The Narcissistic Truths – No. 62


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  1. DFA says:

    I reall need to get out of the office more, you have a celler to HG for the naughty.

    Does it have handcuffs attached to the wall to? Dark and damp or just dark?

    Sorry my imagination ran a little on that

  2. MLA - Clarece says:

    Oh, a hose, H.G.? What are you a fireman now? lol

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Ha ha, I hear you already have a fireman dear Clarece!

      1. Indy says:

        Go ahead, turn on the hose! I got a lot of mud to un-smear. **shakes mud off like an Irish Setter**

        Clarece, oooo, was your last one a fireman? I would ask more questions, but the kiddies are still awake πŸ˜‰

        1. MLA - Clarece says:

          No, no, um, JN is not a fireman. He’s a social worker actually. Go figure. But he recently told me he viewed us a “fireman vs. fire kind of thing” because I’m so fiery with him. And I had shared that with HG, thinking he’d enjoy that line since he likes to call me a Super Tanker of Fuel. lol

          1. Indy says:

            Sighhhhhh…a flippen social worker. SMH
            I remember your nick name…the reference is awesome!

          2. The Punisher says:

            My therapist is like one of the scariest sociopaths I’ve met. I’m so glad I noticed after only a few appointments. Big thanks for that one H.

          3. HG Tudor says:

            How did you work that out TP?

          4. The Punisher says:

            I called the night before my next appt and left a message saying we worked out my issues and I didn’t see any reason to continue.

          5. HG Tudor says:

            Indeed but what alerted you to what he or she was?

          6. The Punisher says:

            The first second I saw her I felt an immediate sense of comfort. This combined with little things that I written off. She was pretending to forget important things told her. I thought she was trying to make me blow up to see if I’m borderline until I woke up.

          7. HG Tudor says:


      2. Love says:

        Ooh Clarece, you have a fireman?? They’re so hunky!! I dated one once. Hot hot hot but he wasn’t a narc, so I knew it wouldn’t work between us.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Ha ha, if only he was Love!

      3. Love says:

        Yes Mr. Tudor, if only… But I prefer you above and beyond any other.

      4. MLA - Clarece says:

        I’m sure you have the superior Hose.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          You say the nicest (and most accurate) things Clarece.

          1. MLA - Clarece says:

            I’ll take that to mean I’m free to leave the cellar and roam where I please…

  3. Only weak men crush women to feel powerful. Of course I am not talking about you HG. How many offenses am I up to?

    1. Love says:

      French, do offenses equate to getting on the naughty stool? If so, what is a naughty stool and why do you have to get on it when you’re misbehaving? Is this an English thing? How is it a punishment? I remember being paddled in school in the US. That’s apparently illegal now. But I can appreciate the concept.

      1. Ask your beloved. He runs the show and will be more than happy to expound on what he will do to you. I am certain you already know that.

      2. Indy says:

        No, Love, it is not an English thing. Sort of like being sent to the corner when you are a bad kid. Some of us here have made the naughty step a home. So much so that HG has had to expand it to a stool as well…Before long, I suspect we will have school for delinquents here.

        1. MLA - Clarece says:

          There’s even a cellar for the real troublemakers. lol H.G., am I still banished down there from last week?

          1. HG Tudor says:

            Pipe down, I am trying to do some voice work up here!

          2. Indy says:

            Oh yes, MLA!!!!! And the dungeon, with claw marks and blood!

          3. MLA - Clarece says:

            And the lotion, to rub on its skin.

          4. Indy says:

            and that damn basket. at least he could buy us some higher end lotion, huh, MLA?

          5. HG Tudor says:

            I will turn the hose on if you two don’t shut up!

          6. MLA - Clarece says:

            Crabtree & Evelyn maybe…not Lubriderm!

          7. Indy says:

            Yes, definitely NOT Lubriderm. Something that smells like Lavender or Gardenias, please πŸ˜‰

          8. MLA - Clarece says:


      3. Love says:

        Thank you ladies for educating me. Unfortunately French, Mr. Tudor said he won’t do bad things to me because of the 5 rules or something or another.
        πŸ˜” 😒
        So I am left to my imagination.

        1. Indy says:

          Girllllllllll, be GLAD he has those 5 rules going!!!

        2. Love love love……ask him nicely I am sure he will take you up the naughty staircase one step at a time. Beware when you reach the top, he will push you down those same steps. Imagine that.

      4. Love says:

        Thank you ABB. Ok I will ask again and maybe bake some cookies too.

        1. Alice says:

          Love, you’re making me want to bake Christmas cookies with my mom!

      5. Love says:

        That’s wonderful Alice. I love decorating cookies too.

        1. Punisher says:

          Come over Love! The more the merrier! Maybe you can show how too make that middle eastern dish ☺️

      6. Love says:

        That would be so nice Punisher! I’m at home today and instead of working I’m cooking up a storm. It would be great to have company.

        1. Punisher says:

          I’d LOVE to LOVE! I will be finishing work shortly perhaps I could lend a hand?!

  4. Brandie says:

    When I am sick from anxiety/depression and teeter on the verge of sucide, you are on cloud 9 feeling marvelous. When I push and fight back to regain my life/health, you become depressed, lethargic,full of hate and revenge!!!

  5. DFA says:

    I am curious HG he used my greatest fear against me, he was successful in making it come true, yet unsuccessful in getting me to react, to his knowledge. Would this have been precived as a criticism? A failure to produce the emotional reaction he knew was right there? Or would just thought be enough? I will say my life is 100 times better and suspect he knows, with that is that just another reason to come a knocking, besides revenge?

    Thank you HG, you advice is always accurate and I am grateful you are here to turn to.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      A failure to react is not a criticism per se, it means no fuel. If you just looked at him for example in a neutral fashion, you are giving no fuel but there is no criticism in doing that. If however you walked away without saying anything, that provides no fuel and is a criticism because you are ignoring him.

  6. Viktoria says:

    It easier to manipulate people when they are in fear. Once again( and again and again and again……) this Man must demonstrate his control and his power. But this is illusion of true power. The real power does not need followers, fans, admiration, it’s not slaving. It just shines, it’s independent. But this Man built this empire of power. His hous has tick walles, doble doors, 2 dogs in front of the house and he is armed. He thinks that he is in danger, he thinks that people want do destroy him. But this Man has the war in his own house. Does he know that? I think he does.
    Who knows some day yuo will walking and you will see that this house has open door……

  7. DFA says:

    Normal is an illusion. What is normal for the spider is chaos for the fly.
    Charles Addams

    That just came to mind when I saw this

    HG you are definitely bringing a different meaning to many things I have thought about over the years. Why this why that.

    1. Becky says:

      DFA, now if we flies can just learn from HG how to stay out of the web!! LMAO we have a master spider warning the fliesπŸ˜‚…. You gotta love the irony. Thanks HG.

      1. The Punisher says:

        I always was a fan or irony.

      2. The Punisher says:


  8. MLA - Clarece says:

    My insecurities gives you power.

  9. Seduced says:

    I still wonder how is that possible. ….

  10. 1jaded1 says:

    My courage gives you fear.

    1. Indy says:

      Indeed 1Jaded1!

  11. The Punisher says:

    Thank you, H.

  12. Lacy says:

    HG, are you ever embarrassed by how ubsurd you sound? I truly appreciate your candor but I sometimes think it’s pathetic. Getting off on someone else’s suffering is hard for me to swallow. You’re so very intelligent, interesting and funny that it’s a shame that you live such a parasitic life.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I do not do embarrassment.
      Of course you may think we are absurd, but that is your perspective, from ours it makes perfect sense.

      1. Merry says:

        It only makes perfect since to your kind HG because your kind is totally whacked out & so sick mentally. The world wouldn’t be nearly as nasty as it is if YOUR kind were wiped off the face of this earth. Your black side is disgusting and ugly.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Hello Merry, but tell me what you really think.

      2. Love says:

        I appreciate you greatly Mr. Tudor πŸ’‹
        I’m grateful you’re here. πŸ’—

      3. Lacy says:

        This would seem to be a break from reality for your kind. Our perspective is reality and not just a perspective. You HG, have the unusual ability to see the truth about your behavior. You seem to know your actions are wrong but the quest for fuel overrides your thirst. I could say the same thing to my late Brother about his alcohol addiction. Yes, he hurt all of us but only as a consequence of his behavior. We were never his target. Fuel addiction takes addiction to another level. Narcs can only get high if they are destroying a good person. My brother only wanted to destroy himself not everyone around him. You are correct that narcs are superior…but only in their ability to use their addiction to ruin the lives of everyone that loves them.

      4. Ptsdafternarcabuse says:

        But narcs feel shame correct? How is shame different from embarrassment? Thank you.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Shame is deep-seated. Embarrassment is superficial and of the moment.

          1. MLA - Clarece says:

            H. G., have there been actions or behaviors you feel shameful about now through exploring your behaviors with the doctors; whereas you did not before treatment?

          2. HG Tudor says:


        2. Indy says:

          Exactly what HG said…and to add a little more….Shame is deeper, related to one’s personal existence. Embarrassment is more related to one’s “herd” relationship. Feeling out of step with the herd.

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