No Contact Mistakes – Talking About Us

    “Fire and swords are slow engines of destruction compared to the tongue of a gossip.” – Richard Steele True words indeed. Gossip is a sure fire way to destroy your imposition of no contact. When you have implemented no contact you will have most likely have ensured that you stay out of our […]

No Contact Mistakes : Thinking We Will Not Hoover You

  A second common mistake which occurs when somebody implements no contact is thinking that there will not be a hoover from us. As I have explained, the hoover takes place at various points in the dynamic between narcissist and victim. In this instance, it concerns the post escape or post disengagement  hoover. Where you […]

No Contact Mistakes : Item Retention

  It is well understood that no contact is the effective approach to tackling our kind. Whether your entanglement with a narcissist was in a romantic context, familial or a friend, the aim is to cut that person out of your life forever so that the cessation of fuel supply forces the narcissist to seek […]

No Contact Suicide : Part Two

  I have explained previously that there are two guaranteed ways by which you will cause your no contact regime to be breached. The first method is as a consequence of you contacting us first, where we anticipate that you will make that contact with us, be it in person, by telephone call, text message […]

No Contact Suicide : Part One

No Contact can be difficult to implement. Even harder to maintain. We are looking to batter down your no contact wall and breach your defences so that we can exert control over you once again. It may be because we want draw fuel from you, positive or negative or we may wish to draw fuel […]