You Hurt the Narcissist Is Happy – What Is Going On?




Following disengagement from a romantic entanglement with a narcissist the hurt is substantial.

To make matters worse, the narcissist is swanning around happy. Or is he or she actually happy?

What is going on?

Understand how your hurt is more dangerous than you realise and what you can do about it?

Find out what is really going on inside the narcissist – the answer will assist you.

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14 thoughts on “You Hurt the Narcissist Is Happy – What Is Going On?

  1. MB says:

    Not sure where to put this. One of the most popular podcasts in the world right now. She had Dr. Ramani on twice already. 🙄

    Let’s suggest she invite the fascinating and informative Ultra. Blow it up! Link below:

    1. HG Tudor says:

      HG approves. Get rid of the clown Ramani who does not understand narcissism and plagiarises my work, time to ensure the Ultra comes to greater prominence. Thank you MB.

      1. Asp Emp says:

        It would be good for you to get an invite to Mel’s podcast 🙂

      2. Contagious says:

        I like her. I do. But she doesn’t come close to you. Now Sam? If only I could follow him. Is he intentionally convoluted?

    2. A Victor says:

      Request sent.

      Thanks MB!

      1. Bubbles says:

        #Me too

    3. WhoCares says:

      Great suggestion MB.

    4. Asp Emp says:

      Thank you for the link, MB. I submitted my request too.

      It does not request for any submission of personal details, only the information as indicated in the form 🙂

    5. Leigh says:

      My request has been sent as well!

  2. Joa says:

    This graphic is etched in my memory. This time of year favors such colors and landscapes. Last month, when the colors of the sky, earth and water, shrouded in fog, arranged themselves in a very similar way, I thought: “It’s as beautiful as in HG graphics” 🙂

    And in the summer, when a car drove by and the sounds of Depeche Mode came out of it, I couldn’t help but smile 🙂

    Interesting. We don’t know each other, but HG from my head, reminds me of the feeling of warmth, that I like so much. A gentle wave of warmth, that calmly spreads over my body to my limbs and radiates outwards.

    It’s nice to feel it, although of course it’s just my illusion.

    A similar wave of warmth spilled over me at the thought of N2 – for many years. Now less often.

    I am happy with this temporary “replacement”… And thank you.


    I miss this warmth, that used to be so close to me, that it was the essence of me. It’s hard to live with such a low temperature in this cold world.


    I can’t shake the thought, that a life without emotions is just meaningless vegetation. I don’t think I’ll learn to live like this… But I’m still trying.

  3. Tom says:

    He didn’t care..left you in a puddle of tears.. accept it and move on and find someone better.

  4. Asp Emp says:

    Comment from 27 months ago

    Fkg hell. At that time I could not ‘see’ myself reaching beyond that emotional pain, never mind far reducing the impact of it’s affects which plagued / consumed me for a whole life-time. Fk you muvver and everyone else who added to that. So good to be free of the shackles of narcissistic residue. So fkg good.

    1. Viol. says:

      ⬆️What she said.

      1. Asp Emp says:

        So what?

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