The Narcissistic Truths – No. 33


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  1. NarcAngel says:

    Of course Narcs believe in LOVE………..

    L icense

    O ver

    V ulnerable

    E mpaths

  2. nikitalondon says:

    and then infatuation used as bait for the coming abuse

  3. MLA - Clarece says:

    You have to stop at infatuation because due to the disorder, you aren’t wired with the mechanisms to allow empathy, love and true bonding with another person. Where real intimacy starts. No wonder the restlessness begins. Agitation leads to blaming the other person and the devalue kicks in.

  4. Seduced says:

    You choose to stop… try not to stop and You will see the beauty within You…. try not to stop doesn’t mean : try and love. try not to stop mean: let us love You and see not only the fuel but us too.

  5. Starr says:

    What does the idealization or golden period feel like to you? In your head do you know it’s not love but you say you love them knowing good and well it’s all lies?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It is infatuation and glorious power arising from the positive fuel that is being provided and the expectation that this will continue forever.

      1. Starr says:

        Usually the spark dies or dims after about 6 or 7 years in a normal relationship and there are some people who have been together over 20 years and are still in love and have that spark and never cheated . Narcissist seem to lose the spark and get bored within a span of the first three or four months . Even after the spark dims and the honeymoon period is gone you are suppose to love that person enough to still stay though .

  6. Love says:

    Good morning Mr. Tudor. Hope your Saturday is lovely. Do you read every post thoroughly? If so, that is impressive! How are you so focused? Perhaps I have ADD, because my mind wanders. I prefer brevity… Unless of course it is your writing.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Good morning Love, I have a busy Saturday ahead of me which will prove fruitful. Yes I do read every post thoroughly, hence why there is a delay in posting some of them. Yes brevity is the soul of wit.

  7. Oh sheesh fireworks I best get that dog from deathrow inside! Oh sheesh, she was a U.K. bloodline german shepherd that found herself in a spot of trouble through us selfish humans. Yeah, she got loose and travelled through farm area’s where farmers took pot shots at her simply because, oh my gosh she may have the intentions of the humans and actually kill for her living! A big mission to save her, but then again animals are a nuisance to people like you hey HG? I mean you let them out with no consideration for their welfare, broken spinal processes or broken hips or hits to the head, hey. Like you say, fuel is the motto not consequences! She is still shell shocked, five years after but hey what a mental dog, get it together dog, how dare you act like a war veteran and claim a ptsd pension! Oh no you are below us humans, we are the be and end all, huh! We are animals just of another species and for those of us that have no conscience nor compassion, you may as well thro yourselves in the rivers with the crocs. Despicable behaviour from the so called ELITE RACE!~ Now you can do it HG, after I have given the biggest blast in ages! DISCARD! GO ON! SECOND HABIT! DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  8. Ask him if he is still supporting Willows and the story I wrote earlier about the brown cows @ss ( his language, not mine) about the charity was a psychologist based therapy for kids on the spectrum ASD and the therapists the horses who had been trained after trauma from us kind. Thanks HG! I am grateful that I have come to this place and yet know any moment in time you may extinguish who you feel is a bother, or something else out of this world. Your prerogative! NO sweat!

  9. PS: He is aged now as do we all- if you are genuinely in the UK and you ever come across my soulmate- give him my love will ya? Tell him I am still rescuing them from the gun! Tell him I made the biggest mistake of my life in marrying the (brown cows @ss) and I am real sorry!

  10. BTW his alias was pump_man and I wont give the year but his purchases are on ebay, his bracelets, his taste for raw ginger, don’t turn a soul situation away. My advice- WAKE UP!

  11. Listen to this HG! Listen and use your empathic skills (take off the narc label for one moment in time). We are all vulnerable! We all take risks and sometimes we throw away the best thing that was meant to be!
    I will act as interpreter to my own regret: Paul Rodgers. UK. Watch first and I fill in the blanks!

    Ain’t till you came to my window: Computer monitor, ain’t till you came to my door (heart & soul) watch his actions 😉 3-30-4-00am every morning as the sun rose in Australia, Gold Coast.

    I can’t make her do and I can’t make a bargain with heaven. I can’t make a deal with a preacher and I can’t make a bargain with heaven.

    I can’t make her do rpt rpt rpt rpt…Bless my soul what’s wrong with me! Alway’s watched the morning sky together!
    Check out the celtic cross on his neck- replica of mine!

    Wishing well is for you HG!

    Conclusion Seagull written on the beaches in England!

  12. Violet says:

    And if it hadn’t, you would say it had anyway.

  13. AH OH says:

    Yes, I understand.
    Sometimes I do also.

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