Restraining An Appliance
In the shadowed elegance of my penthouse, where the city’s neon veins pulse below, I watch Elena step through the door, her silhouette a delicate provocation against the twilight glow. The air carries my scent, a signature that clings to me as surely as my authority. She pauses, her breath catching, a bird fluttering in the cage of her ribs, and I feel the familiar pulse of stimulation settle into my bones. I turn from the window, my eyes—polished obsidian, I’ve been told—locking onto hers, dissecting her with a glance. She is mine to unravel tonight and the game is about to be played.
“Elena,” I say, my voice a low resonance, not a question but a summons.
“You’ve come prepared,” I state.
Her nod is subtle, her silk blouse whispering as she sets down her purse. The room reflects my tastes: furniture that is minimalist yet commanding, art hinting at restrained chaos, and in the corner, a low table bearing coils of red silk rope—my tools, my medium. Tonight, they will transform her into a masterpiece of surrender.
I approach, each step deliberate, a predator savoring the hunt’s opening moves. My dominance is not yet brute force but cerebral, a chess master’s strategy applied to desire’s battlefield. I’ve courted her mind first, with whispered philosophies on power and submission, drawing her into my orbit. Now, as my fingers graze her cheek, tracing its curve with calculated intent, I see the tremor in her eyes—anticipation, fear, desire, all woven into one exquisite thread.
“Undress,” I command, my breath warm against her ear. “Slowly. Let me see the vulnerability you guard so fiercely.” Her hands tremble as she obeys, unbuttoning her blouse with care, the fabric parting like a curtain revealing a stage. Her skin emerges—lace bra, the delicate dip of her collarbone, the curve of her waist—each inch a revelation under my scrutiny. She steps from her skirt, standing in lingerie and heels, her pulse visible, a frantic rhythm. I savour this, her excitement is evident.
Circling her, I assess, my eyes tracing her form like a cartographer mapping uncharted terrain.
“Beautiful,” I murmur, not flattery but fact, a prelude to possession. From the table, I select a length of rope, its silk fibres sliding through my fingers like liquid fire.
“Tonight, we explore restraint’s art,” I tell her, my voice steady, authoritative. “Not mere bondage, Elena, but a symphony of control and release. “
I begin with her wrists, guiding her arms behind her back with gentle insistence. The rope is cool against her skin, a contrast to the heat I sense building within her. My knots are precise, born from study—shibari, the Japanese art of rope binding, mastered with the same rigor I’ve applied to other matters which I have yet to divulge. I loop the cord around her wrists, crossing them at the small of her back, the first pull eliciting a gasp that sends a jolt through me. Her submission is a gift, and I am its steward.
“Feel that?” I whisper, my lips brushing the sensitive spot below her ear. “The rope doesn’t bind you; your choice does. Surrender is power, Elena. Yours to give, mine to wield.” I cinch the knot, the friction a spark along her nerves. Her breaths quicken, pressing her breasts against the lace, nipples hardening under my gaze, a silent plea I note but do not yet answer.
I extend the rope upward, weaving a harness around her shoulders that frames her chest like an exquisite sculpture. The strands cross between her breasts, lifting them slightly, the pressure a subtle torment that makes her arch toward me. My fingers adjust, tighten, lingering just long enough to tease, to stoke the fire I see flickering in her eyes.
“You’re trembling,” I observe, amusement lacing my tone.
“Is it fear, or excitement? Or that intoxicating blend where one bleeds into the other?”
She bites her lip, words trapped in her throat, but I read her silence—both, and more. Her intellect yields to mine, her body following suit. I kneel, binding her thighs just above the knees, pulling them together with a firmness that forces her to balance on her heels. My hands graze the soft inner flesh, thumbs pressing lightly, sending electricity through her frame. I feel her heat, her need, and it fuels me.
“Spread your feet as much as you can,” I instruct, and she complies, the rope resisting, creating a taut line that heightens her captivity. I add loops around her ankles, securing them with a knot that permits minimal movement—a calculated restriction that sharpens her awareness. Rising, I trail the rope up her body, integrating it into the harness, pulling her posture straighter, her shoulders back, exposing her fully to my command.
The city’s lights fade to a blur as the room contracts around us, an intimate arena. I guide her to the centre, where a hook descends from the ceiling on a discrete pulley—my design, my domain. Attaching a lead rope to her harness, I hoist it just enough to lift her onto her toes, the strain sculpting her muscles in exquisite tension.
“Now,” I say, my voice a velvet growl, “we begin the true dance.”
My hands explore her bound form, not roughly, but with a sculptor’s precision, tracing the ropes, dipping into the valleys they create. Her nipples, hard through the lace, respond to my fleeting touch, and her soft moan is fuel to me. Circling behind, I press myself against her, my arousal evident through my trousers, a promise I withhold. “Tell me,” I murmur, lips grazing her shoulder, “how does it feel to be so utterly mine?”
“Intense,” she whispers, her voice breathy, laced with need. “Like I’m on the edge of something… profound.” I smile, she pleases me. My hand slides down her abdomen, fingers splaying over the heat between her thighs, the lace a frustrating barrier. I press gently, drawing a whimper, her hips bucking against the ropes that hold her fast.
My intelligence thrives here, anticipating her reactions, calibrating each touch to build tension without release. I unbind the lace with a flick, exposing her fully, my fingers delving into her.
“So responsive,” I praise, my other hand wrapping around her throat—not choking, but possessing, a collar of flesh that makes her pulse race beneath my palm. I work her slowly, each stroke a question, each curl of my finger an answer pushing her toward the edge.
The ropes warm with her body’s heat, a symbiotic embrace. Perspiration beads on her skin, trickling down her back, mingling with the scent of arousal filling the air. I withdraw abruptly, leaving her aching, suspended in frustration. From a drawer, I retrieve a blindfold—red silk to match the ropes—and tie it over her eyes, plunging her into darkness.
Her senses sharpen; I hear it in her quickened breaths, feel it in the way she leans toward my touch. I shed my clothing, the rustle a promise in the silence. Pressing close, my lips find her neck, teeth grazing, then soothing with tongue. My hands roam freely, pinching, caressing, building a fire that threatens to consume her. I whisper secrets—erotic plans, vivid images of what’s to come, words that paint her mind with desire.
Time blurs, the binding a timeless ritual. I adjust the ropes, loosening here, tightening there, each change a new wave of sensation. Lowering her slightly, I allow her knees to bend, then spread her thighs as far as the bindings permit, exposing her core. Kneeling, my mouth descends, tongue tracing patterns that draw cries from her lips, the ropes creaking with her pulls.
Tension coils tighter, a knot within her matching the ones I’ve tied.
“Beg,” I demand, my voice commands.
“Please,” she gasps, the word a surrender. “Take me.”
I position myself, breaching her slowly, the stretch a delicious invasion but a sharp knock at the door shatters the moment, insistent, urgent.
I feel her tense but I continue. Another knock, louder, accompanied by a voice—familiar, out of place.
“Elena? It’s me. We need to talk. Now.”
Her ex-lover, his tone desperate . Elena, blindfolded and bound, trembles beneath me, caught between ecstasy and chaos.
“Marvellous,” I growl. It is time to embrace both states.
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I think we need this one narrated.
Dear Mr Tudor and lovelies,
Did someone mention my name? Bless !
This blog has more excitement than “Yellowstone” haha 🍿
Love to you all 😘
Yes beloved Bubbles, you were mentioned! WiserNow spoke about acquiring your character traits, your empathy, since she got NONE. Yellowstone can very much have her 🍿🍧
Well, if WiserNow is doing what you say, at least she’s got good taste.
“is doing what you say” — problem is she’s not and can’t frankly, but you’d know that if you’ve paid attention to the mockery of those traits where she spoke about doing it. Her taste is good, I agree.
WhoCares, just wondering; are you trying to prove to me that an empath (you) is more tenacious than a narcissist? You’re welcome of course to do it but to save time: what do you want? Logic? ET? Do you want to have the last word stating that WN is an empath? I’ve heard you – that’s your and other people’s view and I accept that. For how long do you want this to continue? My offer to you is to agree to disagree. Just tell me what you want and I will give it to you if it’ll help you to stop clinging.
Jordyguin,
“WhoCares, just wondering; are you trying to prove to me that an empath (you) is more tenacious than a narcissist?”
No. I actually emailed HG, while my comment was still in moderation, and asked if he could delete it because, moving forward, I don’t want to contribute in any way to the narrative that WiserNow is a narcissist. Because she is not one.
I am certain that HG has had much more pressing things to attend than my request to strike out my comment. Which is understandable.
Dear Jordyguin,
Thank you lovely for your reply.
Sadly, it was my character traits that got me here
Personalities may differ, also, we are at different levels on the recovery path. We all have a voice and some are more passionate.
My experience with WN has always been a pleasure, as with you all.
Knowing WN, she would’ve helped saved Yellowstone
💕
Beloved Bubbles, I appreciate your words and beautiful wisdom and the light you have brought here. I of course agree with you that personalities differ and that all are at different levels on the recovery path and it all plays into how we interact. Also our experiences with readers differ so we will make our minds based on that, which is natural and I accept that, and I also believe you and have witnessed it myself that your experience with WN has always been positive and that’s good to read and I’m certain that it will remain positive.
Oodles of love to you dearest Bubbles. Despite the sadness you were confronted with you’ve remained a ray of sunshine, happiness and positivity, thank you for being here and your kind understanding presence❤️💕
Dearest -J-,
I’m overwhelmed with your warmest of words, you are so kind, thank you ☺️
One can only strive to be better against all odds
I don’t want to be like those who have tried to shape me into someone I’m not.
I try to be me, for me. I believe in my own morals, decency and principles and I stand by them.
I aim to always be true to myself without intentionally hurting others
One never ceases to continue making mistakes, learning and improving lovely -J-
Heartfelt thanks 🥰
Thank you so much, dear Bubbles🌸💗🌷
Bubbles,
You always maintain a healthy sense of humour.
And, sorry to suddenly switch gears – I just wanted to convey my condolences with regard to your mother’s passing. (I attempted a reply to an earlier post of yours but got the annoying error message and can’t be sure the comment made it through.)
Dearest WhoCares,
Awww thank you sweet one …..I try, it maintains my sanity somewhat hehe
A “healthy” debate is great, however, when it stops being healthy, it’s no longer a debate
Thank you for your kind wishes WC, I truly appreciate it 🥰
Love to you too, Bubbles xx
Dearest Asp Emp,
Hi gorgeous one
Miss you 💕xx
Dear Mr Tudor,
Speaking about “retraining an appliance” …..not !
I participated in an Aussie march for my country today
It felt bloody brilliant!
Oops ….restraining …. you know what I mean haha
Having said that, “retraining” an appliance is what it’s all about, isn’t it ?
Hi Bubbles,
Retraining, restraining – 6 of one, half a dozen of the other. Lol!
Dear Leigh and Asp Emp,
Soooo true
Dear Bubbles,
“retraining” sounds correct 😉
Hi Asp Amp,
It’s nice to see your comments! Xx
thank you, Rebecca xx
This narrative has replaced the paperback Harlequin romances of yesteryear. No longer do shirtless, long-haired ranch hands claim the boss’s daughter amongst the hay in the barn. They have been replaced by billionaires whose icy hearts aren’t melted by the sunny naivety of the neighborhood barista; but by the power he wields to blackmail her body into reluctantly betraying her mind, using the darkest of deviants to do so. Eternal love has been replaced by possession of the soul. After all, isn’t that the same thing?
You could make a ton of money by increasing the percentage of undergarments the modern-day bored housewife equivalent launders in a week.
Yes, I’ve often thought of launching a range of washing detergent!
The more morally grey and unredeemable the better. As long as it’s She’s-mine-touch-her-and-dye, which coincidentally is a fabulous name for a range of clothing dye.
“Ultra Detergent: Your man’s morals might be grey, but your panties won’t be!”
I am character trait acquiring that!
You know, when you think about it, there are an awful lot of detergents with “Ultra” in their name. And we know you like it clean. The evidence starts to add up….
It is time to reveal my true name.
Procter Gamble Unilever the Ultra.
You had me all excited, for a second, HG! 😄
And on here you allow us to use the short form of your covert nickname, Henkel Gamble?
Dear Mr. Procter Gamble Unilever the Ultra,
If you should happen to find an old letter in one of your drawers that was written by a certain 11-year-old narcissist in relation to an advertisement for a dish-washing detergent, and if you should consequentially be overcome by the desire to provide the world with the EXCLUSIVE TRUE STORY of this letter and its contents and clean up her besmirching of your good name, I feel sure no one would judge you harshly for washing some dirty laundry in public.
HG. This was indeed very good.
Have you ever thought of writing hot romance psychological novels under another pseudonym?
I think they would sell very well, maybe even be made into a film.
Thank you. No, I have not.
Maybe you should. I think they would be a massive hit. These stories are pretty amazing hot stuff.
Hey HG: The last few months…I have been helping a narcissist, a con artist, a squatter, here is why. A shepherd and bee keeper was hired by our HOA months ago. It was done wrong. A non HOA member ( narc on landscaping who terrorizes others but has landscapers hired by the HOA work daily on her pristine area) emailed him and said “7 days” for goat scaping”. He sent in a bid to the HOA President which she signed stating 16 acres which is the field by the beach and a map of it was attached. 7 days was the cost of his goats and trailers arriving. A dispute broke out after 7 days..and the VP of HOA became racially abusive. Calling him a nigger from Compton threatening to kill him. Others mostly men here, spray painted his trailer, slashed his tires, took his goats causing them harm, cut the goats leads leaving especially the 3 babies at risk to coyotes, verbally threatened him, locked him in, tried to hit him with a car and then did, cut his tires, etc…I stepped in. He found me. I offered to settle the dispute with him and HOA with him leaving asap for payment less than what the HOA attorneys would cause. BUT the HOA Egos prevailed and it failed. Then he showed up at my house at midnight one night as police were chasing him for a bench warrant for goat keeping. I let him stay with me and took him to court where it was reversed as FALSE. Then he bugged me daily, he had no food. I fed him. He needed to charge his phones, wash goats, have a shower. Yes I did it. Why? I knew as he revealed to me he had gone to jail, I know he is a vexious litigant, he is in a cult religion and has tried to convert me bringing me their books and lecturing. He also likes me I think. I am never good at telling that. But WHY? Why did I negotiate his car from the tow truck company? Why did I pacify police? Why did I give him food and legal aid… he is a con artist, and a narc.? Why help a narc? This poor African American from Compton who bought goats and does bee keeping without a home then squats and sues people ? Emotional thinking? Yes. The repeated unlawful racial abuse of our rich white community disturbed me, the harm to innocent animals angered me, the unlawful vigilante justice was wrong and misuse and corruption is wrong. I like the narc. BUT he is a con and a vexious litigant who needs permission to sue from a judge because of all his lawsuits He is a con artist. Charming. Full of pity and demanding. I see him . But I hate injustice more. The goats who I have tended in his negligent absence are innocent. I hate racism. I hate injustice. So I am knowingly helping a narc and will do so. The HOA has retaliated. Fining me for a chair outside etc… some of my neighbors dislike me as being friends and helping the shepherd. Others see what I am doing even other HOA board members. Do narcs need protection? Yes. Society does. It’s been interesting dealing with an obvious narc while I maneuver the legal field. I usually help normals and empaths outside of my clients. But narcs and psychopaths are humans too. How do I end up with a line up on my doorstep? All kinds do. He was my first narc. But sometimes narcs need protection too as there are greater evils at risk. my son said “why is it that I help all of these random people, why not join the ACLU or organize your altruism” . I responded. I don’t know. When I was young, I did but I am so busy now it seems they must come to my doorstep. But it is a weird proposition I share. I think in some cases, the end justifies the means. Narcs or even psychopaths must be defended if a greater cause is at stake. Agree?
Contagious,
Narcissists and psychopaths naturally have the same rights and protections as anybody else and ought to be treated accordingly. The Universal Declaration of Human Rights is just that, universal. Even if it may annoy HG sometimes, he is a human being too, and so are the others. If their rights are being trampled on, it is absolutely right to defend them. That is the very essence of the UDHR.
Thank you Anna. This man has been intentionally hit by a car, had his tires slashed, has had his air stream spray painted “ you fxxx goats!, has had his truck towed ( I negotiated it out) been called the N word multiple times by board members as he is black and threatened to be killed by a gun to his head on tape by our VP of the HOA, has had been chased by board members and others, he has been threatened with dogs, his belongings smashed, including his computer, his goats abused, they cut their leads, they took the goats and tied them up without water, they tried to fence him in, defamed as a felon and called “ dangerous” the HOA wrote everyone here” not to talk to him” , he has no criminal record… it goes on. He left but it was deplorable to me and others here. The police were so sick of our HOA they called them children. All over a vendor contract dispute. I tried to settle it. I offered to have them Pay him 5k, he leaves. Settled. They rejected my offer, and have paid their lawyer three times as much. Not a good business decision. Narcs. Control. Bullies. They have retaliated and acted against me for 100$ fine for a chair outside. I have had community members come to me with bullying complaints. One senior lady who ran a daycare here for decades and is loved by the community reported a board VP to the police for taking down street signs. He retaliated by stalking her, putting fines about her plant. He was so aggressive she filed an elder abuse complaint. Others have too. She found me and I went to the board meeting with her. She kept her plant. Now I I know what he is but of course he found me … I was the one he sought legal advice, who let him charge his phone, help care for the 7 innocent goats, fed him many times as a poor goat shepherd and I have had it with this group of bulliies. Someone has to stand up to a lynch mob . It’s deplorable. I am suing them on his behalf next week for 10 million for racial discrimination , assault, battery, conversion, negligence, slander and defamation etc…. I have a conflict that can be waived. But this is what I do. I don’t have the time to do this , it will cause me sacrifice. But I feel compelled beyond reason to take a stand. It will cause me hardship. The racists in my rich white neighborhood will despise me. Others will worry anout special assessments or dues going up and hate me. I don’t care. This is a lynch mob and someone has to stop it. I will. My cadre is carrier and Martry in me. I don’t think my contagion drives me except to see clearly who is who. This is where cadres come in. Many would say I am stupid to step in. Why? I will get a lot of flack. And the guy is a con artist. I know who he is and can manage him. But I always feel this strong urge like it’s fate or destiny or God or probably my own nature to be the one who stands up and fights for those who can’t. I will keep you guys posted. It starts next week. I will file in Compton as he is now homeless. I want a Compton jury to hear my 10 million dollar action. It is my goal to rip out their jugulars. So much for empathy….
Two things to say here.
1. This is what makes Elites so deadly.
2. Why is Elena’s ex boyfriend coming over to your penthouse?
a) He followed Elena.
b) You tipped him off. The negative fuel from two fuel sources would be enticing to the narcissism and stimulating for the psychopathy.
c) A spurned third party tipped off the ex boyfriend.
TS, my guess is A. I think he simply followed her. But then why did it take him rather some time until he knocked? He knew for sure she was inside the penthouse. And how did he gain access inside the building?
What is your guess?
Hi Jordy,
My guess is B.
1. HG is standing by the window as Elena enters. He would likely have seen or tracked Elena entering the building, yet he is still looking out of the window as she enters the apartment. If it is HG’s penthouse, he has seen the view countless times so he wouldn’t be engaged by it unless he was looking for someone. HG wouldn’t have known that Elena was going to be followed so there would be no reason to be looking if that was the case. Also, as you point out, Elena was there for some time before the knock.
2. “She is mine to unravel tonight and the game is about to be played.” Yes unravel hints at the rope, but it also could point to Elena herself unravelling due to the orchestrated appearance of the ex boyfriend.
3. That’s a tempting amount of fuel on offer. Stimulation comes from moving the pieces around the board.
4. HG’s eyes are black. This might be intentional, to create unease in the victim but it might be unintentional possibly due to his mind being engaged by the planned events. HG has to consciously inject life into his eyes, if he describes them as black, I think it’s more than creative license.
I think both men might be vampires.
Her ex is telepathically connected to Elena and he was able to get to the Penthouse very quickly (perhaps flew there) just before HG could fully possess her and make her his.
The ex was probably able to charm a resident to let him into the building.
HG’s eyes are obsidian because he’s a vampire and about to possess her. 🙂
That’s my fantasy anyway. 🙂
The choice of the name Elena feels like a fun spin off the Vampire Diaries love triangle. 🙂
Violetfire,
Bill Compton or Eric Northman? (TruBlood)
TS-
Bill
Hi Violetfire,
Haha! I somehow thought you might have seen TruBlood. I loved that series, I was in the US at the time it was at its peak and I was completely hooked.
I was an Eric fan. That’s good, we could be each other’s wingwomen!
TS, you’re right. 3. It is all too timely to be just a coincidence?! 4. Lol creative licence… Yeah the dark eyes are seeing something/someone coming!
5. And did the ex-lover enter and find out about shibari?…?
6. Was Elena promoted to IPPS?
Jordy,
I see where you are going here!
I’m going to say no to 5 on the basis that I think creativity would be lower if the plan involved a trifecta.
I’m going to say no to Elena being promoted. That’s just a feeling but I imagine HG being more ‘creative’ with secondary sources and becoming ‘creative’ with Primary Sources later in ensnarement. If Elena was Candidate Primary I think there might be more romanticism and less creativity.
However. What the hell would I know ? Haha!
TS, lol! So true, you made good points there, I’m on board with you, no idea, what would we know hahaha.
Flying Monkeys
See The Truth About Flying Monkeys.
Enlightening.
If someone is outnumbered in their opinion online that makes them a mid-range narcissist of the victim kind? Sounds like gaslighting to me. Discussions are important. And people have differing views. I just always feel for the person getting mobbed no matter their view.
People can handle themselves one on one. Piling on someone is toxic behavior. I get that it is a forum open for discussion and people have a right to state their opinions. But I thought you were handling it just fine by yourself. And then reading through everyone else’s piling on just made me uncomfortable. And I wasn’t even involved in the discussion. Reminds me why I left social media.
Couldn’t sleep. Awoke at 3am. Made tea *with cold water… Damn, still cannot focus… What were you wearing? What colour?
New name to add to the list.
IPSS?
Indeed.
24th ? correct?
You’re thinking IPPS.
Oops! Correct! I think it will take a while to adjust my focus after THAT… !!!!……..Master
Z!
How are you?
Hello WhoCares!!
I missed you 💛
I am ok, not at my best, but ok.
I lost my beloved cat in May.
It is hard.
This week his urn arrived, I ordered it in Canada, so I have a connection with you as well, it took 3 months before arriving, but it is beautiful.
(Hand painted to his resemblance).
I am grieving.
It is hard to explain.
I know people will judge “it was just an animal, get over it”.
He literally was my child.
It doesn’t help that my only source of love in my life is my cats ( by voluntary choice).
There are 3 cats still living with me.
How are you and your son?
No more legal battles since we last heard/spoke each other?
At this moment I am preparing for the new dancing season starting soon in my dance company, making new choreographies, warm-ups, answering new applicants, etc, lots to do!
Tensions at work have also normalised. Well I know what my boss is and I am always on high alert. Everyday going to work, repeating the mantra to myself: you will not go on the wheel of misery, you will not increase your emotional thinking, you will not stop using logic, you will keep your mouth shut, again and again!!
Haha!
I was taught by the best 😉😇
I also have this written before me on my laptop, in colourful calligraphy, true fact!
It is a daily battle, but if I stick to that, most days I can handle it well.
It is so nice seeing you again, hope we can see once in a while 💛
Z – 💛💛💛
I am so sorry to hear about your cat. (You don’t have to justify yourself – I get it. I haven’t been able to bring myself to get another cat after my ginger cat of 15 years died.)
The urn you selected sounds beautiful – and, bonus: Canadian made!
My son and I are doing pretty well. He is actually looking forward to his first day back to school next week.
I feel like there isn’t much more legal fight left for my ex LMRN – he hasn’t shown up to court in a while and my son hasn’t had a visit with him going on 3 years now – it will be exactly 3 years this November. (There is an upcoming court date in September.)
Sounds like you are being kept intensely busy with both your careers…Glad to hear that your dance company is doing well! And that things have mellowed (?) at your law firm – I often think of you in the ‘snake pit’ of narc lawyers, lol, and wonder how you are.
I believe, in my current job, there is only a single narcissist around and she is not my boss – thankfully – and I have minimal interactions with her.
It is nice to see you as well and to catch up a bit! I was just reminiscing over past Q & A sessions on the blog and KHG discussions – those were fun (and occasionally very poignant) times!
It’s good that you have some other feline companions around during your time of grieving. Take care, Z. 🌻 ♥️ 💛
Z,
So sorry for your loss. For some of us, they are not animals, they are a part of our heart. I flip the script, those who do not feel this way are suspect. Literally. Hope your grief becomes just wonderful memories of your sweet kitty when the time is right.
… A new favourite good night story…
“how does it feel to be so utterly mine?”
No idea, Mr. Tudor. How does it feel?
Rarely, or rather almost “never”, do I comment on what the participants write. And I try to read little, for many reasons 1) translation difficulties 2) lack of time 3) + when I read a lot on this site, it feels like I’m still communicating with my narcissist (as if we never parted. All these damn memories). Yesterday, for example, I reread “Here Comes The Rain Again”, “Personal Jesus”, “Are You Lonesome Tonight?”, “Utopia”, “A Good Man in a Bad Job”, “The Ties That Bind”, “Razed to the Ground”, “Buried Alive” and so on. Today, for some reason, “Behind Blue Eyes” by Limp Bizkit has been playing in my head all day. Let’s remember the classics, as they say.
But here, I just can’t resist.
“… A new favourite good night story…
“how does it feel to be so utterly mine?”
No idea, Mr. Tudor. How does it feel?””
How funny!! Jordyguin is very witty. Your comments are like a separate form of art)
Josephina((((♥︎)))) you lovely lady you! I’m happy my wit drew you out to comment! Thank you so much!!! No seriously don’t worry about the language issue, you are doing absolutely fine, you are doing perfect! Lack of time is of course another thing but now you’re here and you’re not gonna leave that easy – whoosh ! silk rope – shibari has you 🧶 see??! Do you know how awesome it is when a professional of your calibre walks in here and learns first hand from HG? And besides, I often think now about your complex situation and about your progress? If you want to share how it’s going, please do so. The articles you mentioned reading, that’s some heavy stuff, I know. The pill is bitter initially but post recovery you’ll be running up hills and become even stronger! You’ve come across a goldmine in terms of insider perspective, you won’t find anywhere else. For your personal life and profession — a treasure!!! And also remember that you must ask questions if something is unclear. Also the balance of reading and commenting can help. Because you’re anonymous here, you can be more relaxed to speak your mind actually. (Oh, and I thought that you were from Japan because the ‘saying’ you mentioned is also Japan related, hihi) I hope you’re having a good day, dear Josephina!
“When Josephine’s Second Personality Took Over Control” or “There is no sadder story in the world than the story of Josephine and her mental adventures.”
I ask you to pay attention to this wonderful dynamic. Since our “dear” Josephine has apparently not made any progress. Because she demonstrates her typical behavior pattern.
Let’s give her a discount for the fact that everything happens on the Internet, and not in real life. But! Josephine, in addition to real life, corresponded with her main narcissist almost daily for many years. Oh, how many wonderful A4 sheets she scribbled for him, it would have been enough for several volumes. By the way, at the stage of devaluation, he so casually threw at her: “First I wanted to write revelations in your style …”. Then our “dear” Josephine was very hurt, it was painful. Just a couple of words, but what a stunning effect. I would say that correspondence is no less (and maybe even more) insidious than real communication. Oh well, I got distracted.
What am I getting at… Here is Josephine. A doctor, damn it!! Having long experience of interacting with The Greater narcissist and with a bunch of The Lesser Ranger’s, reading articles by H.G. Tudor (and rereading them),. Our Josephine is so reasonable and full of sense – but still behaves as she is used to.
Apparently, she is like an alcoholic, thinking that you can just smell and not drink. But every alcoholic knows that where there is a smell, there is a sip. Where there is one sip, there are two, and so on and so forth.
Fact #1: Josephine really, extremely rarely commented here. And it is a fact that it was Jordyguin’s sparkling comments that made her leave comments more actively.
Here, our “dear” Josephine, for some reason, does not respond to other participants’ comments with such enthusiasm, does not have heart-to-heart talks with them, does not provide support, and so on and so forth. No time? Interesting, of course. But there was time to respond to Jordyguin.
Fact #2: Let’s remember Jordyguin’s first comment addressed to Josephine. “Can anyone explain to me why Josephine gathered all the Ultras?” Josephine’s first feelings: “This place is not safe” chills down her spine. And further, reading the comments, where Jordyguin sometimes responds quite harshly to participants, did not stop her. The second feeling, you understand that this can be acute. So what. Did this stop Josephine? NO! She goes and writes to Jordyguin.
Why are you doing this, Josephine?
Fact #3: What attracted (as usual) Josephine? Intelligence and, as a consequence, wit. His somewhat high position in relation to the other participants. His impudence. The way he fiercely defends himself here. Why does she always fall for this: intelligence and strength. Yes, she is attracted to strength in narcissists.
Ah, Josephine. She valued “intelligence” above all else. But there are many intelligent people. Whereas there are far fewer empathetic, kind-hearted people.
Yes, I agree! Progress is obvious!!
On this wonderful note, the rational part that Josephine has (I want to believe), tears Josephine away from the monitor and leads her away from this forum, out of harm’s way. And she does not comment on anything else here until she consults with H.G. Tudor. Whoosh
P.S. “Jordyguin, you are still the best!!” – this was the irrational part of Josephine breaking through at the end.
Now this is a complete whoosh.
Josephine, that’s all good news, lovely whoosh! And now I know why you are getting all the Greaters, Mid-rangers and Lessers! You are fountaining with Fuel even in written form and for those types of narcissists who target you, your emotional output – that’s better than sex, you know?! A4 yearly scribbles for that lucky bastard, I can imagine how tasty that was but of course your effort will be devalued in the end. I feel for you, but forget about the revelations-chap! As you rightfully decided; consult with HG Tudor first and all the writings – later. You just whoosh back on this comment section and I’ll do my best to cheer you up if needed.
As to safety, think of this: if HG Tudor lets a comment through – he deems it safe. Those comments which are not safe – don’t see the light of day and are not posted. As in the real world, all kinds of people will come here, will read and potentially comment. Kind empaths, healed empaths, empaths still going through trauma, depression, ptsd, borderlines, bipolars, occasional unaware narcissists, normals, narcissistic people, people with comorbidities, people with particular complexes, apparently even self-aware narcissists and people with ASPD were commenting here in the past. So it will be similar to the real world, but here you’re anonymous and HG Tudor moderates the forum so that plays into safety. The majority who regularly comment are usually the empath group, and long standing readers will readily provide information, support and better answers than myself initially. Forgive my teasing of you! Ultra is just one person, in the category of one: HG Tudor – The Ultra. The narcissists who are similar to HG Tudor and are self-aware about the fact that they are narcissists/psychopaths are in the category of Greater narcissists, for instance Vladimir Putin, Margaret Thatcher. The category of unaware narcissists are: Mid-Range narcissists, for instance Justin Trudeau, King Charles, and Lesser narcissists – Donald Trump, Prince Andrew. The difference between these groups is a whole nother fascinating chapter…
(Now that you’ve written your name in french style, HG Tudor speaks french if I remember correctly. He speaks various languages I believe.)
P.S.: Thank you for the lovely compliment!!! Dear Josephine, please remember to take care of yourself!
This is a rather interesting perspective, HG. Even though I am aware of how some of your stories have a vibe of ‘Tales Of The Unexpected’…… intrigued to read the next scene……
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Why don’t you write about the ugly reality of the male sex drive in pedophila, HG?
Bad for business?
Not sufficiently entertaining for your audience?
Not ‘bread and circuses’ enough?
In Australia at the moment, the ugly reality of sexual abuse in child care centres is being exposed.
Male child care workers who are pedophiles have found ways to infiltrate child care centres. They are sexually abusing babies and toddlers as young as a few months old.
There have been horrific accounts of toddlers being abused when taken into private rooms in child care centres to have their nappies changed.
It is now evident that the child care industry needs better regulation and investigative processes. To date, criminal prosecution of perpetrators has been found to be difficult due to claims that can not be sufficiently substantiated or because there is insufficient evidence.
This is the true reality of ‘predators’ and ‘prey’.
No lacy red bras or fancy ropes are needed to restrain a two year old.
Why don’t you write posts about pedophilia, HG?
Why do you think it is acceptable to dictate what I write about on my blog?
Predators and prey come in a wide range of circumstances. Something I repeatedly make abundantly clear.
This is also my blog and I explain perspectives taken from my experiences.
It is interesting that you consider the description of a style of restraint of an appliance as “entertaining” and “bread and circuses”.
Just because you get a bee in your bonnet about something does not automatically mean that I have to address it. That is a rather entitled approach.
You would also do well to remember that having been subjected to child sexual abuse I choose an alternative response to writing about it. Extra judicial action is far more effective.
HG,
Asking a question is not dictating.
It is in the manner you asked it.
Dear HG: I write this with all sympathy and respect but I agree that you are in a position most effective to educate on sexual predators of children. You were sadly a victim but you are also the ultra. You have far reach. Knowledge is power that changes things. I for one put them as psychopathic sadists. I prosecuted some and the feeling was that I got from them was compulsion. It felt like rats seeking food. They sickened me. I had this fat greedy ugly man next to me who raped his step daughter from 6 to 16. She was this beautiful Hispanic cheerleader who anyone her age would desire. But … she wanted him. She said she loved him. I sat next to him at trial. He couldn’t keep his eyes away from her not for a second. He looked hungry. A hunger that made me sick. I have humbly asked before but I do think you are in a unique position to make a difference as a survivor and as an ultra or a man with great intellect, strength and acuity. From a personal perspective the subject has long haunted me, I have long given to a charity in Thailand. I don’t understand the pedophilia growth or even the whys. If I understood better, I could do better. All I want to do. And I’m personally would love your gifts to bestow others to do the same. A difficult one on many levels but one you are the best capable to address if you can or would. Your legacy is yours and yours alone but I hope you include this topic. I don’t know if it falls under narcissism or psychopathy. Maybe it’s not in your umbrella. Perhaps you could direct us there. Personally I think it’s the most heart breaking subject that gets swept under the rug. Why? I don’t know. There seems to be not enough world wide especially government effort. I watched The Sound of Silence in a theater. You could hear a pin drop at the end of it except for my sobbing. I don’t think anything helps but I read castration might. Will you guide your readers? Help us? I don’t know if it will make a difference but my bet is on you… if you decide. With complete respect regardless as you have done enough.
WN, why don’t YOU create a blog and write about pedophilia???
Not sufficiently entertaining for you?
Hello dear Jordy:
You are a woman of passion, intellect and justice. It’s up to HG of course, but I would love his education on this critical topic if he would. I can think of nothing better than to be educated on this. I for one have long given to charity on the topic. And if I was to find the time to once again try to help children, I founded a charitable arm for them in a nonprofit in my 20s, mentored a child, was a Big Sister and attended classes to work for children in a cancer ward before I got pregnant and could not continue. The protection of the most innocent is close to my heart and soul and only HG can give the education on the topic that will be unique and true. It’s his legacy not mine but I would love it if he chooses to address the topic. I commend Wisernow for bringing up the topic but… a different approach is what I would take. This topic sings to my soul. I don’t understand why our governments don’t put more money into preventing it. I know Elon Musk has tried but so much more needs to be done to protect OUR children.
Hi love, WN’s dictate is misplaced and inacceptable for a variety of reasons. I know that you bring this topic up now and then and there is a huge difference between how you do it, when and where. The aim of this person serves wholly different needs than why you are addressing it.
Please understand that this topic is incredibly difficult to cope with for many people and it can even lead to individuals taking their lives after encountering this type of information if the psyche of the person is unstable at that particular moment in time or the individual is very young and has not developed enough stability in order to cope with such information. It can have very serious consequences on their functioning, without them realising why, including for a lifetime, unrepairable. Distinction is important. Spreading awareness, yes, but not at the cost of sanity of those who are mentally not prepared to encounter such vivid horrific imagery. WN’s lack of emotional empathy is once again on display here and her cognitive empathy is unfortunately not of the finest. She purposefully, although subconsciously since she is unaware, inserted the most damaging mental images into her comment, combining them with the article in order to hit the unprepared and get that reaction and thought fuel.
Hello there dear Jordy:
Excellent point. I would not want anyone harmed by reading about the topic. I mean this with deepest respect…. but given all the narcissism and psychopathy topics: serial killers, rape, torture, why would pedophilia create such harm? And yet I agree with you innately, maybe even answering my own question, there is something so vile about harming the most vulnerable and innocent of our world. Yet it’s on the rise. It seems to be a taboo topic. To be honest, HG is such a fresh perspective… consider his take on borderlines… that if he decided to take on the taboo, maybe with a warning, it would be enlightening. It could HELP. Anything I could learn from him or anyone to assist stopping these vile despots would be welcomed. Of course I cried my eyes out at sound of freedom. I have founded a charitable arm nationwide for children that goes on today, I have mentored children, I was a Big Sister to two. I just bought a doll for my neighbors daughter yesterday and her mother wrote how grateful they are for me and how much she loves me. Of course, I am the lucky one not her. I spend time with children sometimes daily. My favorite thing in the world is to make a child feel good about themselves. It’s so easy! And children love to be listened to…. I trained to work in a cancer ward for children at a local hospital ( but my volunteer work was brief as I had a child.) and I have a story to share…. When I was 16, I worked at the mall. I was having lunch at Cracker Barrel when next to me was this “old man ( my age now lol) with a 5 year old girl. She wore make up. Even as I teen, I sensed from their body language and interaction, I called CPS and told security. To this day I wonder: is she ok? Did I help? But I would not be able to spot one like you might a narc. I think they are sadistic psychopaths. Psychopaths do their best to fit in. But it’s HG’s blog not mine. I am enriched and enlightened everyday by HGs work and it’s totally up to him. Of course. But Jordy… good good good point. Rule no 1: do no harm.
Hey Jordy: one more story but slightly off topic. I was on vacation with my ex MLN and my children. My son was 16 and my daughter 14 then. A family trip. We were on French cruise ship and on a beach in Jamaica. While showering this very hairy strange middle aged man stood before me filming me in my onesie ( bikini days over) washing the sand off of me in a public beach shower. I stopped and told him to F$&k off and NOW. He scurried away… But then he started filming my minor child, my daughter. I ran and put a towel over her. My son saw, who has a mind of his own, a year from joining the marines and also MMA trained and a boxer ran after him and made him delete the videos. My MLN then husband just sat there with a spliff between his lips watching the whole thing. When we were all together he said “that’s the French, I don’t like the frogs, never liked them, don’t get along with them, they are perverse.” As if it was ALL about him!!!! Not to mention a baseless accusation about a country on the whole!
One thing I must confess to all. Bringing a narcissist into my life makes me feel guilty. What an example to me children? Ugh. Most of the time over the years, things were smooth and when they weren’t….I thought I hid it from my children who were teens. I thought. Once my ex was in one of those jealous rages. My daughter was at her father’s and my son couldn’t hear a bomb drop with his video headset on. But my ex likes to threaten he will “ top himself” or threaten to “ do me in.” Threats. A neighbor heard and reported it. I was questioned and my children were questioned by a social worker. My daughter always liked him and she was shocked “ he is boring, drives slow, listens to classical music” she said to them ( ha ha ha… what little did she know). My son never liked him and thought he was a loser. He told me to think with my head and not my heart. A subconscious HG follower. So I hid it from my daughter not my son. Verbal and psychological abuse. And Control issues ( but I am not really controllable as I won’t give up anyone I love and thus conflict). But I can only hope and pray my mistakes didn’t somehow seep into their psyche. It was a horrible time when my children and I were questioned because of his loud threats. I am glad I waited until they were teenagers to date after my first marriage and made them my top priority. But I fell for him and hard. My one and only narc. Narcs are like smoking, and second hand smoke kills too. The truth is the number one reason I didn’t take my ex back to “ try again” with marriage counseling ( the first lasted a week as he accused the therapist of “ fancying me” and he fired us…) . Was to protect my son. My son was in Iraq, he was a combat marine. He suffered injuries in a bomb. He was leaving the Marines after 6 years to go to college and live with me. No way in hell would I risk a hair in that young man’s head. And my ex husband could not be trusted to behave well. At least I finally made a good decision. Both my children are flourishing and I am now divorced!!!!
Hello my beautiful soul! Dear Contagious: You are 100% correct about the importance of addressing the child abuse issue but in order for it not to backfire and result in the opposite i.e. people can’t cope with the horrific and have to avoid this topic in order not to lose their own functioning ability where they have the responsibility to concentrate on their family, attain jobs, study, survive etc. or you have very young individuals not knowing anything about life yet — it has to be done in a delicate way for certain population (keep in mind that empaths of your ilk are rare). Otherwise you lose the attention for this important topic.
The worst thing you can do is to present a problem and make them feel powerless. In this case you are damaging more than actually helping, by weakening the individual’s spirit where the individual is not designed to come up with the solution on their own and also does not ultimately possess the necessary resources to do something about it.
Throwing the horrific at people and letting them drown in it just for the sake of informing — is counterproductive.
The responsibility of those who are capable of coping with the horrific — is to educate about the solutions accordingly, showing the way out. And how to incorporate solutions plausibly into their daily lives.
The narcissist is bound to do the opposite: Throwing the horrific at people and gorge on the fuel of shock. Weakening the individual, obtaining power-over position: Accusing, blaming, guilt trapping, demanding interest for the topic without empathy for the individual’s emotional and psychological state, asserting control and acquiring fuel and thought fuel.
And certainly not presenting any help or solutions of how to: a) deal with the horrific to begin with i.e. how to remain sane after the truth. And b) how to solve the problem i.e. help the innocent, given the preset the individual is even capable of doing so.
HG’s education provides the understanding of WHY abusers are abusing and why ALL people are treated as the same — as objects serving the selfish needs of the abuser (normals can be found within that group also).
From here the next steps can be taken. If you want to see a change on a big scale — the majority of the population must first recognise WHAT they are dealing with.
As long as the population doesn’t know and don’t understand who stands before them, they cannot see the red flags and indicators and act accordingly in their day to day lives where abuse is happening.
If we speak of the average population (not of super humans or already strong individuals who are taking the actual steps in the field) — the goal is to strengthen the average individual by giving them knowledge and tools for recognition and tactics of how to deal with problematic individuals in their daily lives where abuse takes place.
Also keep in mind that not all narcissists are automatically in the camp of horrific abuse of children. Narcissists can also occupy professions where they are in the camp of the protectors. Whether they abuse that position or not is another story. Thus why HG’s education stands on top as a priority.
Wisernow,
What is your problem? Why do you have to spoil everything? You didn’t like Narc Island, Psycopath defends, interview with Anabelle, this article. My opinion you are taking many things too serious.
Personally, I absolutely don’t want to read or hear about a child abuse. No desire at all, I would avoid reading posts on that topic. Doesn’t mean, I don’t care. I know it exits ofc, people do horrible things to children. I have two kids myself. It just would be too hard for me. I recall once I was reading a Schindler’ list book, and there is a scene where Nazi man takes a baby and just smashed his head at the wall. I was on a bus. I literally was about to vomit after that. Had to get out at next station and breath for 10 mins of fresh air to calm down. Videos about Lucy Letby was also tough for me. I know not all people have the same reaction, but me for sure.
Such monsters, pedophiles, are probably driven to get fuel and control. Some of them are just sadists. They deserve to be executed. What else do you need to know? You want vivid images and description of an abuse? – I don’t. I would way more prefer to read articles like this one, about lace bras and silk ropes. I got a feeling you hate sex for some reason. Nothing turns you on. Or maybe not only sex, you hate men, in general. Not all men are abusers, you know.
And as I understood, there is a book, a Little Boy Lost by HG, which is not published or finished. I assume describing how he was abused during childhood by his mother. Me, personally, prefer (and, ofc, it’s upto Mr Tudor to decide) this book never to be produced. Firstly, it would be really hard to read it for me (I have a small son). Secondly, and maybe I’m the only one who thinks like this among his readers, but it might ruin an aura about him for me. Idk, I might develop pity for him, which on one hand is good, but it might kill this image of him being powerful and invincible for me (and maybe not only for me). And I think it’s important for the Ultra to stay like he is now for his legacy. Anyway, I can’t find the right words to properly articulate what I’m trying to say here. So I just give up on this note.
P.S. by “Fuck” I meant I liked the article.
Ary, WN needs just one thing — a reaction. Provocation is her method to get that reaction. The blog is giving it to her.
Lol “Fuck” was great! Short and precise!!
Ary, I also wanted to add that through the Knowing HG Series and the discussions in the private forum (to which the access is provided upon acquiring the Knowing HG Series) HG allowed us to deeply discuss and find out more about his childhood and his formation as the Ultra, and the invincibility of HG didn’t fade, to the contrary, acquiring that insight made one realise his unquestionable strength and how it affects his legacy. A fascinating turn and individual!
WN’s provocation is so utterly ignorant in fact, but what can you expect, you know.
Arya,
“What is your problem? Why do you have to spoil everything? You didn’t like Narc Island, Psycopath defends, interview with Anabelle, this article. My opinion you are taking many things too serious.”
‘Everything’ is an absolute word. Show me where I said I “didn’t like” Psychopath Defends.
Narcissistic abuse is serious. Sexual manipulation and coercion is serious. Complex trauma that lasts a life-time is serious. If you think these things are not serious, then I question your values.
My opinion is that you do not take abuse, coercion, deception, devaluation and pathology seriously enough.
“Personally, I absolutely don’t want to read or hear about a child abuse. No desire at all, I would avoid reading posts on that topic.”
Why?
Considering that I mentioned pedophilia, I take it you are referring to child sexual abuse.
Why don’t you want to read or hear about it? It is a complete and obvious sign of a ‘lack of control environment.’ A LOCE is one of the two ingredients that create a narcissist. Since this whole blog is about narcissism, why would it be something you would avoid reading or hearing about?
“I would way more prefer to read articles like this one, about lace bras and silk ropes.”
This article is a fantasy. It is an idealistic scenario. Scenarios like this exist in tame situations where adults are either paid for their services; or they have the autonomy to consciously agree to consent; or they have the option to remove themselves from the situation.
Have you read the discussions here about John Smyth who savagely beat boys and young men until they bled? He did that after grooming them when they were young boys and teenagers. Due to his grooming, they actually did consent to the beatings. Consent in that situation meant nothing. John Smyth’s actions were still criminal.
And by the way, ‘grooming’ is just another word for ‘love-bombing’. It’s essentially the same thing. The only difference is that ‘grooming’ usually implies the involvement of a child, teenager, or young person. ‘Love-bombing’ usually implies a romantic or platonic relationship between adults.
Have you seen documentaries about actual people talking about their sado-masochistic role-playing? The people involved do not have perfect bodies and they don’t wear silk blouses and lacy lingerie like they’re in some glamorous movie. They are all ages, shapes and sizes. They have fetishes and kinks that they pay someone to role-play with them. They are normal, average nondescript people and could include the 75-year-old overweight retired plumber who lives on the same street as you.
“Firstly, it would be really hard to read it for me (I have a small son).”
How do you think that those who regard sex in sado-masochistic ways became that way? What do you think caused them to develop these tendencies? What do you think their childhoods were like? What do you think they experienced during childhood that influenced their thinking?
You have been reading here about ‘lack of control environments’ in childhood and the resulting effects of this on children. The effects are narcissism, personality disorders and complex trauma. One thing leads to another.
Child sexual abuse => A lack of control enviroment => Narcissism and Complex Trauma => Sado-masochistic sexual behaviours.
Why is it then that you like the article but have such a negative response to the issue of child sexual abuse?
Milking child sexual abuse like a pro, WN.
Ary, the Pedo Ghoul’s hoover is a trap…watch out. 1. Massive triangulation. 2. Guilt Trap. 3. Accusation: a)Something’s wrong with you, if you don’t want to read about child sex abuse. b) Something’s wrong with you for liking the article.
Question to others. Is this an invention? “read the discussions here about John Smyth”.
Was there such a discussion? Did any of you participate in it? Link?
Jordy🤣🤣
Ghoul…thank you for warning.
I think a temperature at this blog atmosphere has increased recently. Idk what is going on.
Jordyguin and Arya,
HG has a 4-part series of YouTube videos on John Smyth called ‘John Smyth : Unholy Predator’. There is also a fifth YouTube video in which HG analyses a video clip.
All five videos can be found on HG’s ‘Narcissism and Psychopathy with HG Tudor.’
Regarding the ‘discussion’ I referred to in my comment above, here is a link:
https://narcsite.com/2023/11/04/knowing-the-narcissist-the-holy-narcissist-3/#comment-458634
You are the only person who wrote one huge single comment referencing John Smyth and referencing the reference in a second comment. THAT’S IT. No one else is mentioning his name and there is no discussion about John Smyth.
“Have you read the discussions here about John Smyth”
Why are you rewriting history?
Why do you remember things differently than they actually were?
Why are you retelling them differently than they actually were?
Why do you remember the conversation as it was just about you, your comment and John Smyth?
The conversation there is hugely versatile. Mainly focuses on motherhood and having children.
And then again you are calling me “he”. Has paranoia returned suggesting I’m HG ?
It’s interesting how you took Contagious’ comment and turned it into a suggestion of character traits acquisition from Bubbles.
Ary, yes, Ghoul as TOW’s Grief Ghoul appearances where she triangulates the public with traumatic events.
Hello Wisernow,
Thank you for the link. I think, I tried to watch one. But as I said earlier, I cannot watch or read smth like that, where someone had tortured and beat up children. It would impact and overwhelm me. I would feel sad, depressed and angry for a few days for sure.
Anger would be evoked by a strong feeling of injustice in this world. I can’t protect them or couldn’t protect them. Or maybe I could, if I have more money, work in police, social services, adoption institutions. In that regard, learning more about how mind of pedophile works would be useful to idetify them easier. I don’t trust charities much. I won’t be surprised if some chairmans of such organizations are pedophiles themselves.
Second reason for anger would be caused by the concept of GOD. If GOD exist, why in a hell he would allow such unhumane things to happen to innocent children?? He is even worse than Devil, cause at least, Devil is open about his intentions. GOD is supposed to bring goodness, but if you look around, why he doesn’t do anything about preventing so much sufferings/abuse to the innocent people? Why he allowed me to be abused? I know it might sound naive, but I really cannot grasp how people who believe in GOD justify his actions. To me, it looks like Devil is a greater narcissist, and GOD is a mid range type A. Or perhaps, he is also Greater. And then maybe a conversation and interactions between those two would look like that:
D: Good Morning, GOD.
G: Good Evening, Devil. How are things going at your side?
D: All is great and perfect as usual.
G: What have you done today?
D: Caused a few wars to spark, killed dozens of innocents in car crashes, and made Netflix to extend a contract with TOW to torture her “fans”.
G: oh, TOW, you shouldn’t have done that, this is really cruel. Have some mercy for humans.
D: You know me, I am what I am. Actually, I want to discuss smth else. I have one girl, small girl, I was watching her. Quite talented mind. I want to subject her to a child abuse, so she would become a narcissist and in a future she would invent an alternative environment friendly cheap fuel that would help to save a planet, so me and you won’t end up jobless in future. What do you think?
G: hmm, child abuse, you know, I’m strongly against it.
D: yes, I know, but remember last time you were asking me not do that to a super intelligent blue eyed blonde boy? Look at what became of him. He explained how evil mind (my mind) works to the world and helped many people to save their lifes and get freedom. Plus, he is a very interesting individual to talk to, I chat with him from time to time, when he is not busy.
G: oh, well. Again you are forcing me to close my eyes on horrible, unholy deeds.
D: Do you remember what Methistophele stated in Faust?
G: yeah, yeah, ofc, I do, I’m GOD afterall, I see and know everything.
D: Deal then?
G: Deal.
I know many here, on the blog, are GOD believers, I don’t want to offend their faith, and it’s not that I’m mocking it, I just don’t get if GOD is so powerful, why he doesn’t protect innocents. Plus add the fact, that many priests have been pedophiles through ages. So GOD allowed those evil acts to happen under his roof and didn’t do anything about it. Therefore, I believe in evolution. And it means Narcissists, Psycopaths would always exist, as well as evil and abuse. Ofc, we should try to minimize it and protect as much as we can, I don’t deny that.
Arya, I’ve been participating on this blog as long as Jordy has – about three years. WiserNow joined some time before. Jordy is just a participant on this blog, as we all are. She’s no more of an expert on assessing narcissism than others here. The common approach on the blog is to take HG’s assessment of narcissism and narcissists as the facts and readers’ assessments will only ever be guesses, regardless of how much evidence they claim supports their case.
I don’t believe WN is a narcissist. But I do think she gets very provocative when she’s pissed off. And my guess is at the moment she’s quite pissed off. Jordy is making accusations about her all over the blog and HG has not only not curbed it but implied WN has deserved it. HG has his own reasons for feeling pissed off with WN and as I mentioned, she gets provocative when pissed off and over the years she’s become pissed off and provocative.
It’s also my opinion that WN can sometimes misjudge or misread some situations and this can lead her to say things others find problematic or which hit a slightly wrong note. WiserNow also has strong opinions on some topics and these can rankle others at times. At the moment there is a mixture of all this stuff going on. WiserNow is pissed off and its resulting in her challenging some articles. She’s then challenging comments made to her.
I’ve been challenging Jordy on her comments about WN and it’s pissed her off. It is partly why I’m an enemy at the moment. I ask you not to prejudge WN based on Jordy’s comments about her. Form your own opinion, be open minded and compassionate. From your comments you seem to be these things already.
“provocative when she’s pissed off”
“at the moment she’s quite pissed off.”
“she gets provocative when pissed off”
“over the years she’s become pissed off and provocative.”
“is pissed off and its resulting in her challenging some articles”
WiserNow is pissed off since 2017 (2016?) and this is called narcissism.
“HG … pissed off”
“Jordy … pissed off”
Three years you say?
You still operate with ‘pissed off’.
I’ve learned English and how to detect a blog-narcissist.
We’re not in the same league, Annaamel.
Ary, what you may observe with Annaamel over time is that she holds herself out as this woke grand teacher who was placed on this Earth to teach HG how to lead and behave on his own blog. Where WhingerNow’s response is delegated by instant fury upon a threat to control so she jumps to comment without actually seeing the video until the end or giving a thought about the article, AA arrives as the closing link and a preacher teacher. This is the trait she and WhingerNow both share and cultivate since they’re active — berate, teach, poke, seek HG’s attention in a provocative manner where the opportunity presents itself.
What they’re doing is so banal and primitive after you’ve realised HG’s true level of intelligence, IQ and abilities that I can’t find words to describe what possibly could go on in their delinquent minds where they think that what they produce is acceptable and relevant. AA will crawl from under her rock each time to fulfill her role as the enabler where she supports but also uses that mess of a narcissist for her own aim as the critic-ally. Holding herself out as holier than thou whilst operating through dissatisfaction and from a position of high handed arrogance masked with apparent justice and appeal to empathy. Delusional and manipulative she is the worst type of an enabler. AA will criticise the TOW series as beneath her, criticise JK Rowling for not aligning with AA’s sick ideology, or she would not even properly research on topics and make ignorant corrective statements which then turn out as false and she then crawls back under her rock to repeat the cycle. Lacking forensic intellectual ability to recognise and analyse behaviour, she’s unable to sustain an argument so she jumps to deflections and base smearings where all she’s capable of in her explanations is that everybody is just simply “pissed off”. This false and misleading explanation is her shield of ignorance in order to remain on her throne of woke grandeur and delusion.
She likes to repeat that I’m angry at her or that she’s an enemy, she really believes she matters that much. She believes she is relevant or powerful enough to evoke that type of feelings towards her which only demonstrates her persistent self-absorbed self-importance where she is but as petty and nauseating as WhingerNow and as irrelevant, so she bleats on about that she “doesn’t believe” where it’s not a matter of belief but evidence. Understandably she must accomplish her narrative in order to preserve her delusional pride. This recurring discussion will lead nowhere but she can’t grasp it. She only gives more and more evidence in support of her allegiance with stupidity, she has set her goal to make the new normal. Thank goodness the TOW series exists and this set of manipulations from narcissists and their enablers are dissected and explained. Whereas this grandiose loser is too “empathic” to watch TOW and learn from it because it’s for a “different audience” you see. Tells you everything you need to understand about her high and unique status in the scheme of things.
Hi annaamel,
Thank you for your comment. I appreciate your points of view.
Please note that I am not “pissed off.”
It may be more correct to say that my ‘perspectives’ are different from those of the majority here on the blog. That being the case, it looks like I am ‘pissed off’ when in fact I’m not.
In my view, there are bloggers here who get much more pissed off much more quickly than I do. And when this happens, there is no space for them to be “open minded and compassionate.” They are more inclined to be self-protective and to stonewall.
I feel the same way regarding your view that I “get very provocative.”
This description is subjective. It is also very general.
It may appear to you that my comments are ‘very provocative’ because they are different from the majority of views expressed here on the blog.
Also, by saying that I am “pissed off” and that I “get very provocative,” you are describing your own subjective opinions in a vague and general way.
Having said all of the above, I still appreciate your comment and thank you for commenting. Thank you for your willingness to communicate even when doing so can lead to uncomfortable or critical judgements of you.
Jordyguin, my dear, my love,
“WiserNow is pissed off since 2017 (2016?) and this is called narcissism.”
Thanks for the laugh, sweetcheeks.
Alter your entrenched perspective for a second and think of it like this…
There would still be quite a few here continuing to pretend to enjoy sitting on a naughty step in the middle of a dungeon if I had not made my views known at certain points in time.
You may think of it as being “pissed off”, mon cherie.
On the contrary, I think of it as breaking down a door so that others can swan through the open door as they continue to be oh so self-righteous and loving.
(Do you like the little dollops of honey I’ve added to my comment, Jordy, my love, my sweet?)
Hi WN.
Thankyou for your respectful response even though you had some disagreement.
You’re correct that my comment was subjective – it was simply my opinion. I neglected to clarify that sometimes which was inappropriate. I also agree the comment had some generality and vagueness.
Mon cheri WhingerNow, it was my darling beloved Contagious who asked for honey not moi. Why are you asking me if I like it? Wasn’t asking for it, silly. And you didn’t use honey btw. you used what carnivorous plants use in order to attract prey to their traps.
“for your respectful response”
She was not respecting you, useless appliance, she looked down on you asserting control directly by rearranging how her middle-mid-range B manipulations are to be interpreted via her common bouquet of manipulations.
1. Gaslighting / Blame shift: “It may appear to you that my comments are ‘very provocative’ because they are different from the majority of views expressed here on the blog.” — Gaslighting: it may appear to you i.e. what you perceive is not how it is in reality.
“majority of views expressed here” — Blame shift: her comments are not provocative in the face of the majority of views here who fail to interpret her comments in the right way.
2. Grandiosity / Blame shift: “my ‘perspectives’ are different from those of the majority here”/ “my comments are different from the majority of views expressed” — The direct and passive aggressiveness, the provocations, the huge sense of entitlement, the arrogance, the triangulations, the blame shift, the put downs, the accusations, the warped perspective, the pity plays — receive a label of “different perspectives” and you better see them as such and don’t expect accountability for any of that since others are at fault misinterpreting her good nature.
3. Blame shift / Revision of history: “In my view, there are bloggers here who get much more pissed off much more quickly than I do.” — Where she receives a pushback to her manipulations, the part which led to the pushback i.e. her initial provocation is not recognised for what it is i.e. her narcissism prevents self reflection on who started it in order for her to successfully repeat the manipulations, managing her facade and pursuit of the Prime Aims.
4. Contradictions:
a) “bloggers here who get much more pissed off much more quickly than I do.” — Slipped through admission: yes, she’s pissed off.
b) “Please note that I am not ‘pissed off.'” — Denial.
c) “it looks like I am ‘pissed off’ when in fact I’m not…” — Wordsalad, evasion.
5. Avoiding accountability / Blame shift / Deflection: “Also, by saying that I am ‘pissed off’ and that I ‘get very provocative,’ you are describing your own subjective opinions in a vague and general way.” — Deflection onto you from herself by shifting the blame onto you i.e your false opinion doesn’t matter, only how she interprets her own behaviour is the correct description i.e. no accountability will be taken, fuck off, useless appliance.
Benign hoover at last: “Having said all of the above, I still appreciate your comment” — Swallow all of the above and continue to believe that she’s an empath.
6. And last but not least: she again delivered it on a plate, her facade cracked and it surfaced — “I think of it as breaking down a door so that others can swan through the open door as they continue to be oh so self-righteous and loving.” — HOW more obvious does it need to become what goes on below?!!
7. In her response to Contagious she’s again calling me “he” — her paranoia came through again, she thinks that I’m HG. Who else could it be by whom she may receive a pushback, of course HG himself.
8. The middle-mid-range narcissist (all types) is the most passive aggressive (and the MMR-B type is also commonly directly aggressive not just passive) and the one who uses pity plays the most. Potentially temporary withdrawal and return as if nothing happened, yet with pity plays woven into her commentary until the passive aggressive and direct provocations are then used again. It depends on the appliance’ status black or white, on what type of hoover will be applied.
Arya: I would. I am a mother too. I prosecuted them. Met them face to face yet I don’t understand these vilest of all subhumans and I never will. It’s a separate classification on the DSM. Compulsion is there. I saw it. . But to me there can be no empathy. Are they psychopathy’s who collect children of all ages or are they narcissists easily fueled by the manipulation of an innocent child? It’s always been around but it’s on the rise. It’s billions made worldwide off a child. I have long given to charity on the topic. Personally this is the one area I would like to donate my time and money stopping but I don’t know how. Moreover, no one explains why. Are they born that way like psychopaths? Are they made? Many are victims. But my friend is a barrister in London who saves children. He had two cases under 3 of sexual abuse. A topic so vile most of us can’t tolerate reading about it. But if HG decided to grant his wisdom, I bet we would get it better. Knowledge is power. Of course it’s up to him. Of course. But if I could do anything to save an innocent child, I would. I wish I was there for HG. As The Sound of Freedom said “God’s children are not for sale.” Wisernow: your interest in the subject is commendable. Try honey next time? 🙂
Thank you Contagious.
I will take your advice and ponder how to incorporate honey into my comments to sweeten them up.
I suppose I could take a leaf out of Bubbles’ book and address everyone as ‘Dearest … ‘ That’s one option, I guess. I could sign off with kisses and love hearts? Would that help?
Then again, have you seen the way Jordy addresses me?? I’m surprised you haven’t told him to try honey. He needs to marinate in a bee-hive, if you ask me.
Wisernow: I don’t see how it could hurt ??? anyone on this blog could take a leaf from Bubbles’ book, me included, she is a lovely lovely lady yes! She exudes empathy. I personally like the “ respectfully I disagree approach.” I feel like Dolly… but could only touch the hem on her skirt…, I genuinely like this blog and ALL of its members but …. But…. But… I like it the best when the great intellects here and there are MANY, highly talented writers with great wit ( ok HG beats anyone in wit) address issues outside of each other. I have watched movies ( I think Jordy recommended one ☝️ unknown universe? I can’t recall the name that was brilliant), I have learned new things from you guys, or events in different countries. I love it when educated guesses are approached on one of the many types of HG’s YouTube series or articles. And I like off the topic gab a lot … too much so ….or when we joke. I am not gifted with being so funny but I like a good laugh and often do with this community. I am still waiting ( waiting is the hardest part! lol) for Tom Hardy and Lily Allen’s results. I bought her book, great …and Gwen’s ( total bore… Gwen sounds like the most boring person to know, very entitled and extensively shallow) and Jada’s ( slightly interesting a bit demented) to see the narcissism. I already have a lot on Dolly… books, music etc…. As I am attracted to empaths. In general, I am a proud carrying card of the HG Tudor community and find the bloggers here to be the BEST. My Best always!
9. WhingerNowrc and her mockery of Bubbles:
“I suppose I could take a leaf out of Bubbles’ book and address everyone as ‘Dearest … ‘ That’s one option, I guess. I could sign off with kisses and love hearts?”
(But let’s close our eyes to that and pretend that the mockery of one of the oldest and loveliest beings in the history of the blog — don’t exist. All fine, WN is an empath. Sleep well 5 sugars who endorsed that mockery.)
10. The sheer density of direct and passive agressive provocations hopping from one article to another seen in the most recent trail throughout the Narc Island, The Psychopath Defends, Restraining an Appliance — is emotionally not sustainable for an empath who is not designed for sparking confrontations as initiator. ESPECIALLY if it’s a longstanding reader who is supposedly supportive of the blog and HG, but turns out to repeatedly dictate to HG what to do and devalue his work and him.
An empath may defend themselves tenaciously if under attack but they are not the provocateur and agressor and therein lies the difference which is demonstrated in WN’s behaviour, for a very long period of time. Years.
(But let’s close our eyes to that either and pretend that it’s not happening and invent another odd excuse for why she is an empath and that her empathy really shines… Your really like to make it easy for yourself, sugars…)
‘An empath may defend themselves tenaciously if under attack but they are not the provocateur and agressor’
Not sure how you come up with these theories but empaths, and supers in particular, can be total arseholes. I can and will both aggressive and provocative. All I really need is to be angry about something and the reason for my anger might or might not be apparent. There are examples all over this blog of empaths being major jerks to others. You are probably, at the moment, the choice example.
Dear Mr Tudor and lovelies,
I’m more than happy to give out free “leafs” and some
Luv you all 🥰