O Come All Ye Empaths
O Come all ye empaths
Honest and so decent
O come ye, O come ye to my illusion,
Come and be ensnared
By my golden period
O come let you fuel me
O come let you fuel me
O come let you fuel me
Narc the Lesser
O cry tears of sadness,
Cry in sheer frustration,
Cry and be hurt by
My manipulations
Give to your narc fuel
In the plenty
O come let you fuel me
O come let you fuel me
O come let you fuel me
Narc the Mid-Range
All hail Greater we worship thee,
Malevolent and so handsome,
O Greater for always will you hoover us,
Words are your weapons
Devaluation appearing
O come let us fuel him
O come let us fuel him
O come let us fuel him
And never stop
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Just visiting for the first time. HGT writes in his opener:
“I also find the weaponising of empaths and having them go into battle with my kind entirely in accordance with my worldview.”
Anyone been here long enough to know what this worldview involves?
It’s crazy but what if God gets nothing from love, empathy or good acts as he is the Light. God is pure empathy or love. He does not have transaction or get rewards from giving love as He is the eternal source. He is pure empathy. Therefore his Light reaps no rewards instead it is just given and those of us who are emphatic are just humans who yearn for approval and self satisfaction who get off on giving or feel it’s our duty because we are humble as we are children of the Light who beam it forward and create the balance. That would make sense as we are not pure empathy, we can’t be. But we do bring balance in a dark universe. It’s easy to see the darkness. The greed, the hate, the destruction, it takes effort to not give in to it. If there was nothing, then there was Light. Figuratively or literally or both?. So you can see free time dies to reflect on what is empathy existentially . Thoughts?
I don’t believe in empaths. I believe people may have some empathic traits.
Empaths like Betazoids in Star Trek do not exist.
They are a fantasy
My experience has shown me most people are grey
They have narcissistic traits and empathy in a balanced manner
Then you get those with personality disorders depending on the severity
A true good empathic person is a rarity.
I enjoy HG’s work but I myself do not believe there are empathic people
Empathic traits yes, but not truly empathic people.
This is just of course my opinion
It is not a fact
It is an opinion
Anna, the term Empath is a classification, the same as the term Narcissist. Both define a human, his way of perceiving the world, the motives and instincts, that guide him in life.
Nothing more. Neither the term Empath nor the term Narcissus means any fanciful characters, supernatural powers, intelligence exceeding the human dimension, etc. This is a human being and this is a human being. Good, mean, selfless, calculating, obliging, commanding, more or less sensitive to others, manipulated, manipulative, social, asocial, will not hurt a fly, will kill a man – all this is HUMAN: his faces, fluid manifestations.
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Currently, the term “Narcissism”, which helps to understand a specific human profile, is starting to become a fashionable trend, a source of excessive social attention and… quite quick money.
The psychological profile begins to resemble old myths about harpies or fairy tales about werewolves…
This classification took on a life of its own.
The balloon is inflated too big 🙂
Joa
Thanks for taking the time to answer.
I just have never met any truly good people in my life. So I find it hard to understand that there can really be “empaths”. It is just perception.
It must be nice to be surrounded by good people.
I can understand why HG prefers to surround himself with empaths if this really is the case.
Hi Anna:
I wrote earlier as Sam Vatnim did say empaths don’t exist. It’s a term made up by a con artist and it’s for “ self aggrandized people.”
So I did research and found neurological studies on empaths, scientific and psychological research. My favorite is empaths dream differently. ( I was so excited to look at these studies!)
An empath is someone who is highly sensitive to the emotions and energy of people, objects, and surroundings. Empaths are able to perceive and internalize the feelings of others as if they were their own. They often have a deep sense of intuition and can pick up on subtle cues and emotions that others may not notice.
The concept of empathy is supported by scientific research in the fields of psychology and neuroscience. Studies have shown that some individuals have a heightened ability to empathize with others, and this is connected to specific brain regions and neural pathways associated with emotional processing and social cognition.
Empathy involves the activation of mirror neurons, which are neurons in the brain that fire both when an individual performs an action and when they observe someone else performing the same action. This neural mechanism allows for the vicarious experience of another person’s feelings and emotions, contributing to the capacity for empathy.
Additionally, research has suggested that empaths may have a heightened sensitivity to environmental stimuli and are more attuned to emotional contagion, which is the tendency to “catch” the emotions of those around them. This heightened sensitivity can impact their physical and emotional well-being, leading to a deeper understanding of the emotional experiences of others.
Overall, while the term “empath” may have metaphysical connotations for some, there is scientific evidence to support the idea that some individuals possess a more acute capacity for empathy and emotional resonance with others.
I agree with Joa. We are homosapiens afterall not mythical creatures. But there is much to support the concept of an empath.
I also identify. I am far from a perfect person. A sinner. A person just walking this Earth like all others doing my best. But I do have a strong intuition. I am able to know what another is feeling and that helps my ability to nurture. I also am affected by cruelty. I must admit I tend to run away if I can. I hate news or those God awful videos people send about the wars. I watched the latest video of the mother narc and felt literally sick. All I wanted to do was grab hold of those children and hold them. I also wished HG was the father so this woman would collide with a fate so strong she would not recover. Harsh. I know but true. I will think about those children for days, pray for them. I need nature like I need air. The ocean in particular. I have spent my adult life looking at it, feeling it, hearing it. It soothes me. I have never lived a day of my life without a pet. Those little funny demanding angels are a joy. I surround myself with love. Where there is darkness there is light. I do not feel overwhelmed when confronted with the atrocities of the world as there is always a way to strengthen the beauty, the wonder and the weirdness too. If I had to be one thing: I would want to be kind. Lots of deeply kind people in my family so much virtue that sometimes I would look at my fathers family in awe. How do they not want more? How do they never complain? How do they not criticize? And you just “ know” in their presence not to behave that way either. You just know. How do they forego all material possessions? Why is their life all about family? Why don’t they wear make up? Why not color their hair? No plastic surgery. Not that I judge these things but my Aunts just let time come. So pretty naturally. Three were homecoming queens at college but one cannot even look into a camera due to humbleness. So religious… yet never ever preach? So accepting and nonjudgmental? How did they handle loss of jobs, money issues, the death of a child, the crippling of a son, a child or husband with addiction without un-doing? One had 11 children, all went to college and in that chaotic home why is there no memory of her ever raising her voice once? Firm reprimands but no loss of control. Gulp. I had two very active kids;) Why do they smile with such beauty and sparkle in their wide set eyes? Always warm. Always positive? I showed my Aunt a picture of my father with a baby and some unknown caregiver. I said who is she? My aunt very matter of fact it replied, “ oh that’s Nellie. She was from the home of disadvantaged and orphan girls such a lovely girl she was!” It was said in a manner that every family took in a “ disadvantaged” ( note the word) girl to babysit the child. A fun story is my grandmother was 42 when she had my father and his 4 sisters age 13-18 didn’t know she was pregnant until she came home! Imagine the innocence? My grandmother was embarrassed at being pregnant at her age. lol Look at today? My last Aunt just passed at 96 this year. They are my hero’s among many. I pale in comparison but I am so lucky to know they exist. I also admire and am in awe of such leaders as Martin Luther King Jr, and Harriett Tubman and Gandhi and Mother Theresa to name just a few as they were so brave. They could not only stare at the atrocities in the world but like a blaze of Light surge through it at their own peril or life and cause the scales of justice to flip their way and society to change for the better. For every story we hear there is one that is the opposite. There is someone sharing their food, hugging a friend, saving an animal… right now…and don’t you find kindness to be miraculous today? It’s the holidays and hard for many so it’s up to us empaths to try, really really try to bring goodwill to those around us. It’s in the small things. Decorate your home so the people walk by and get a lift. Give Christmas cards to an elderly neighbor. Invite those you love to sit around your tree. Put your child’s homemade ornaments on the tree front and center. And I find this to be the best holiday tactic…. Listen. Look at the person talking to you in the eyes and really listen. No matter how boring! lol let them feel special and important. I gather little gifts all year round. I always give gifts to guests. Nothing expensive but I really give it thought. It’s not cheap crap if it has meaning. I remember fondly one year my son gave me dish detergent lol I wish all of you on the blog a very Merry Christmas! Here’s a secret. Every night since I was a girl I would ask God to just give everyone on this planet a few seconds of peace of no pain. Just a few seconds Lord. I would beg. And I like to think it happens. Really happens! Anyway, I appreciate you, learn from you and of course this extends to you HG. Happy holidays! And Thanks!
I am well known for my “ oh one more thing…” but have you ever met someone whose very smile made you feel like life was ok, things would be ok?” My Aunts all had this warm “all knowing smile”, my father did too but I think Vietnam dimmed it a bit. For example… I picture my cousin coming home with a bad report card. I can see my Aunt putting on her glasses leaning back in her chair maybe saying hmmmm and then just smiling at him with a direct gaze. Not one word. In her one smile he would know it would be ok, everything would be ok, and that he could do better and would do better. She never had to say a word. It was all in her eyes and her all knowing smile. She was very quiet and spoke slowly. Such power. She would write me. How? When my uncle died and they had 62 years of marriage, 61 children, grandchildren and great grandchildren did she ever find the time? Later years I would get the occasional Facebook message. When my father died she sent a letter that said “I know you loved him very much and must miss him. “ That’s all it said. But I remember it. Always. Anyway, they say narcs have such power, such persuasion but they never met my Aunts gaze or smile. Empaths hold so much power! Swords up! Tis the season!
Everyone has narcissistic traits, even the ‘true and good empathic people’ you speak of have them.. you cannot be human without any narcissistic traits.
Anna, That’s what I always thought, too. “Empath” has been portrayed as a pop psychology term that’s not an accepted diagnosis or concept. Usually when mental health clinicians hear “empath”, it tends to describe cluster B personality traits/disorder or complex PTSD. I wasn’t sure what to think when I first heard HG say that 1/6 people have NPD, and 2/6 people are empaths. However, listening to HG’s first video in the Addiction package, there must be something more to this. I knew there was something a little off about why the relationship with the narcissist is so important to me (not even a romantic relationship, in my case). But hearing HG say “all empaths have the addiction to narcissists” – I hadn’t thought of it as an addiction before, and hate to admit it, but this “obsession” does have all the traits of an addiction. I don’t know exactly what HG means by “empath” (he describes it as a collection of empathic and narcissistic traits, with a genetic component). This is a topic that I feel the need to understand much more about. Thank you, Mr. Tudor, for continuing to educate us on this topic.
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O wow, looks like HG is in a super good swinging mood for xmas.
Very well done Master of Words.
I would love to hear you sing.
How are you doing with singing?
Oh no, now I know:
If you would ever do it you would make me pay
you old british whore
:-))
Anyways I wish you many gifts and holidays with a lot of fuel and warm fire and much light
HG is better BUT
🎼Oh come all ye faithful
Oh come ye to empath land
Come and Behold him
Born the King of Angels
Oh come let us adore Him
Oh come Him let him adopt them
Oh come let us adore Him
Christ the Lord!
Sing choirs of empaths
Sing in exaltation
Oh sing all ye empaths with heaven above
Glory to God, glory to the highest
Oh, come let us be like Him
Oh, come let’s adore Him
Christ the Lord!
Yea thee we greet thee
Born this happy morning
To thee may empaths be all glory given
Word of thy Father, now in flesh appearing
Oh come let us follow him
Oh come let us adore him
Christ the Lord!🎼
I always felt the proper song for narcs should be 🎼I don’t know how to love you.” Jesus Christ Superstar where Mary Magadeleine sings as she was imbued with 7 demons who she cast out to one of his most devoted flowers and the first witness to his resurrection. Because some narcs might through Him carry the Light that shines through supposed nonbelievers to be given Love that they crave but never had.
Hey everyone. I am watching Saltburn first episode and I relate with the “ lead” popular guy who honestly friends this nerdy poor guy. And I thought was I a shit in my youth? Did I do the same out of pity and to knock the system yet those were like him the very people I truly embraced. So why join the “ popular” group at all? I was odd like the lead as my “ popular” group remained in the click. What drove me? Was it kind or was it arrogant? I don’t know. I know when young I wanted to be part of the popular group and it came easy but I felt a disdain. In high school I was a cheerleader and the top football guy liked me who was a senior. I was a sophomore. The senior girls were brutal. Spread rumors that reached my parents. I was a virgin ( my own religious beliefs) but they made me out to be a slut. They would name call and call me on the phone with nasty messages. Of course others joined. I knew what it was like to go to a lunch room and to not know where to sit. I was a good student and was placed in AP classes with the nerds and had a friends there. I liked sitting with the pot heads at lunch as soulful. I was in drama and got leads and I recall a teacher asking me “why do you always feel like an outsider?” It was obviously true. I was always outside even when “ in.” I won the States scholarship to Washington DC as some sort of “ leader” and I was chosen out of 52 students in the USA to speak at the closing ceremonies. School came easy. See the theme? Yet life did not. It should have but I rebelled against things from the inside out. I went to college and got into the top sorority. Shamelessly all pretty blonds. But honestly when we did rush which I hated due to the pettiness …my selections were an African American and an Asian girl. I heard we won some award for diversity. What a joke. I was elected vice president of my sorority. I was also a journalist for the paper, I was a member of political affairs building shanties and boycotting coke to end apartheid, joining legal affairs and worked with an American Indian on his right not to have a social security number. I double majored and finished college academically a year early but I stayed. My boyfriend who I almost married but for law school was Puerto Rican. My mom lambasted me until she heard how his family was rich. My father just asked if I was happy. He chastised my mom. So him. I moved out of the sorority and made other friends who remain my friends to date. To this date, or recently, I was asked to go to sorority reunions and I never went. I never went to my high school graduation or college. Left it in the past and I think I have affronted my former sorority sisters by never showing up. Ever. When I got older of course being popular never meant anything. But in law school I was part of that crowd again yet I did find more in common. I guess what I wonder is in Saltburn this “ popular” guy bucks his mates to befriend someone who his crowd shuns. It’s authentic love but is it admirable? I see so much of myself but I swear I didn’t know then what I was doing. My best friend says I take in human strays genuinely loving people who others outcast. I won’t give them up for anything in the world as they are my people and I am theirs truly. But why? Is this empathy? Should I be ashamed as perhaps secretly I want some sort of gratitude? The idea makes me want to crucify myself if so. And I love who I love as an adult. We get the right. I am an adult now. There is no such thing as being a “ popular” as I am free to be myself, choose who I choose to love and fuck anyone who disagrees. Thank God! . But as I watch this movie, I reflect. I wonder how this fits in to who I am. I hope a good true human. is there anyone out there who gets this? Maybe it’s pure love that despite the pressures of our youth, we gravitate to love. But I wonder why did the underdog always matter to me. Perhaps I was the underdog too. The Emperor in Clothes. Makes me feel like a narc in a facade in some ways. I joined groups to fit in while never fitting. Good film. Hit a nerve. There is something to be an adult. To look back at your life but to be ok with who you are. To fill your life with authenticity instead of social pressures. I look at my son, same friends since kindergarten, never wavered, friends for life in the marines. Chose what he loved which was boxing and stayed true. My daughter I see more of me. Joining and doing things to win or be accepted. Networking to win or get ahead. Yet she is solid too. she chose a Cuban premed as a roomie throughout college, not in a sorority who is lovely, a hip hop dancer and her best friend. I guess As young people we make choices for so many different reasons but I wonder “ why.” I see narcissism in choosing to belong to be popular and to succeed, I see empathy in doing what you know is right even if not popular but youth is such a mix. Throw social media in. My God.
One more thing. I guess the deeper question is that if we do something that helps another but we benefit by feeling better about ourselves is that pure empathy? Even if private not announced? If we do something out of duty or obligation even if Christian ideology, is it pure empathy if it is out of this self pronounced duty. Eugene Kennedy once said the greater the freedom we have, the greater responsibility we have to help others. But is that empathy if duty bound? Isn’t pure empathy to feel another and act out of love without anything else? If we do because we get satisfaction from doing so, does it diminish the empathy?
One example. HG says Jim Carviziel is an empath and points out he adopted girls from
China with health issues as the others would be adopted more easily. But doesn’t he get something out of it even if it’s the knowledge he is serving God? Jim is a devout Catholic. ? Is this empathy if like a narc or psychopath it serves a goal? Can we ever be empathetic if we give to others to help or be devout if we feel good about doing it? It’s not entirely selfless then or without a goal.
I mean aren’t you lucky to be the one who can help?
Ok I take it back Saltburn is like You. A tank of sharks.
And as I go further what if we are truly born sinless and innocent and pure from a true Light that does not need to reap any reward but our environment changes it. Making us empaths not pure but bearers of light or humans that at least try. There is science behind it.
in the realm of quantum mechanics, there’s a delicate equilibrium between darkness and light. This balance is inherent in the duality of particles and waves, where the interactions of photons and matter oscillate between states of illumination and obscurity. The fundamental principles of quantum mechanics illuminate the intricate interplay between darkness and light, paving the way for fascinating exploration and discovery.
Not to mention dimensions. Eternal In quantum dynamics, the notion of dimensions goes beyond the physical spatial dimensions we experience in our everyday lives. Instead, it encompasses abstract mathematical spaces, such as Hilbert spaces, which are used to describe the state of quantum systems. These spaces have properties that allow for the representation of wavefunctions, observables, and operators, all of which play crucial roles in understanding the behavior and evolution of quantum systems. While these dimensions are not directly tied to our spatial intuition, they form the foundational framework for the mathematical description of quantum mechanics.
So the universe has eternal dimensions where there is no time or space but where there is a balance of light and darkness. Hmmmm
And think about it . You would not know lightness without darkness or vice versa. So if quantum mathematics is correct there are dimensions without space time or gravity. Endless. There is balance in existence in darkness and light. And if God is the light in the darkness then He or She cannot receive reward or satisfaction or validation from empathy, love or kindness as the original source, so does this mean that God created both darkness and light. It’s an eternal never ending balance or He is the Light in a nothingness as nothing is nothing is nothing. Either way we would be corrupt empaths or human ones who try. But can there ever be a great victory? Or all we are are conduits in a system for balance?
Guess this year, I deserve a spanking, huh? 😂😉
Oh, goody! I get to come? First?