154 thoughts on “Hush

  1. NarcAngel says:


    I daresay If LOVE finds Tudor she will be coming all over England!

    Watch for a glitter explosion.

    1. Love says:

      Lol NarcAngel, I have fallen out of love with Mr. Tudor. No more glitter.

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Stop sulking!

      2. Flickatina says:

        No you haven’t LOVE. Bring on the glitter ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

      3. Love says:

        Mr. Tudor, you have been with enough women to know that everything will be much easier if you simply concede! The more stubborn you are, the more difficult we will make your life.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          And you ought to have read enough of my work to know I dislike being told what to do!

      4. indiglowsky says:

        What up, Love? What happened? (Again, not keeping up, my apologies) Did Mr. Tude have tude? Was he rude? Oh, sweety, you should have knewed (I had to, bad grammar and all ;)….He’s always naughty.

        What did he do?

        ***looks at Tude***

        Mmmmm Hmmm….I see you, you devil!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Certain posts are in moderation (as are many others) and dear old Love was trying to produce queue jumper tickets which were clearly forged!

          1. indiglowsky says:

            Ahhh, pats dossier at my side. Love, need legal representation? Or just someone to protest on your behalf? The problem with protesting a blog dictator is he has control of the “media”. It’s stacked against us LOL, unlike America yet.

          2. HG Tudor says:

            This is of course a benign dictatorship, Indy.

          3. indiglowsky says:

            And that’s why we love you, in lock step! Muah!

          4. indiglowsky says:

            Oh, I forgot to ask…any tips on surviving a dictatorship? Besides going No Contact with passport in hand? Avoiding being brainwashed and gaslit by reasserting what is real. BTW…what IS real…hahaha…

            Off to get a DRINK!

      5. Love says:

        Great. Then this war shall continue.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Bring it Love!

      6. Flickatina says:

        That’s why we tell you what to do. ๐Ÿ˜˜

      7. Love says:

        Old?!? You call me old?!? Ahhh!!!!! I’m half your age!!!! You know what you did Mr. Tudor! I ๐Ÿ‘€ you!
        โค you Indy!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          It was a term of endearment, not an observation of age, come now, let me soothe your fevered brow….

          1. indiglowsky says:

            Awwww, and look Love, HG even put Chloroform on the cloth too. LOL

      8. Love says:

        I’m not imagining things!!! ๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก

    2. Flickatina says:

      That proper made me laugh!

  2. Flickatina says:

    Has anyone from the blog ever seriously asked to meet you IRL?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Many people and repeatedly so.

      1. Flickatina says:

        And what is your response?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I have already given it.

          1. Flickatina says:

            Oh for the love of god HG! It would take an AGE to read every article and comment! I have a job and seasons 1-8 of Charmed to watch!

          2. HG Tudor says:

            No i mean I was asked would I meet someone from the blog and I answered ‘possibly’.

          3. Flickatina says:

            Oh I see! I read the two questions differently. I thought the other question was if there was anyone from the blog you wanted to meet. My question was what your response be if someone asked to meet you. I assume you meant possibly for both?

            And for the record I am not asking to meet you! Virtual HG is enough for me. I’m a curious sort, but not that curious ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

          4. HG Tudor says:

            We have an accord Flickatina.

          5. Amber says:

            Lol the only person who should meet hg should be a super empath armed with extensive knowledge of the bible, a vial of holy water, and a silver bullet if he gets out of hand. ๐Ÿ˜‰ (with all due respect to hg, who knows how much i respect and admire him.)

      2. MLA - Clarece says:

        Hmmm, I guess the next question to follow, is there anyone from the blog you would like to meet?

        1. HG Tudor says:


          1. MLA - Clarece says:

            Time will tell, I guess.

  3. The mask says:

    I hope she got a bit of both…Maybe a continuation to the story ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜† Hush part 2

  4. penny dropped says:

    So HG, am I anywhere near?

  5. penny dropped says:

    that ‘slight’ accent sounds like burton/swad in the midlands to me.

  6. Not So Sad says:

    Yes LOVE I can understand the dialect x

  7. The mask says:

    Um …. yeah …* fanning self off* …this isnt the writing of a 71 yr old ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Glad somebody realises that!

      1. Flickatina says:

        Well that’s a bit ageist!

      2. Love says:

        71 year olds can be naughty too. After all, they’ve been doing the do much longer than the rest of us. I’ve read the rate of STDs is on the rise in senior homes. They’re having more fun than a co-ed college dorm.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Doing the do? Who are you? Betty Boo?

      3. Love says:

        Lol no that’s Claudia ๐Ÿ˜‰

    2. Twilight says:


    3. Kit says:

      But a subterranean dweller perhaps. I bet he lives in his parents’ basement.

  8. indiglowsky says:

    Me neither, ABB. Thanks Love for your attempt to smooth and translate. I do not see the need to smooth her message, it is what it is.

    I had been identified as co-dependent for years(12 step type, where the term originated from). Glad I am showing less and less signs of it, though it always can rear its head(like any hing). My co-dependence symptoms were taking on other people’s feelings with no boundary for self-protection (for example, if you are sad, I am sad), ignoring my own emotions (thus “dependent on the other person” to feel and exist), attempts to rescue others from a variety of things ( usually addictions), attempts to control others behaviors and how they feel by trying to be an over peacekeeper (walking on egg shells) rather than letting the shit hit the fan (sometimes a healthy thing). It is a true struggle (like addiction of any sort) and takes a lot of self exploration and willingness to identify and counter co-dependent tendencies. Since becoming a therapist, I have had to be vigilant on those weaknesses, as they help no one. It is freeing once it is in remission(never cured).

    I know HG defines it differently here. I do not fall in that category of HG’s co-dependence.

    1. Love says:

      Because your are super woman, Indy, my spunky marcher! โค
      Btw, I think your expertise is greatly needed in the Bound article comments.

  9. Owned says:

    dear G. any new books on the way to be published? little boy lost or 3 part of ensnared? kind regards to You and loads of love โคโคโค

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hello Owned, there are numerous works still in progress and as soon as they become available they will be announced. Thank you for asking.

    2. indiglowsky says:

      Owned!!! I was asking about you!! (Maddie, Seduced, Broken, right?).
      Someone said you were in the Tudor Slammer! I said, that would be your heaven!

      1. Owned says:

        You will never find out….. ๐Ÿ˜‚
        I can’t resist to title HG they way You recognise me…nor can I be bothered with changing my email so the avatar would change ๐Ÿ˜‡

        1. indiglowsky says:

          Ok owned. It was a light hearted question on how you are.

      2. Owned says:

        thank You G. Can’t wait for the books. โค

      3. Love says:

        Indy, I think Owned and I may be from the same tribe. So if I may be so bold to translate her words in co-d language. She basically said her love and adoration of Mr. Tudor is all-consuming and she has no time to answer others’ questions. Also, she will never break the love bond between herself and Mr. Tudor and betray his trust by revealing her whereabouts.
        It was said with โคโคโค

        1. Very talented love. I guess I don’t speak co-d. Hmmph.

  10. Amber says:

    Our own panties make the perfect gag. Or, so I’ve heard. ๐Ÿ˜‡

    1. Flickatina says:

      Oh god that made me laugh so much!!

    2. Sunshine says:

      There’s that word again!

    3. Entertainment says:

      How you gag with a g-string?, you must be referencing bloomers/knickers๐Ÿ˜Š

  11. Blue1 says:

    One of my favorites HG! A picture is worth a thousand words!

    My Narc: “..You had to go there with the drama! Projecting your emotions on me! That is why I interrupt you like I do! I don’t need the drama! Now I am going to be stressed out because of you!”

    Janice, I agree! We might be a bit bruised, but we are working and learning to change paths!

    Thanks for sharing your insight HG! ๐ŸŒบ

  12. Matilda says:

    Impressive, HG.

    Made me think about who controls whom in this situation. You could not do anything she would not allow you to do (criminal offence otherwise). So, you actually do not have any power. Furthermore, this approach would wear thin soon! ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. ashley says:

      The power is in his restraint.
      I see it plain as day…
      Look how HG controls the inner beast…

      1. Matilda says:

        “The power is in his restraint”

        Yes, I can see that, Ashley. It’s strangely intriguing to listen to.

        Well, I do not have any experience with that sort of behaviour. My narc was a fiery somatic, he would not have wasted his time in this manner! ๐Ÿ˜€ If he had, in the form of banter, I would have started to giggle… in the form of a veiled threat as in this case, I would have left. No shuddering, no ‘deer in headlight’ reaction, no power to the narc. He probably would have slinked off to the study to sleep. So be it, no big loss! ๐Ÿ˜€

      2. Kit says:

        My silence is my self-defense.

  13. MLA - Clarece says:

    H.G. – What is your position on the female initiating or seducing for sex – if you are in the relationship? I recently read that especially with a narcissist (or even sociopath / psychopath) that they feel the power is then shifting from them to the woman and he will turn it down. They prefer when they instigate it and not to be turned down.
    I’m curious if the tables are turned for you, if you feel pressure is removed at all? Or does remaining in power and control win out each time?

    1. MLA - Clarece says:

      This should have been an easy one for you to answer….

    2. HG Tudor says:

      It is not an issue for me. During golden period it is positive fuel. During devaluation it offers a glorious chance to reject it and draw negative fuel.

  14. Twilight says:

    In the twilight space

    The thoughts and desires you have cause to run through my mind while at the market this afternoon

  15. Brandi says:

    Mercy that was surreal. What we perceive as a simple innocent act produces a vast amount of fuel. So intentional in everything they do.

  16. indiglowsky says:

    Oh poo. Please write or orate something new soon. How about a horror short story? I want to be scared, but I want to forget about reality (too scary right now LOL)

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Fresh words are a coming Marching Lady.

      1. indiglowsky says:

        Yippee ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป

      2. Love says:

        Indy, how are your dancers brunette when mine are blonde? Can I personalize my emoticons?

        1. indiglowsky says:

          Hi Love,
          Yes, if you hold down on the emoticon button you can customize ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฟ

      3. ashley says:

        Oooh HG, make it seductive…..
        Oh, pleasee ๐Ÿ˜‰

        HG, you’re totally sexy and
        wow.. …kinda scary… but soothing?! *Swoon* indeed… ๐Ÿ™ƒ

      4. Love says:

        Indy you are a genuis! Thank you ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

      5. Love says:

        Nope, the emoticons are against me. Lol

    2. Kit says:

      Will you guys listen to yourselves? “HG you are so sexy” This guy could be a troll who lives in his parents’ basement and you guys just eat up whatever he’s serving.

      1. Love says:

        Yum yum yum. Give me more. He has incredible swagger, troll or not. You already know, the brain is a woman’s largest erogenous zone.

  17. Love says:

    This is so erotic!

    1. Not So Sad says:

      Sorry Love I’m posting answers all over the place, distinct shortage of reply options under everyones posts lol

      To answer your earlier question though..

      ” NSS, you speak the dialect too??? ” No Love I don’t speak the dialect but I can understand it and regularly visit the area it originates from . x

      1. Love says:

        That is so cool NSS. Are you English? I will be visiting England this year and traveling outside of London. Now I’m scared after reading the dialect. Lol I won’t understand anything. Oh well, I think the sign for food, drink, and bed are universal. Lol I hope ๐Ÿ˜‰

        1. Not So Sad says:

          Hahaha.Love that made me smile ( in a nice way ) I live in England yes .

          Please don’t worry yourself about accents you’ll be fine . Promise .

          When do you come over ? x

      2. Flickatina says:

        Ooh! Exciting Love!

        Where in England are you coming?

      3. Love says:

        Thank you NSS. I am traveling to England in the summer. My cousin and I are going up to Scotland from there. If we have time, we will also visit Ireland. Lol I was worried about the Scottish brogue/burr… But now I think I won’t comprehend anything anywhere lol. I will just smile and nod my head.

        1. Flickatina says:

          You will have to stop off in the North Midlands in the way!!

        2. Not So Sad says:

          Wow . Love .

          You’re going to have such a good time ๐Ÿ™‚

          If you want to meet up for a game of ” narc” bingo & a pint of real ale I’d love to meet you .

          This could be the first HG Tudor. Narc free convention . ๐Ÿ™‚

          Flikatina is a friend of mine I’m sure she’d join us .

          Obviously as we are just names on a blog page we’d have to ensure everyone feels safe . Though I appreciate if you don’t .

          Either way you’re going to beat me to Ireland . It’s still on my places to visit list ๐Ÿ™‚ x

  18. Janice says:

    HG, You are our Pied Piper, leading our little tribe out of bondage and into the light. Thank you. I rather like you.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      That you Janice, I am a likeable type of chap.

      1. Sunshine says:

        You’re a Northerner?!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I have lived in the north. I have lived in the south. I have lived abroad.

      2. Flickatina says:


        That’s a born & brought up in the north accent.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          If you think I am from Burnley you are way off. I don’t say paaapuurrr when saying ‘paper’

          1. Flickatina says:

            It’s frustratingly out of reach…but I recognise the way you say certain words…I just can’t place them.

      3. Love says:

        Ah but you have not lived in the east or west! Easy there Mr. Tudor. You just might give us your home address with all this information ๐Ÿ˜

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Well the north covers north-east and north-west doesn’t it? Ditto the south.

      4. Love says:

        Oh Mr. Tudor, you’re going over my head with your fancy talk. How about you drop your pin location so I can better understand where you are โ˜บ

      5. Love says:

        Flicka, do you say ‘hoog’ for hug too? It is my favorite Mr. Tudor word. ๐Ÿ’

        1. And the words love, us, progress, devotee, lieutenant. Okay, I am just going to pay for the consult and have him read my grocery list. Butter, hot sauce, cool whip, strawberries, devil’s food cake etc….that’s a legit list right?

      6. Love says:

        Omg ABB! Great idea! A private reading from Mr. Tudor! Aaahhhh! I would be happy with him just saying hoog for an hour.

      7. Flickatina says:

        Nearly but not quite Love – but then my accent is a mixture of where I was born & brought up and my family’s accent as they were southerners.

        There are times I can barely understand the thick accent of my own home town!

      8. Love says:

        Thanks Flicka. So in England, you identify yourself as either southner or northerner?

        1. Flickatina says:

          I am more North Midlands….I think HG is just a bit further north

          1. HG Tudor says:

            You are going in the wrong direction.

          2. Flickatina says:

            *screams in frustration and listens to the radio interviews again*

      9. Love says:

        That’s what she said!
        Hahaha! I crack myself up ๐Ÿ˜‚

      10. Sunshine says:

        Love, yes, there is a divide between the Northern Monkeys (down to earth, gruff, resilient and tell it like it is types) and the Southern Fairies (a bit wet and weak and refined). Then there’s this kind of grey area around the midlands and Northampton.

        A good way to tell is how a person pronounces certain words, like ‘bath’, ‘grass’, ‘master’ etc.

        Lots of jovial & genuine animosity given the economic differences between the two.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Albeit that Geordies say plaster and master like people from the south but say bath and path like people from the north.
          (Geordies are from Newcastle upon Tyne and its immediate environs in the north-east of England for anybody who is unfamiliar)
          They also say film in the same way as people from Northern Ireland do.

          1. indiglowsky says:

            Hey HG, could you indulge me and write those words out how you say them phonetically? Do you say bahth or bawth or bauth or baath(short not long a, lik cape). Reading path and bath the way I say them, is baath and paath like a sheep goes baaaaaa. they rhyme and have a short a as in cat, not as in saw or ah as in cot…I’m guessing you say bahth and pahth…

            Now I have been told I have no distinguishable geographic accent in America, often associated with middle America, though I do have a leftover Vermonter accent where I swallow my final syllable in certain words, very similar to French.

          2. HG Tudor says:


          3. indiglowsky says:

            Smahrrt Ahhhhssssss!

          4. HG Tudor says:

            So glad you noticed.

          5. indiglowsky says:

            Well, I have ALWAYS noticed. Just had to verbalize it….out loud. ***twisted smile***

          6. indiglowsky says:

            I am still waiting for your phonetic description. ยกArriba, arriba! ยกรndale, รกndale!

        2. Flickatina says:

          Monkeys! MONKEYS!!

          But yes – southerners are pansies who go into full meltdown when they see a snowflake. I try to purge this weakness from my soft, southern blood (only 50% of me).

      11. Love says:

        Thanks Sunshine. It sounds like the East coast vs West coast hip hop rivalries of the US.

      12. Sunshine says:

        So true, Tudes. My parents are Geordies. I can’t understand the inconsistency. And my dad says ‘filim’.

        Geordie is like this: Why ay pet! Are ya gan inta toon ta watch a filim like? Ho’way!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Divvn’t be a radgie man, av got ta gan yhem then meet me marras and wor lass for a bottle a broon ay like canny lush!

          1. MLA - Clarece says:


      13. ava101 says:

        And how do people from N. Ireland say film?

        1. HG Tudor says:


          1. indiglowsky says:

            My mother used to say Feelm for film. And she said poim for poem. She also over exaggerated her r. It used to make me giggle as I never did that.

      14. Flickatina says:

        It’s a shame you can’t denote the inflections on here. Geordies are all about the inflections!

      15. Love says:

        Thank you all! ๐Ÿ˜€ Soooo entertaining! I understood nothing but loved reading your dialect. I used to think Scots were hard to understand.

      16. Matilda says:

        Lovely! ๐Ÿ™‚ That brings back memories of reading ‘Wuthering Heights’ for the first time… Emily lets the servants talk with a thick Yorkshire accent, and I often thought ‘what the hell is that supposed to mean?!’… though you get into it after a while, and it is much fun reading the lines aloud ๐Ÿ™‚

      17. Sunshine says:

        Very good Mr Tudor, I’m impressed! ๐Ÿ˜Š

      18. Sunshine says:

        Flick- I knew I liked you, lass. Divven’t worry about that southern blood. Being Northern is all about mindset, not geography ๐Ÿ˜Š

      19. Sunshine says:

        Crap, I’ve just had a flashback to my primary narc ‘charming’ me with his range of regional accents in a bar, before we’d even had our first kiss. I was loving it. Uh-oh.

        I have to say, his Geordie was SHITE though.

      20. Flickatina says:

        Cos kick a bo agin a wo n yed it tilst bost it ?

      21. Not So Sad says:

        HG…. “Divvnโ€™t be a radgie man, av got ta gan yhem then meet me marras and wor lass for a bottle a broon ay like canny lush!”

        Howay man HG ye divent fool me we tha .

        Broon ales keks ! ๐Ÿ™‚

        1. MLA - Clarece says:


          1. Not So Sad says:

            lol MLA . I know what HG said but he kinda blew it when he said ” Lush ” x

          2. MLA - Clarece says:

            I think that was the only part I understood. I’m the outsider not knowing the secret handshake today. Lolll

          3. Not So Sad says:

            Divant fret pet al keep yee in the loop xx lol .

          4. MLA - Clarece says:

            Cool! I got your back too!

          5. Not So Sad says:

            * High Five MLA* ty x

      22. Love says:

        NSS, you speak the dialect too??? Ah! This is so fun!

      23. Matilda says:

        Precisely, Clarece!! ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€

        Now, lets rise to the challenge and translate that into proper English:

        “Why ay pet! Are ya gan inta toon ta watch a filim like? Hoโ€™way!”
        –> Love! Are you going into town to watch a film? Come on!

        “Divvnโ€™t be a radgie man, av got ta gan yhem then meet me marras and wor lass for a bottle a broon ay like canny lush!”
        –> Don’t be a brute/chav, man, I’ve got to go home, then meet my mates and my girlfriend for a bottle of Brown Ale, yes, like a good drunkard!

        “Cos kick a bo agin a wo n yed it tilst bost it ?”
        –> Can you kick a ball against a wall and head it until you break it ? (whatever that means! lol)

        “Howay man HG ye divent fool me we tha . Broon ales keks !”
        –> Come on man, HG, you don’t fool me with that. Brown ale is disgusting!

        ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€

      24. Flickatina says:

        Matilda – It’s just a phrase from where I am from – it does not really mean anything! I think we have our own language – it’s not a particularly attractive one!

        And for the Geordies – it should be pointed out that it is Newcastle Brown Ale to which they refer….

      25. Matilda says:


        Thank you for the explanation… I watched some YT videos on Geordie slang and had a right laugh! ;-D

    2. Sunshine says:

      Erm, Janice, do you actually know what the story Pied Piper is about?!

  19. *swoon* My All Time Favorite. ๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ˜—

    1. Flickatina says:

      Well there are a certain couple of pages in Sex and the Narcissist that would benefit from being an audio book.

      I actually haven’t got past those pages…..

      1. I agree. I’ve been trying to talk HG into writing erotica. Sex sells HG. I’d get me a glass of wine, a lit candle and my jacuzzi tub with some HG Erotica audio, read by the author of course and wah la. HG gets a private jet, island and instant fame from just my purchases.
        Hmmm…. $100 consult service? *taps lips with finger*

        1. Flickatina says:

          HG – add a range of “toys” to that merchandise….

          1. Flickatina,
            I’m your new bff. We’ll start gathering Intel and before you know it, we will have a room with a crime scene board, red thread connecting all the dots. Partial prints, sightings, aliases, blurry photos. Then we will make our move and storm the Tudor compound dressed like slutty ninjas. Kewl?His IP should be worried. Love you coming too?

          2. Flickatina says:

            I want this so badly!! We need to come up with a suitable war cry!

        2. Flickatina says:

          You need to go all Blackadder on HG when you have your audio consult…..get him to say contrafibularities, pericombobulation…then make up your own!

          Can he say Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch?

          How about Oddsbiddikins! Hey Nonny Nonny.

          It would be amusing to hear those HG style.

      2. Sunshine says:

        Flick, i love your comments!

      3. Sunshine says:

        “storm the Tudor compound dressed like slutty ninjas…”

        Oh ABB & Flick, you two just made me laugh out loud – I nearly snorted my cup of tea all over my screen there!

        I bet HG is enjoying this!

      4. Love says:

        What??? We are going to the Tudor compound??? Wow. ๐Ÿ˜ Ladies I might foil your plans because once there I will be rolling around holding all things that are Mr. Tudor’s and whispering sweet nothings. Cups, statues, longswords, clothes, paper towels, everything.
        In regards to a war cry: how about “I love you!”

        1. Flickatina says:

          HG has more than one longsword?? He IS talented!!

        2. indiglowsky says:

          Someone getting some GPS on the Tude? Yeah…Maybe HG is really Siri, the “Apple” of our eye. All his sources are Androids. Phew, so glad I got the 7, though I must say my 5 was far more reliable. My 7 crashes all the time and blips out of some of my apps.

        3. I laughed love. I see you on the floor in his bathroom hugging a towel and rocking as you sniff and say “it has his smell” *tears of joy *

      5. Love says:

        Yes ABB! You understand me. I would be in ecstasy.

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