But Why Did the Narcissist Do That?

I have heard this said so many times, read about it from bewildered and perplexed people and know from experience the confusion that accompanies this question. “But how could he do this to me after everything else? But why would he behave like this? But who would do such a thing as that? He said […]

Relationship Bulletins

  One of my early girlfriends, Olivia (amazing legs by the way) said that one of the things she really liked about me when we first got together was the pride I showed in broadcasting to the world that I was in a relationship with her. She expressed surprise and delight at how widespread my announcement […]

A Fearful Terror

  Fear comes in many forms. It has the capacity to cause dread, anxiety and nervousness. Fear is one of the most powerful tools that exists to facilitate control over somebody. Think back to when you were a small child and the things that frightened you. Many of them have a universal applicability. How many […]

Mother Knows Best

      “I love you.” “I have heard this is a good one for getting a reaction from you because this is what you always want to hear.”   “You won’t ever amount to anything.” “Not while I am interfering in every facet of your life, controlling you and making your childhood and your […]

Why The Narcissist Makes It All So Difficult

  You will have silently asked yourself this question many times. You will have asked it of friends and family as you recount the latest confusing bout of behaviour from us. You may even go so far as to ask us why we make everything so difficult. Your confusion stems from several places. First of […]