Knowing the Narcissist : Beautiful and Barbaric
The narcissist appears like an angel masking the malicious devilment that lies beneath. Becoming entangled in the grip of a narcissist is first a world of beauty and then one of barbaric horror. Straight from the mind of the narcissist comes this journey through the wonderful and the bewildering as you are granted direct access to the way that the narcissist behaves and thinks. To deal with the narcissist and recover from his or her malign influence requires the ability to understand the way he or she acts and thinks. This book will enable you to do both as you delve into the beautiful and barbaric world of the narcissist.
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I think with narcs and duality it stems from this. They are weak. They can’t cope with reality, life is hard. Reality can be harsh. So they create an illusion they live in where they are good and often great and life flows within their control which is a delusion of safety. As life is not within our control. So the beauty is when you validate the their illusion or delusion. The beast or barbaric is anyone who challenges their safety zone of delusion. How you can tell a non- narc from a narc over time is a non- narc doesn’t change. He may be imperfect, lose his temper, have some vices but you never once think Jekyll and Hyde. With a narc they are a two sided coin. They aren’t one stable person consistent. They lack stability as no one is home. They cling to a delusion as a protection from real life. And the Jekyll is the sweet fragile child who appreciates you holding up his delusion. The Hyde is not a child. It’s the ballistic angry man who will guard his compound like Fort Knox at all costs even your safety as if you enter his remain and expose reality. He crumbles, dies, goes into psychosis which he already is in but deeper.i think that’s the ticket the tiny boy is a dreamer, a fairy tale builder, the guard is a grown angry vile man of limited emotion if any ready to defend his compound with his life. Both bat shit crazy delusional, one a child you love, the other a monster you hate but one and the same living in a delusion you can never enter….in reality. But the reason for the delusion: life sucks and I can’t face life. Let me run and hide as the only way I can live