Why Am I Behaving Like The Narcissist
Why am I behaving like the narcissist?
This is a common question that I read and that I am asked.
It causes worry and anxiety, it also leads to holes occurring in the No Contact Regime because an empathic victim lays blame on themselves and then engages in remedial action which damages that all-important No Contact regime.
This material provides you with a pillar for your Logic Defences so that you understand what is happening and you start maintain theNo Contact regime.
This material addresses the following :-
Why am I behaving like the narcissist?
What is driving that behaviour?
Can I stop this behaviour and how does that happen?
Am I turning into a narcissist?
Is there such a thing as “narcissistic fleas”?
How the narcissist´s Campaign of Projection is involved
Does Emotional Thinking play a part and if so, how?
What should I look for to distinguish my behaviour from that of the narcissist?
Am I instinctively behaving like the narcissist and if so, why?
Am I consciously behaving like the narcissist and if so, why?
Is this behaviour towards the narcissist only or can it be demonstrated towards non-narcissists as well?
Delivered as an audio file through email, this material, as always explained using HG Tudor´s unique and effective lexicon, will enable you to understand more about your behaviour. Understanding is the key to achieving freedom and it is just as important to understand you as it is to understand the narcissist.
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IMHO, this happens because the buildup of the narcissist’s abuse slowly destroys all your love and respect for them and eventually fills you with rage and contempt for them. Which is exactly how they feel about you. Only they never loved and respected you in the first place. They always felt rage and contempt for you, they just hid it behind the facade in the attempt to get fuel from you.
I saw this in my dating relationship with a narc ex-boyfriend. I said things to him that I never thought I would say out loud to anyone. Once I realized that I had to come up with a plan to escape, words weren’t working and I seriously deliberated executing physical violence against him to push him to decide that I wasn’t worth his time. (In case y’all are wondering I am a 5’10, pretty athletic female and he was an average size Korean man which meant I was bigger than him and not afraid of him physically. By the end I would have delighted in punching him in the face). That’s not me at all.
He was turning me into something I am not. And this is why No Contact is necessary for freedom from the narcissist- it’s the only way they stop corrupting you.
Fortunately in my case, words eventually worked and I persuaded him to go find another appliance. Been no contact for eleven years now and I am happily married to a Normal. Get Out Stay Out! It’s the best!