Who are you?

That’s an easy one. You are my soul mate. You complete me. You are the only one who gets me. I would die without you. I know we’ve not met yet but I feel a connection already and it’s all down to how marvellous you are. I know it and I am so blessed that we are together. Nobody will love you the way I do.

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11 thoughts on “Who are you?”

  1. And yet no replies left. Your title is “Who are you”… of course you being the narc does not really need to identify us as an individual with likes, dislikes, hobbies and so forth but you have already started your game…. let me in introduce myself. I am an almighty lover of your kind… I will fight, worship and give you the gratification you desire until I am tired of losing myself in your dusty cloud of chaos!

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  2. Exactly what I needed at this point in my healing process. Although your Blogs are at times “triggering” they are also healing and helpful. I have been on the websites that cater to the victims of your type, however I found them annoying after awhile because everyone was asking the same things..”why, did he ever really love me, why is he hoovering, I can’t believe he moved on so fast, I was the love of his life”….
    I am beyond this phase, and felt as though I wasn’t getting anywhere, as I knew it was all manufactured, but I couldn’t wrap my head around it.
    Please keep on keeping it real….. Knowledge is power

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    1. Hello Stoverit and thanks for your post. Yes it is not comfortable reading but it will allow you to use this rare information in whatever way you see fit. I know from private messages I have received on the FB page that numerous people have commented along similar lines to you. There are a number of people who seem content to ask the same questions repeatedly and to wallow in the misery and hatred. That is their choice but to my mind that does not afford them any progress. I am pleased you have found the blog of interest and do spread the word.Knowledge is indeed power.

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  3. I am one to know one. Your books (read so far Decipher, Red Flags and half of Revenge) surprisingly made me understand there is a lot of the narcissist in me too. But I am not a complete one. Only have enough to identify my own behavior and understand why I have the need to “beat” this type each time, and eventually, not getting to a real and healthy relationship.
    Due to your logic, do you think it is possible that I am mainly the emphatic type, but posses also few of the narcissist characteristics?

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    1. Hello Not, thank you for reading the books. Everyone has narcissistic traits but it takes many of them and to a certain degree to amount to what is clinically regarded someone being a narcissist. You may well be empathic but with some narcissistic traits which you use for “good” purposes. Not all narcissistic traits are bad if handled in a certain manner, as viewed from your perspective. From our perspective none of them are bad as they are necessary for us to survive and thrive.

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  4. I am me. Take it or leave it. My veins are filled with blood just like Yours. My heart beats just like Yours. I breathe just like You. You know me. You know what’s in my head. I’m screwed up. Not because of my life experiences but because of who I am. I’m willingly giving myself away. I am volunteer. I am co-dependant. I am an appliance who can’t work without it’s owner pressing the buttons.

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  5. I’m afraid that after reading all about it I’m not sure I want to live without him anymore. Manufactured or not nobody has ever made love to me like that before and I can’t go back. I know he’s mentally killing me by telling me once a week that I make his skin crawl and he can’t stand the sight of me. But he always comes back. I just die until he does

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    1. OMG get a grip and leave. Why would you stay with a guy who hates you, constanly lies and cheats on you?? Geez have some self respect. F. the sex. Yes they really are good lovers but that is all they have and nothing more. I already forgot all about how big his d.ck was and how good of a lover he was after all he has done to me, hell no I am glad he is out of my life for good. F. the sex. F. him too.

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