The Narcissistic Truths – No. 78



23 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 78”

  1. Of course it wouldn’t ever be enough…It’s not your soul (light)… You’ll only be satisfied when you have your soul (light) back.

  2. Damn straight and he will not stop til I’m completely lifless and dead inside. Almost there, not much left.

  3. One word…two different perceptions like your definition of love…it seems that we are talking about two completely different “operative systems” that could never be compatible😳Don’t you think so HG?

      1. there is no such things as NEVER… as for computer systems I can make anything compatible. ….

  4. Well it’s a bit weird seeing that post and knowing that You think that yet You still believe there is somewhere THE ONE. …
    that’s called hope too my dear G. 😉 Isn’t it?

  5. It really hurts when I spent all night performing oral sex on my narc (he seems to have erectile dysfunction or watches porn so much, that he takes 6 hours of non stop stimulation by me to orgasm). Then literally the next day, I hear him on the phone setting up dates with other women for a booty call. You are so right, HG. No matter what I do to please him, it will never, ever, ever be enough.

      1. My jaw gets locked all the time, HG. And when it does, I can tell that he gets frustrated. Then I get so paranoid that he will never want to see me again because I am a broken appliance. I just want to be perfect, but perfect is never enough.

    1. Does it take that long for him to take care of himself? If not, sounds like a mental block of some kind.

      It’s been my experience that the men I suspected of narcissism or leaning towards it on the scale have difficulty finishing (usually put as a positive, “lasting a long time”) unless they feel powerful and in control. Either literally or by directing the action or whatever.

      I think that the other end of the scale could be shown too. I know I’m difficult, and I think it’s also has to do with control but coming from a very different mentality. I wonder if there’s any others, empath or codependent/leaning towards it who are similar.

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