The Narcissistic Truth No.19


26 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truth No.19

  1. Elaine says:

    Yes. Nothing is ever resolved. Narcs think they are right, everybody else is wrong. They cannot see anyone’s point but their own.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Actually Elaine that is partially correct. Lesser and Mid-Range cannot see the other person’s point, we Greaters do but see not reason to acknowledge it because to do so would be to cede control and we cannot have that happen.

      1. AH OH says:

        It is good to know that you do know. This knowledge landed a spot in my tool kit. Well, my Makeup Kit. (arming against a Greater Narc)

      2. Love says:

        I would prefer a Greater any day to the Lesser and Mid. Mr. Tudor, are there places that Greaters congregate, where lesser or mid will not go? Happy Weekend.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Essentially you should have regard to the hunting grounds as detailed in Sitting Target and consider that more exclusive and expensive versions of those hunting grounds will be where you will find the Greater of our kind.
          Try that or drop by where I live (although I am not there at the moment)

      3. The Punisher says:

        You are a true giver, Love.

      4. Love says:

        Then I shall wait upon your return and visit. How else can I watch mesmerized as you expertly use your cutthroat blade? Yes, I’m still stuck on that.

        Hi Punisher. Do you mean the greater will take much more than the mid/lesser ever could?
        I see it as the amount of energy I exert. I would give all of myself to the person I’m with. Yet if they are a lesser/mid, they don’t properly use the fuel I’m giving and some goes to waste. I rather select a greater because he would take 100% of my fuel and use it towards his machination. Nothing is wasted. He is a much more efficient machine.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          By all means Love.

      5. The Punisher says:

        Hey Love. I was referring to the amount of energy expended as well. I understand where you are coming from now. I am less concerned with how the fuel is used and more concerned with maintaining my own energy levels. Thus you are much more giving than I will ever be 🙂

      6. Love says:

        You are right Punisher. I expend all of myself and in the end, I’m exhausted. Luckily my energy level is completely restored once I’m out of the relationship. I haven’t quite figured out how to balance myself and not give all of me. I’m not sure if I even want to learn.

        I hear pregnancy and delivery pains are forgotten after the fact, so a woman desires to have more children. I’m in a similar situation. I forget the pain and torture and desire to do it all again with a new narc.

  2. she says:

    Nothing is ever resolved. What he says goes or it’s his way or the highway with my Narc.

  3. Darkness Falls Again says:

    This does not relate to this post yet I do need to say this

    Thank you HG for the marvlous job you do here, I am in complete awe and Impressed by the fact you are not only multi tasking between FB, this blog, twitter, your consultations both phone and email, and comments. And you have a career and life outside of this.
    With out you so many would still be left stranded wondering what the hell hit them! I know some just see you as what you are, yet fail to realize it is always the best in their field that can bring an understand for many and the biggest change anyone has ever seen! This is not a job for just anyone and a man of your caliber is needed to get the job done, the best of the baddest, perfection at its finest!

  4. Darkness Falls Again says:

    Do you enjoy a good arugment or is it just the point of chaos?
    Very rarely do I argue with anyone, I bring the facts lay them down, then revert to rule number one depending on who I am “arguing” with,
    Now if you can get me to raise my voice I dont usually back off, all sense of logic has left the room.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I enjoy an argument for fuel and a debate for fuel and intellectual stimulation. I relish locking horns with someone on an intellectual level.

  5. The Punisher says:

    Nothing would be what it is because everything would be what it isn’t. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn’t be. And what wouldn’t be, it would. You see?

  6. Darkness Falls Again says:

    Rule number One
    You are always right
    Rule number Two
    When in doubt revert back to rule number one

    Was there an arguement?

    1. MLA - Clarece says:

      I need to start implementing this in my everyday life.

  7. MLA - Clarece says:

    Do you personally view it as a sign of weakness when we keep trying to reason with you, not perseverance?

      1. Santefe says:

        Why don’t you see it at as weakness? or is it simply fuel?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          It is seen as a requirement in order to generate fuel and keep you bound.

    1. Snow White says:

      I spent the two and a half years trying to reason with her and I was naive enough to believe I was doing some good. I thought maybe she would start to see things from my point of view. I was always on her side, but now I know she thought that I was criticizing her and against her.
      I always wanted to reason, not argue.

  8. That’s because the arguments are the same thing over and over and over…you get the point….
    I’ll end it, you win…now on to something sweeter and more detectable. Let’s make up! 😁

    1. AH OH says:

      “Indictable to your behaviour”…….Jonathan

      “Is that what you had said”……….Bon Qui Qui

      “Piss off”………….Ah Oh

  9. 1jaded1 says:


  10. You cannot resolve an argument because if an argument is solved it needs no re-solving. Or you could say why is there an argument if the situation is already solved, therefore there is no reason to resolve it.
    Score: HG 1 Virtual Argument Ender 0

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