The Narcissistic Truths – No. 148


26 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 148

  1. Love says:

    No end in sight with this. You narcs do keep busy. Look what you can do in 1 week! And with the whole world watching.

  2. Love says:

    Mr. Tudor, I know you advocate no contact. But sometimes a good verbal thrashing is in order. Yes, I know it provides fuel, but it was worth it. He wasn’t even my most recent narc. Halfway down the list actually. No romantic feelings anymore. But I heard something through the grapevine. And ooooooo I tried so hard to hold it in for a few days. Well it finally needed to be released. I texted sparred with him after no contact for months. Yes, I blew my lid and worked myself into a frenzy but at least I got it out. It felt good to tell him off. I’m refreshed now. Happy Friday!

  3. Twilight says:

    Mona if I may, are you going to let revenge eat you up at what was done to you?
    At least this is how your comments sound to me.

    1. Mona says:

      Yes, Twilight, (Jan, 27, 10.29 PM) I need much more revenge, although my personal devil got some blows. No, it does not eat me up. I am here to sharpen my mind and to sharpen my claws. After my last blow, he asked me: “Do you want to delete me?” And I answered: ” Perhaps. I did not decide up to now.” And then I withdrew. I warned him at the beginning of the relationship. He was too sure of his triangulating, his manipulating, his lies, his …..
      And if I compare my experience with him to many other victims, who describe their suffering, he was not able to do much harm to me. I only lost a little bit money, I did not lose my reputation, he could not call me the crazy one and so on. To other people it only seemed to be a passionate relationship. He tried but he did not succeed.
      No, I am an empath with some disastrous narcissistic traits. And that is alright.

  4. Flickatina says:

    You seemed fairly proficient in the English language in your previous posts?

    1. Mona says:

      Flickatina, my last message was for H.G. I should write a name, so there is no misunderstanding. (Jan. 27, 9.42 PM…)
      Sometimes or better – very often- I am angry about myself, that I need so much time to translate all the words. Words have different meanings and I am not able to read between the lines very often. That is a huge problem for me here on this blog. Very often I cannot answer the way I want to. I am handicapped.
      The second point you said to me, I do not agree. I cannot feel indifference to my personal devil. He ignited my fury (H.G. would say).
      I am aware of my narcissistic trait. He will never know until he tries to hoover me. Please read, what I answer to Twilight (Jan, 27, 10.29 PM)

      1. Twilight says:

        Mona don’t be angry with yourself, you are doing wonderful, I do understand the desire for revenge, I got my revenge for a moment in time, if I could go back I would chose a different route.
        Just be careful of the choices you make, once put into action there is always a reaction.

  5. Mona says:

    No, Flickatina. It is some kind of a sad decision of me.They are so “self-confident”, they ask for someone to delete their confidence. The greatest ones of them suffer from paranoia in the end, hide themselves in a hole in the ground or kill themselves in a command bunker, because of their denying to be a human. They want to be god or Allah. Of course, HG will hide himself in a fuel bunker. Whether they sit in a hole in the ground or die of drinking fuel, it it all the same. They are only a mistake of nature and they can`t stand that. HG is effective, but only because of manipulation. That is all he can. He could not stand the behaviour of his parents, he was too weak and he will not change, because he is too weak. It is all about weakness. And I think, he will wait to publish this one, so nobody will see now. Are am I right, Sir Tudor?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Right about what, you written a number of things in your comment?

      1. Flickatina says:

        Dude! The grammar is slipping a bit there!

        Mona – you need to aim for indifference. This vitriol betrays your feelings. You need to stop caring.

      2. Mona says:

        I do not understand you. Please answer in my language, it would be a little bit easier for me. Thang yu.

  6. Flickatina says:

    Are we all getting fuel from HG’s responses?

    1. We get approval from HGs responses. Empaths desire to be worthy of some purpose. They really are externally fed their self esteem. HG takes the role of authority. If he is the authority and doles out the discipline, we want to please him. We want to do for him, we wish to get the approval. That’s why it is really a dominant submissive relationship. He is the taskmaster and we want to do his bidding. Just to keep it interesting he throws curveballs, sliders, knuckleball, change up, pitching hand, speed, etc. What he is really looking for is the perfect catcher. You see in baseball the catcher controls the game. The pitcher is in the spotlight, but who calls the pitchers throws? The catcher. HG needs a partner who knows how to control him without knowing he’s being controlled. A power exchange. The catcher seems to be in a submissive position squatting in front of the pitcher, they are distant enough to make the throw difficult but they see each other and become in sync with each play of the game. They play off each other. That is why you have a narcissist empath dynamic. We need them as much as they need us. If you pair up with the right narcissist you really can have fun playing the game. But make no mistake, it will not last. You have to have the experience without full emotions.

  7. Mona says:

    Hello HG, weak decision. That makes me only stronger and took away the last bit of a bad conscience against Narcissists. Now I know what to do when I meet the next one in private or watch them doing their political work. No mercy at all. I will be a hangman, if necessary.
    I will wait for my personal devil and if it takes years. He will get an unforgettable blow. You helped me to discover my own narcisstic traits and I will use them. You gave me all the tools to do it.
    It is a very cold and calm decision. You never wanted to be a weak person, but you are. (What an irony) Judge Mona

  8. Entertainment says:


    Christian Grey from 50 shades of bullshit movie 😊 Greater?? The character of course.
    The books were better, I expected more from the movie it failed to deliver for me.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      No idea. Never watched the film. Never read the books. I value my eyes.

  9. PinkSour PatchKid says:

    I agree with Flickatina, all these issues for a mid level offender 🙄 How Rude

    1. sarabella says:

      hahahad!!!! Seriously. I am sure mine is mid, too. but with shades of elite.

  10. Flickatina says:

    And is it wrong that I feel mildly irritated that I was targeted by a Mid-Range Cerebral? If I am to be targeted by demonic spawn, I at least want to be targeted by the top demonic spawn.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Of course you do, nothing but the best eh Flickatina?

      1. Flickatina says:

        Well quite! Sorry about the demonic spawn thing…That may have been a tad rude. Present company excepted and all that…

    2. Love says:

      Finally. Someone understands me!

  11. Flickatina says:

    I was curious about a couple of things…..

    Given that cats are massive narcissists – is this why women are drawn to them? One of mine is giving me the silent treatment at the moment. My crime was to get a new kitten. He loves this kitten, plays with the kitten but has made it very clear that he will no longer snuggle in bed with me. That privilege is now reserved for my son. I will get the occasional period of snuggling which he ends swiftly and brutally.

    I am in the middle of reading Sex and the Narcissist – Should a woman wish to just have great sex without any romantic entanglement, it makes sense that an Elite would make the perfect sex partner. However – for most people, part of the turn on during sex is the enjoyment of the other person. A narcissist does not have any particular enjoyment so would this lessen the enjoyment for the woman? And as the pleasure for the narcissist is knowing that sex is just another weapon in the arsenal, what would be their incentive for giving great sex for no fuel? A few quid left on the bedside table?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I am not an animal lover Flickatina, but from what I have observed cats are selfish and dogs are dumb.

      Yes an elite. We derive a positive physical reaction from the interaction and dependent on whether it is seduction or devaluation, you will be told about this.

      1. Love says:

        Oh Mr. Tudor, you are hilarious! 😂 Cats are selfish and dogs are dumb! 😂😂😂
        Flicka, I agree with you that part of the pleasure in bed is to feel your partner’s enjoyment. I think for narcs, it is mainly just at the point of release.
        I am sorry about your cat. As long as he hasn’t defecated by your bedroom door or in your shoes, you are still in good standing with him.

  12. Entertainment says:

    Yes, if you are Robin Hood or a Super Empath. Oops, from a narcissist perception their actions are always justified. Not….

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