Knowing the Narcissist : Understanding Emotional Empathy : The Difference Between Empath, Normal and Narcissist
What is Emotional Empathy and who has it? What is its role with regard to empaths, normal people and narcissists?
To ensure you understand what has happened to you in respect of your involvement with the narcissist AND to allow you to defend yourself against future ensnarement and hurt, this Assistance Package will provide you with a wealth of information which includes :-
Understanding Emotional Empathy and what it is
Understanding how Emotional Empathy operates with regard to empaths, normals and narcissists
What does Emotional Empathy do?
Why empaths and normal people can be hurtful and why?
How to recognise Emotional Empathy
The relationship between Emotional Empathy and Cognitive Empathy
Several detailed scenarios demonstrating for you in clear and understandable terms the interactions between empaths, normals and narcissists in respect of conflict and its resolution
Several detailed scenarios to help you understand the difference of response from those involved in conflict
Several detailed scenarios demonstrating the response of empaths, normals and narcissists so you understand how instinctive manipulations occur
Several detailed scenarios showing how Wounding and Challenge Fuel factor into the concept of Emotional Empathy and Cognitive Empathy
This Assistance Package is delivered by audio file and will enhance your understanding of a key component of human behaviour and most importantly of all it will ensure you recognise how a narcissist is behaving in the context of emotional empathy so you are able to defend yourself.



I asked this question on Questioning Me but got the dreaded nonce verification so apologies if it comes through twice.
HG, If you have time please.
1. Is there such a thing as empathy mis-targeting? Emotional empathy isn’t eroded necessarily but it is directed towards the wrong person or situation?
Also.
2. When emotional empathy erodes, is it the case that the individual loses empathy for those at the furthest point of the circle of empathy first? Or, might the empathy erosion be directed inwards towards the empath herself perhaps making her more self critical? Or might the empathy erosion show itself by the empath having less energy, less patience for all people included within her circle of empathy? Which is most common?
1. Do you mean someone´s emotional empathy is directed towards something that is undeserving of that person´s emotional empathy?
2. The erosion might be directed at one person only and other individuals in the circle are unaffected or the erosion may be more widespread and affect all members of the circle, starting with those on the outer fringes first.
HG,
“ Do you mean someone´s emotional empathy is directed towards something that is undeserving of that person´s emotional empathy?”
Yes. Perhaps not entirely undeserving, but, let’s say the emotional empathy latches on to one aspect wholeheartedly, a less deserving aspect, and therefore overlooks a second more deserving aspect.
Point 2 regarding empathy erosion understood. Thank you.
TS,
Number 1 is a very interesting question and I think you’re on to something. I would bet our overall beliefs can cause our empathy to mistarget. I would also bet that if someone doesn’t have the same beliefs, that might reduce our empathy for them as well. I think that’s happening quite a bit in the world right now. I would think that our emotional thinking must be at play somehow too.