wow-factor, or because they will make her look like the belle of the ball, or because she is copying someone else who is famous or iconic who wore the same outfit.

          Her choices are not based on the purpose of the event, or on her body shape or age, or on protocol, etc. For example, she wore a bright red dress at two occasions where it was inappropriate, or the wrong colour for protocol. Her outfits seem to swamp her frame, or the outfit is too heavy or warm for the weather.

          She wants to emulate Diana, however, she is in her 40s whereas Diana was in her 20s and 30s when Diana was a style-icon. Meghan lacks sophistication for her age and her role, i.e. wearing tight jeans with ripped holes, etc. She doesn’t need to look matronly or boring, however, she is at an age and in a position where a sophisticated and groomed appearance is more appropriate.

          I agree with you that the belted dresses and stiff fabrics don’t suit her body shape. She has broad shoulders, an undefined waist, and slim hips and legs. She has an overall triangular or boyish shape. At the same time, she is petite and not big boned or athletic. I think she looks good in narrow long-line dresses without hard lines that accentuate her shoulders but aren’t too tight or revealing. Softer tailoring that lengthens her torso and doesn’t swim on her or overpower her bone structure would be more suitable.

          In her position and with her resources, she could be a lot more stylish and sophisticated.

          For example, there is a helpful way of knowing what clothes are more suitable by studying the Kibbe Body Types. David Kibbe is an image consultant and in 1987 he developed a system of 13 body types based on a woman’s physical characteristics. I’m not an expert, but according to his system, Harry’s wife fits into the ‘natural’ or perhaps ‘soft natural’ body types, based on her bone structure, height, figure dimensions and facial characteristics. There are a range of clothing shapes, colours, silhouettes and styles that look particularly good on her body type and suit her physical ‘look’. It’s quite a detailed system that considers the bone structure, shape, limb length, and ‘yin’ and ‘yang’ properties underlying physical features.

          The white trench coat dress she wore would suit a ‘dramatic’ or ‘soft dramatic’ Kibbe body type. Melania Trump wore it better because her body type (according to the Kibbe system) is ‘soft dramatic’.

          To me, it seems Harry’s wife jumps into things without thinking them through or thinking about longer-term consequences. She wanted to marry a Prince, but now she is no longer a respected royal family member. She wants to get attention, but doesn’t study how to do it effectively or learn from her mistakes, etc.

          It’s ironic in a way. She wants control and is somatic, however, the fact she wants control means she doesn’t give up control to study how to actually have control and she is somatic and doesn’t think (cerebrally) about how to make more effective style choices.

          1. Viol. says:

            Have you noticed she seems mostly to imitate Caucasian women? Admitted to copying Andie MacDowell’s perm in Four Weddings, but has never copied any of Halle Berry’s hairstyles, including that very influential pixie cut. She’s copied Diana, of course, but if she’s ever copied Naomi Campbell or Michelle Obama, it’s not nearly as noticeable.

            I’m still puzzled by her listing herself as “Caucasian” on her 2010s resumes, not because she lied (we all lie about our weight), but rather because most resumes I’ve ever seen list hair and eye color, and the photo is expected to suggest casting possibilities. You’re Jewish with blonde hair and blue eyes? You’ll play a Cossack in Fiddler, or maybe a townswoman (with a kerchief covering your hair), and a Sicilian or Neapolitan will play Tevye, Golde, and Golden. You’re a red-haired Puerto Rican? Maybe they’ll consider you for Anita in WSS, but an Irish girl with black hair will be called back for Maria.

            Some of that may have changed, with non-traditional casting becoming so prevalent, but as far as I know, you still don’t list your race on your resume.

          2. WiserNow says:

            I have noticed that Harry’s wife does copy others (such as Andie MacDowell, Diana, Duchess Catherine). It hasn’t really occurred to me that she mostly imitates Caucasian women, but now that you mention it, yes, I can see she doesn’t imitate well-known African American women.

            With her mindset, I think she sees Melania Trump as more of a ‘role-model’ than say, Michelle Obama. I think that’s because in her mind and with her perception of the feminine beauty and ‘success’ she aspires to, Melania is the kind of woman she can relate to more. Melania is beautiful and glamorous and her wealth and status is derived from being a rich man’s wife. I think Meghan’s narcissism relies on those kinds of traits to achieve her aims.

            Personally, I don’t think Harry’s wife’s narcissism aspires to be a Michelle Obama ‘type’. It’s not as glamorous or ‘sexy’ in her mind, and she doesn’t have the personal traits for that kind of ‘success’. I think it’s too much hard work for her and her ‘brand’ of narcissism can’t pull it off because she doesn’t have the intelligence or credibility for it.

            I’ve seen some videos taken when Meghan was a child and she didn’t look as ‘happy’ and engaged as she appears to look these days with her rictus grin and sociable manner. I think she looked unhappy, resentful and more introspective as a child. Perhaps that had something to do with being an only child (growing up with just her mother) and having white step-siblings. To me, it seemed like she compared herself with her white siblings and white friends and perhaps the overall racial social conditions in the US made this even more pronounced.

            About her listing herself as “Caucasian” on her resumes, I’m not sure if that is a required ‘standard’ for all resumes in the US or not. It may be a standard required for candidates in the entertainment and acting industry, or she may have done it to increase the likelihood of being selected for roles and media jobs in general. I suspect it’s difficult to land roles as an aspiring actress in LA, so it may have been a way to increase the likelihood of being chosen when applying for jobs. I think I remember hearing or reading something about her saying that her ethnicity made it unclear whether she should be cast as caucasian or as dark-skinned.

            It’s difficult for me to relate with the aspect of her describing herself as caucasian on her resume. In Australia, there is no requirement to list ethnicity or things like hair colour, eye colour or age on resumes. Even attaching a photo is not expected although some people do it, depending on the job they’re applying for. In Australia, requesting candidates to list traits like that would lead to employers being accused of discrimination or biased selection.

            Of course, ethnicity in general (apart from caucasian compared to coloured) is easy to decipher a lot of the time simply because of a person’s name. Also, once candidates are called for an interview, an employer in Australia can choose however he or she likes without making the selection criteria known. I think this does happen and no-one can accuse the employer outright of discrimination because it is not clearly evident. When looking at the diversity or lack thereof in a workplace, and also considering the daily workplace behaviours, it becomes evident fairly soon when it happens though.

    2. Bubbles says:

      Dearest Liza,
      I totally agree, excellent observations. She’s flaunted Royal dress protocol from the beginning eg wearing black, no stockings and incorrect nail polish, doesn’t do her hair and has always looked like a shipwreck. Negative ⛽️
      We can all see Nutmeg is jealous of Catherine, perhaps Nutmeg should start on some curtsy lessons ………you know, for the future 🤣
      Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  7. Duchessbea says:

    HG, it’s just incredible the brass neck on these two. They act like the Oprah interview never happened.

  8. TL Sensei says:

    The steps of church may be the best place to boo a narc.

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  10. Asp Emp says:

    Thank you for this video, HG. I really feel for Harry having to experience this, on top of what he already feels / thinks because of his conditioned and reduced emotional empathy.

    No doubt that some of the members of the Royal Family would also be impacted by the ‘booing’. This may, or may not give some ‘nudge’ to speak with Harry without his wife being present.

    We will just have to keep an eye out and see what transpires……

  11. sarah says:

    I so wish they would just go away.

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