The Narc Days of Christmas – No. 4
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He told me I was going to hell, I just calmly replied how can one go to hell when one has been living in hell with you
The next thing I knew he was trying kill me, literally.
He wasn’t successful
I remember his eyes in that moment, I stared into darkness. In that moment He wasn’t.
He died soon after this.
“…., you are delusiona”; “You never loved me!”; “You’re going to Hell”; “Nobody will believe you”….
Charlie Unicorn November Tango Mike India November Echo Romeo.
He called me that. Whatever. Idc.
1jaded1
I know it wasnt funny at the time but it strikes me now, that should maybe have been his title the way they go in search of it constantly lol. You should have bought him a flashlight.
NA, It’s funny now that I had a day to think about it. He gave me a flashlight well before we were fighting. Now it is all just hilarious!
I didn’t know one went mining for that, well you learn something new.
Ha,ha,ha!
Only four nasty words? My mother is usually good for at least four solid hours of nasty words.
Brilliant. We can keep changing those four nasty words of course Cara.
I found that fuel index fascinating HG. I was telling my counselor just yesterday how you wrote about one of your mornings and how you go along your day and you point out where the fuel comes from and what it’s worth to you. It’s an excellent way for us to understand.
And I shared your version of the 12 days of Christmas with her.
Jaded has me singing along with her 🎼🎼
Thank you SW.
Hi Snow White. What did your T say about the 12 days of Christmas, HG style?
Hi Jaded,
She thinks that HG is a remarkable man.
She was curious as to what the 12 days were. We talked about the three false friends since the fakery and illusion is something we often discuss.
She also has enjoyed the memes that I have shared with her. She finds them very insightful.
I might have to buy her one of HG’s books.
I approve!
All it takes is one HG and I might have the whole psychological center interested in your work. How could they not be?
Is Evil out on paperback?
Or is there a better one for a therapist?
That is true SW and I am pleased you continue to advocate on my behalf. Evil is not out in PB yet, Sex and the Narcissist is always a good one for them.
I will go with that recommendation.
Thanks HG.
I am determined to get some of these therapists educated ( HG style)
More power to your elbow SW.
“YOU RUINED MY CHRISTMAS!”?
That will be one of them EB
HG, what brings more”plesaure”for you, when you get the fuel without effort or when you have to make an effort to get the fuel? In this context is there quality of fuel, or fuel is fuel?
Thank you
Hello The Bridge, oh when there is a challenge involved. There is a quality to the fuel as per the Fuel Index, see the book Fuel.
Is it possible then that process itself is THE FUEL, and not the outcome of the process?
Hmm…interesting
Thank you
Interesting observation The Bridge but it is the outcome, namely the emotional output that we require.
Three false friends
Two violent shoves
And an overnight stay in A and E.
Did you know that in some cultures it is polite to refuse gifts, HG? I refuse these gifts.
Humbug.
Which four nasty words? I would call and raise them.
HG…which nasty words?
Any we choose. There is lots to choose from that can form a four word sentence. Then again ‘whore’ or ‘bitch’ shouted four times works just as well.
I didn’t hear those words til alter I left.
SNOW
Im glad you didnt have to hear them, but as HG points out-even the pet names sometimes mean something else to them , so theyre probably getting them in anyway without us knowing. Not that I care-I would have loved to be called BOSS ( best of seven sluts). Thats hilarious ( and fitting in my case).
Hi NarcAngel,
EVERYTHING meant something else to her. I didn’t understand the pet names til HG wrote an article about them. But I kept one because I like it. 🍎
BOSS made me laugh 😂
Hmm….
Its all your fault?
You are a slut?
Shut the f*** up?
You make me sick?
Shes just a friend?
Why do I bother?
You are a liar?
You’re not the one?
I never loved you?
You’ll have to narrow it down.
Narc Angel, ‘i never loved you’ hurts the most. My narc, being passive aggressive, simply stopped saying ‘i love you’ rather than saying ‘i never loved you.’
But by then, i loved him so much, the damage was done 😞