The Narcissistic Truths – No. 91

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27 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 91

  1. bowersusan says:

    yep. treats his friends like family, and his family like strangers.

  2. Clary m says:

    How to torture a narcicist who doesn’t love you and cheats on you https://youtu.be/9YM6hjRZnpI…. always bring his painful past and make a torturing sweet twist to his previous traumas hahaha…. I’m better than her I made a perfect checkmate… always bring back your indifference in the lost of his father it’ll repell him for good I did this and it worked it was that bad his treatment.. I also threatened him with the police…, hahhaha merry Christmas to me

    1. Clary m says:

      Lae happy

  3. Hypnotised says:

    How can You suddenly cage the best dear G.?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      By the copious application of fuel abating the fury through healing the wound.

  4. Forgiven says:

    This is the epitome of the Narcissist.

  5. Forgiven says:

    He always gets people to feel sorry for him, and coddle him; rescue him. He is pampered and plays his role well.

  6. Snow White says:

    And you excel at at this.
    This is the number reason that I thought my ex was a wonderful person.
    They will never see what I have seen or know about her.

    1. MLA - Clarece says:

      But we will always have the inside track on what the next IP will ultimately see.

      1. Snow White says:

        You are sooooo right Clarece!
        It’s why I see a whole new world out there. I see things from two perspectives now.
        Hope you and your daughter had a good holiday. Happy new year!!!

        1. MLA - Clarece says:

          Thank you Snow! Wishing you a very Happy & Peaceful 2017!

          1. Snow White says:

            Thanks Clarece!!!! ❀️🍎❀️

  7. NarcAngel says:

    Stepnarc could pull it off in a bar or in public but whenever he tried to drag someone back to his den (and he was always inviting people over), they could sense something was off. It was like his evil permeated everything and he was too desperate. They always seemed uncomfortable even though he was pouring the drinks and supplying food and stories but I think they could tell because my Mom and us kids could not pull it off. I remember people looking at me quizzically (and yes as I got older I played the injured party when SN couldnt see by looking uber sad and being subservient so they WOULD get it). They almost never returned for a second visit. I assume this was because he was a Lesser and coukd pull off the charm in a crowd but people scrutinize more in smaller groups so my question:

    HG.
    Do you prefer the adoration of many that are more removed (as in a roomful or stadium) where you are the focus than a smaller group that is closer to you (work colleagues or a few closer friends)? The attention can be concentrated in both settings but how does the volume and quality of the fuel differ? You would think television or a concert would be the ultimate because of the numbers and concentration on you but is it less because those people are further removed?

    I did read fuel but still this question came to me. I will return to the book to review the scale again.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      The primary source is the ultimate provider of fuel but even that would be outpowered by a stadium of 100 000 admiring tertiary sources.

  8. OakorWillow? says:

    Thank God for his friends. I don’t understand how he has any, why people voluntarily come around him, but Thank God for them. And pot.

  9. Pchan says:

    OMG so true.

  10. Laurie says:

    Hi, HG. Re: your recent interview on Out Of The Box wherein you said ( re: your empaths of choice) “We want you brittle.” Please explain what you meant. I would think you’d want us flexible and open. Love your writing. Probably have a dozen of your books on my Kindle.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hi Laurie, thanks for listening and also for reading. What I meant by this comment is that we want you brittle so that you will snap and pour with emotion. Think of yourselves like a crème brulee. The cream underneath is all the emotion and the thin sugary coating on the top is the veneer you might try and keep in place for the purposes of respectability but we want to be able to break through it with ease and devour all that tasty emotional fuel cream underneath.

      1. NarcAngel says:

        HG

        Haha. That is a great analogy. I have been called cookie, sweetie, sugar, honey, and a bunch of other things ( not so sweet) but never creme brulee. You take the cake!

        1. Snow White says:

          I thought so too NA! Lol
          I had no idea that I was that delicious πŸ˜‹

          1. NarcAngel says:

            SNOW
            Hi snow. Hope youve had a good Christmas. I read thats its your birthday soon and that youre travelling south. Have a blast!

          2. Snow White says:

            Hello NA!!!!
            Thank you!
            Can’t wait for the warm weather. I won’t have to wear a fur lined bikini. Lol
            I am leaving in a couple of weeks and then I will be back for my birthday.
            What do you do up there for New Years?
            Has it warmed up any?

          3. NarcAngel says:

            SNOW

            We set fire to stuff to keep warm! No seriously, we havent had much snow (just looked out window and on cue its coming down soft and fluffy). The other day it poured rain so its been unpredictable. I havent gone out for New Years in years. Cant even remember the last time I bothered to watch Dick Clarks balls drop before he finally did. 2016 was crap though so looking forward to a New Year for us all.

          4. Snow White says:

            Hey NA, only one more day of this crappy year.
            I am usually in bed by midnight. Lol
            I will be home this year. I was out with my ex last New Years and I remember some of the night and some things I don’t. It’s the one and only night that I can remember not knowing what really happened. Too many Long Island ice teas. I had to pretend that I remembered things because I knew she would make something up and use it against me. That’s sad!!!
            I’m just ready for January.
            We are going to get some warmer weather here. 50’s then back to 25.
            Let’s enjoy ending this year.

      2. Laurie says:

        Thanks,HG. I had no idea I was this yummy.

      3. Love says:

        Wow so many Capricorns in the house! Happy early bday Snow!

        1. Snow White says:

          Thank you Love! ❀️🍎❀️🍎
          Mine is the 25th and I’m an Aquarius.
          I have always been fascinated with the zodiac signs. Wonder what months have the most empaths/narcs. Lol

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