There can be no disputing that ensnarement with our kind results in misery for our victims. How might one assess that misery in terms of impact? There is both an objective standard and a subjective one. Let us take two ensnarements :- The first is the Intimate Partner Primary Source (Wife) of a Middle Lesser […]

  Another session with Dr E. As I sat down in his consulting room I wondered how much had been spent so far with regards to this supposed treatment. A few thousand pounds no doubt and I imagined that both Dr E and Dr O would be more than content to continue these consultations given […]

  Narcissists abhor intimacy. Why is that? It is an instinctive and necessary response. Intimacy creates attachment. As I have explained in Attachment Is The Seat Of Misery we attach our victims to us, but we do not attach to you. If we became attached to our victims we would not thrive and survive because our […]

  This is an important albeit comparatively short article, and you have a role to play in it. This blog has been in existence for over 10 years. Many of you have been involved in this blog for numerous years, reading, commenting, and providing your contributions and for that, I am appreciative. Naturally, the amount […]

  I understand my kind, as I one of them, although I am a narcissistic psychopath, so my outlook is somewhat different from your pure narcissist. Nevertheless, there are plenty of them in my family, I have worked with many, I’ve messed with many, I’ve observed and studied many, which is why I’m able to […]