What Happens When a Narcissist Loses a Primary Source

The narcissist pursues the Prime Aims . All of the appliances in the fuel matrix contribute to some extent, to the Prime Aims.  The various elements of the Prime Aims are of importance, but one element is of critical importance. The most important aspect of the Prime Aims is fuel and control and I  have explained […]

Tell Me What You Are Thinking

  You may remember Sophie who was one of my ex-girlfriends. She was a happy-go-lucky kind of person and loved dashing from person to person wishing them well. She was like a machine spewing out good wishes, pleasantries and compliments. “You look really well,you have lost weight.” “That skirt really suits you.” “I heard you […]

Constant Companion

  The narcissist in your life may have turned to you and said, “You are the one true constant in my life,” or words to that effect. Of course, when this sentence was said to you with faux sincerity shining in our eyes it was intended as another love bomb that rained down on you […]

The Narcissist and the IPPS : The Four Classes

I have written before about how there are four cadres of narcissist – the Victim, the Somatic, The Cerebral and the Elite. I have also references on many occasions the three different schools – the Lesser, the Mid-Range and the Greater. Knowing what cadre and school your narcissist belongs to is extremely helpful in enabling […]