16 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 32”

  1. Of course you do HG. I mean if they are beautiful my God someone may come along and see that fuel source especially if they meet the other criteria. We cannot have that now can we, at least not until you have drained the tank assuring that there will be nothing left for anyone else. Entitlement after all. Let’s face the music and it is the old ways of surfacing from primitive man, archaic and outdated…Treat them mean, keep them keen (great supply and manipulated in such a way that ensures it is premium grade just for you). Narcissists are not particularly good at sharing. What’s hers is yours and what’s yours is yours or visa versa depending on the gender and inequality within the well shall we call it a relationship, nah that is not what it is, silly us. Now then we may all choose to think we are beautiful in a myriad of ways but that is usually our own perception. Kind of missing in action the flow and order of things- handsome n has every reason to believe he is handsome, I mean when his aunts grabbed those chubby cheeks as a baby and his mother needed a trophy child due to her own less than good looks, it was spoon fed into his being that he could use that in any way he saw fit to manipulate, bring attention to himself. Just such a shame he is so putrid on the inside and all that remains is the mask, well a closet full of them. I am beginning to think there may be some gender issues with the n because no matter how much he does to preen the outside it is becoming increasingly difficult to maintain. Oh yes, he can purchase new specs and stand a little longer before the mirror and I really have not told him how the glasses emphasize his lines around the eyes to the rest of the world but best not to offend, hey. Loved your article on poison pen, for the inexperienced and new fledglings it is perfect. For some it validates every single thing they have lived and know and worked out yonks ago without our input or resources. As you know there is an exchange of sorts that occur between a narcissist and an empath and it a school of transition.

    Someone will always be beautiful in the eyes of the beholder, no matter the years as those who have true beauty shine from places that are not of the darkness and it is infectious, cannot be contained, nor owned as it is and has never been up for sale.

    That place is inside every narcissist, it’s a real shame that they don’t recognize it.

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  2. Oh my Lord is this true. My last narcissist uses Facebook as his harem and PR; therefore, because he really likes the look of my profile picture, uses it to triangulate with his new supplies. I haven’t visited his profile for 4 months, not contacted him in any way at all. He still cannot stop coming to my page all the time. even though i only post once a week. Calm cool updates, no supply for him.
    Commenting, liking, putting heart emoticons, is what he does.
    But it is all about my looks on photos. He wants to make mutual female friends jealous. He does not care about me at all. He just wants to be associated with my name.
    I am totally grey rock towards him.
    Eventually he will get tired of this, and defriend/block me.
    But i will still never contact him.

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  3. Good morning H.G.,
    I think that the beauty inside each person remains, it is just injury and needs to be treated. It is difficult and painful and to bring out the beauty that you have inside, you need to take care and love yourself.
    PS. Did you receive my email?

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  4. YOU are the beauty!!!! Because You never felt You were enough as a child now You choose to be seen and perceived as a bad boy … of You think You can’t be best as THE GOOD One You chose to be best as THE BAD ONE. no need for that my dear G.

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  5. Hahah oh wow! So damn true.

    I am the picture of innocence and I do okay on the aesthetic front.

    I think the Ns are somewhat disappointed when I’m not as innocent and naive as I look.

    Except I thought I wasn’t naive until the MN proved otherwise.

    But I will play it some more.

    I want to ensare a greater now after my latest fiasco.

    Well someone has to pay!! And it’s no way going to be someone with a kind heart.

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