The Narcissistic Truths – No. 66


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  1. Erica says:

    Hey, why is my comment from yesterday “awaiting moderation”?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hi Erica,

      I have been travelling so I am not able to moderate everything straight away and those posts which are long and/or have questions also stay in moderation longer. It is a standard thing – it does not necessarily mean it is unsuitable just that I have not read it yet.

      1. Erica says:

        Ok thank you for your response, I am looking forward to your comments on it then !

  2. mistynolan01 says:

    Better how? I really don’t get this one. But I’m going to mull it over and try to look at it from a narc’s perspective. (You said that empaths are arrogant enough to think everyone’s perception is like ours. I’m really gonna try not to be narrow minded here.)

    I’ll report back, Greater.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      The purpose of this truth is to show that if you accuse a narcissist of being a narcissist, they will deny it and then explain your concerns are just based on them being better (i.e. you are the problem because you are jealous – a quick dose of blame-shifting).

      1. Dr. Harleen Quinzel PsyD says:

        But what if you are simply…. better? 😜Lmao

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Then it will make you feel sad for the rest.

      2. KT says:

        I understood it from a lesser or midranger’s point of view if you tell them they are a narcissist they wont know what it is only that they are better than whatever you are saying they are

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Correct KT.

      3. mistynolan01 says:

        Thank you! Got it.

  3. superxena says:

    Have you ever made a true examination of yourself? Have you ever confronted yourself?

    1. HG Tudor says:


      1. superxena says:

        Thank you.From your short answer,I assume that you perhaps do not want to expand it…but I will ask you any way: why?

      2. Twilight says:


        Would you consider confronting yourself?
        I believe there is more to you that you have yet to discover. You have some amazing gifts, many in fact, I believe you hold more just over the void.
        For me I see your void like the Grand Canyon deep, wide and empty space. You know there is an edge in this side, you have been there. What you don’t see is the edge on the other side and solid ground. Your focus is on the void.

  4. Erica says:

    Ok soo.. I’ve seen the savage strike a few times and one or two times the golden wedge and the false discard. Basically the reason why he can’t be with me is that he keeps claiming we don’t fit ( related to him not respecting me or caring about me and me expecting him to) but he also said alot of times that he hates me, the whole relationship was shit because of me, I am annoying the fuck outta him look at my face and so on and so on.what happens now is that even though we have officially “broken up” several times we still live together and he acts kinda nice and normal even kissing me hello and goodbye and so on. Then again he tends to get annoyed when we get too close again because it’s too much me around him and then he wants to be left alone or would freak out as usual. Why would he not make an act to move out or talk about me moving out? Even though he already hates me and did the worst violent behaviour already.. what are his intentions? What is he planning and why is he “keeping ” me if he doesn’t care anymore? He has no new primary source to eliminate that right away. And he says I love you sometimes when we’re close or sends hearts a few times. I don’t get it and would be glad if you could answer my questions Mr tudor. Thanks in advance!!

  5. Anne Beduhn says:

    No, your not!’

  6. C★ says:

    HG, do you realize you are simply and complexly a force of nature? Likened to the glorious wind, that then becomes a tornado or hurricane, the stabil earth that goes earthquake, the mesmerizing ebb of the high & low tide that becomes a tsunami, the sun that becomes hell fire… nature gives pleasure, it gives pain, it does not have a conscious, it just is what it is.. we love it when its beautiful and calm, but when it changes without warning and creates masses of destruction, then we hate it (her.).. I am trying to write and verbalize what i “feel”… I compare you to to and see you as a “force of nature” I LOVE the Sea, but I fear and respect its power as well… this is how I perceive u and others of your kind… I hope you understand my perception & my respect of you and all forces of Nature…

  7. Truth. I am just better….omg I’m a narc!!! No I have a healthy sense of pretend self. Lol

  8. Violet says:

    This infantile tumour that your personality grew from was the belief that the family was the only source of meeting needs.

    You will always be reacting to your family dynamic, even to new partners. That’s why we see attitudes like these and they don’t make sense in the present day.

  9. Narc affair says:

    Or a narcissist? Pffftt youre the narcissist!

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