“HG, I am decent-looking, have a good job, I am intelligent, caring, fun and interesting. I dress well, I am a dab hand at cooking and nobody has ever complained about my bedroom skills. He has left me for THAT! Why?!” It is a refrain I have often heard. Why, when the narcissist could have […]

  Think back to that glorious time when you were courted by the narcissist who ensnared you. Amidst the delight and excitement of that powerful and dizzying seduction there is a good chance that mention was made of his or her ex. That person was the devil incarnate weren’t they? They were an abuser, a […]

Here is your wake up call Are you in an Intimate Relationship Narcissist? If so, you need to understand what that means and how you will be treated. You need this information because Emotional Thinking is going to con you to your detriment. Emotional Thinking will prevent you accessing Logical Thinking and knowing what will […]

  This article provides you with the analysis of an interaction between a Somatic Lower Mid-Range Narcissist and three Standard Empaths (one from the Magnet Cadre the other two from the Carrier Cadre). The emphasis is not about the schools and cadres of the participants (although the flavour will be evident) but rather on demonstrating the nature of […]

  Surely you can, yes? Just heap on the compliments. Or maybe be completely compliant? Or maybe you need to follow a lot of the awful ‘advice’ out there about how you can control/manipulate/co-exist with the narcissist. Or you could get weaponised and listen to this instead. Listen to the insight here