The Narcissistic Truths – No. 186

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    1. It does. It makes them recoil. I felt it with a former partner, when I got a bit too close. Cuddled a little too long. You know, after a few seconds, when you sink into a real hug, and your energy reaches out to theirs? He shoved me away. It seemed very visceral.

      It seems like, to accept and internalize the genuine love and caring that we offer, would be a step towards shattering the construct. Breaking down the defense mechanism and facing a chasm of repressed pain and sadness and anger.

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  1. Thanks to the Lieutenants’ ignorance

    in not realizing that the Narcissist’s words

    rang without reason, or rhyme,

    the victim’s reputation would be sorely marked,

    and she would always be considered the bad seed

    in that lonely era in time πŸ˜’

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  2. This is a real mean looking chimp. They will rip your hands, feet, face and genitals off.
    As young juveniles, they are very much like us. They want to play, hug, and kiss.

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    1. How are you, AH OH? I remember a show from Animal Planet…Fatal Attractions, maybe. An episode dealt with how a chimp tried to eat his owner’s face. Was fairly traumatizing.

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      1. Hello 1J1! I had hands on with chimps in Africa. Also went in the wild with researchers to observe a group of chimps. Tito, one of the chimps charged us. I was too fascinated to be afraid. This was in Uganda 2015. I would like to return.

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      2. It blows my mind as well. We have so many commonalities. I used to try and explain this to someone I worked with. She was not buying that chimps amd humans were related.

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      1. ABB You miss me!? I am still here. Always lurking in the back of the room. Watching.
        A bit of truth here, I get jealous so I have to go lick my wounds, talk bad about everyone to myself, get over it and I reappear. I get welcomed back into the fold with open arms and I realize I have blog buddies.
        I have the issue (which I am working on with my therapist) and feel silly that I was upset to begin with. We are working on trust issues and why I need to WIN always. Why my list needs to be the longest. But to tell you the truth, I am pretty cool and I suppose I have been told for so many years by so many people that I am not the norm, whatever the hell that is.
        I want all the attention from HG and all the bloggers……….nah, messing with you, I just want it from the all powerful OZ. So here I am, ready to play nice again.
        True story;
        My BFF was having a sleep over and we went out sledding and she talked to my sister and most likely went down the hill on the sled with her. I became mad and raged with jealousy and started to walk home and they followed behind me walking together. I would not talk to her when we returned to the house. My sister offered her a bowl of fruit jello. She was standing eating it and as she held the bowl close to spoon it into her mouth, I shoved it in her face. Yes, I did. We were about 12 or 13.
        I always wondered what happened to Kim, This is her name. I did visit once while I was visiting the East coast. I was married and very pregnant, but she left her house and so I sat with her parents and talked. Her father all of a sudden burst out “I knew you would grow up to be beautiful!” It was kinda crazy. I left and never heard from her.
        Forward to present time: About two months ago, I received a private message from a girl on FB that started with “you don’t know me but I think you were my moms best friend.” YES! It was Kim’s daughter! We talked on the phone and she told me she named her daughter after me. My nickname is Stevie and she wanted her little girl to have this name but Stephanie is what everyone calls her. So a happy ending to silly but true story.

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      2. Ah Oh, don’t you know no one puts you in the corner, not even yourself? Glad to hear you are working on yourself. So acting out as a kid. I did too. No big deal. Time heals all wounds. The daughter of your friend must have heard fond memories of you in order to name her child after you. It is trying at times to be here. It depends on my state of mind. If I keep clear of certain types of interaction, I fare better. I know that I will have to let it go. It will be easier when I get back to work. My enthusiasm has worn. I am not the jovial letter writer I once was. I lost my potency I suppose. Thankfully there is always a replacement player. I burned bright but too fast. πŸ•―

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    2. AH OH. You do lead a life of adventure. I hope you are able to return to Uganda. Did anyone say why Tito charged you all?

      I like your profile pic. It is so candid.

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      1. Because he was showing his display of who was boss. He picked up a fallen three limb and slammed it on the ground as he ran by us. It went into pieces like shattered glass. It was amazing! We stood there and looked to either side and it was like Planet of the Apes. The chimps were on either side walking through the forest. It was dawn and they were just coming down from their nests to feed. Do you know they make new nest every night because of predators? Think about this for a moment, they are the closest species to us on this planet. 98.7% of DNA match. They are our cousins. This blows my mind.

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      2. I can return to Uganda but it is a hard trip on me. Very third world and I came home with parasites, which f**ked with my head to say the least. I no longer have them but still it does a number. I lost 7 lbs in a month and was so weak and depressed. I thought it was because of the Narc that was in my life for a few months. He even asked if I lost weight because I was love sick. Turned out I had two parisites in my life. Maybe he put them in my food. I often wondered as he said “oh no big deal, I would get them from the horse farm”
        When I return I will not eat anything that is not cooked or peeled. You can also get the same from Sushi, which I do not eat anymore.
        My next trip is in June to Galapagos Islands and a month in Europe and Scandinavia.

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  3. Flying monkey πŸ’ Jane BondπŸ”« Annie Hall πŸ‘”wearin’ hybrid. I definitely don’t want the lieutenant job. Especially if I gotta rip off parts Lorena Bobbet style. β†—β­•β­•

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  4. And you said flying monkeys aren’t real. You can put them in suits but we recognize them now. I feel bad for these naive souls who live their lies oblivious to being controlled.

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  5. I love all of your accompanying pictures! They are always perfect.

    If you don’t mind my asking, did you purchase stock photos? Do you somehow create them yourself?

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  6. Hey girls! Look at my picture, all up in HG’s Lieutenant’s grill, kissing and hugging on him. I have him in the palm of my hand. He is ticklish too.

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