The Narcissistic Truths – No. 171


38 thoughts on “The Narcissistic Truths – No. 171

  1. Red Rider says:

    Thank you HG! And can I tell you how much I hate the word Fuel now😉

  2. Hi sunshine…
    I can appreciate your differention…and yes…I have seen him be humble and admit to mistakes…you may not have seen it…but it is there none the less and I believe it to be genuine.

    1. Sunshine says:

      I’m new to the blog so it’s not surprising that there’s a lot I haven’t picked up on. However, from what I have seen, I have to say I’m surprised that HG has demonstrated humility and admitted to mistakes. I’d like to read those!

      But most of all, for him to demonstrate those things in his real life.

    2. 💜💜 says:

      Spoken from a true blue inverted Narc of 50 years…

      1. yes of course & Who also doesn’t hide it…and has insight and power you could never fathom…

      2. Love says:

        I’m confused. Who is an inverted narc ?(Same thing as a midranger?)
        Who is 50?

  3. MsSevyn says:

    We’re good until we break free. Then, we’re evil.

  4. The Bridge says:

    HG, do you think that you are honest to yourself?

    Thank you

    1. HG Tudor says:


      1. Flickatina says:

        No – you are honest to the HG you have created.

      2. The Bridge says:

        Can you compare yourself with windows program? Can your windows be better that it is right now?
        Thank you

        1. HG Tudor says:

          I am iOS – a closed system.

      3. jarwithaheavylid says:

        That’s not true. If it were true, you wouldn’t evade the good doctors to evade yourself.

      4. Love says:

        Ooooh Mr. Tudor, you’re speaking my language! While iOS is mostly a closed system it does have some open source bits.

      5. Love says:

        Open source code is available for public use. Similar to mimicking, you can use open source code as your own.

      6. Kit says:

        Ha ha ha aha

    2. Kit says:

      You do realize that we are reliant on what HE tells us. Perhaps we will never know.

  5. Sunshine says:

    D’oh! Commented on the wrong article. Silly me.

    Perhaps you should try admitting to your mistakes sometimes, HG.

    Humility is something to be admired. Try it.

    1. Hi Sunshine…
      You can’t be seeing what some of us are.
      Everything HG writes here…is an admitting, and he does write about some of his particular mistakes in great detail.
      I believe it is all humility in in it’s greatest form.
      Everything he writes.

      1. Sunshine says:

        Hi Elaine, I did not mean on here. I meant in his real life.

        Even if all of us, including HG are entirely open and honest on this blog, it’s still not real life. It’s only real life that matters. So when I say he should be open and honest and raw and humble etc, I mean with those in his life who are important to him.

        In any case, on here we only have HG’s word that he is being honest. Even if he is being open and honest on here, I’ve never seen him be humble. I’ve never seen him admit to a mistake. Have you?

  6. Sunshine says:


  7. Flickatina says:

    That looks like a Weeping Angel – hardly a beacon of good. Only the Vashta Nerada could be considered scarier.

    Then you – obviously.

  8. Kit says:

    Apropos of nothing…quite fitting for your kind…I made up a poem for you.

    1. Kit says:

      But, I am not sure you are worthy, Quite likely, not.

  9. Red Rider says:

    Not anymore. Every time he messages me, I now know it’s a lie. So sad but true. I have a couple questions. The formal relationship has ended and he has had and is currently with a new primary source but if I do message, he always answers, he’s never not so is that still considered a discard?? But what’s really disturbing me, every time we message he brings up when we’ve been together romantically, I mean every single time there’s a reference!! Why?? I know he’s been with other girls in the last 6 wks (that’s when the formal ended). I’m reading the books but I can’t figure it out and yep it’s driving me crazy lol

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hello Red Rider, as you may have noticed I do not like the word “discard” because you are only temporarily cast to one side and it is really a dis-engagement. Nevertheless, since it has entered common parlance in understanding the narcissistic dynamic I do use it.
      Are you sure that you were a primary source and she is the new one?

      1. Red Rider says:

        You are correct HG, I am secondary supply;). Disengagement does make more sense than discard. He never has blocked me or vanished or not responded to a message. But why does he bring up sexual innuendos every single time, even though we are not intimate anymore?? To annoy me?? Because it’s working !!!!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          For fuel, because you react to him doing so.

      2. Entertainment says:

        Am I detecting a little triangulation?

  10. H.G., I know I will probably not get the truth, either way…but, are you a teenager? Or, are you really a full-grown man? I mean, you could be a very well-read, and exceptionally intelligent, teenage guy…or, even a teenage girl. And, you could be having someone else speak for you on those YouTube videos… Like you’ve said many, many times, we don’t really know you. Of course, no one really knows anyone.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      No I am not a teenager. Anybody who has engaged with me will tell you that the voice you hear on the YouTube videos is my voice.

      1. Rhyme Time Poetry says:

        So pleased to hear that you are not a teenager that I have conversed with! 😊

    2. MsSevyn says:

      I read you are 71?

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Yes but I am not.

        1. 🦋 says:

          H.G., will you still be the same when you are 71?

    3. vanessacoyle says:

      I imagine HH to be between 42 and 47 years old.

      1. vanessacoyle says:

        Sorry, HG*

      2. 🦋 says:

        A charming age for a man!

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