HG, I don’t know where to ask this or if you’ve hit on this subject, but do you dream?
Mine told me he had a nightmare a week before I left. He said it’s the first time he ever felt terror. (He has no startle reflex)
He said lights were flashing at night and he opened the garage door to see a tree like creature with tendrils trying to get in and attack me. He said he jumped in front of it to protect me and it bit him on the neck. He woke up almost screaming.
I knew he’d had a nightmare, but he didn’t share the details until after I’d left.
Sorry for all the posting but I’m obsessing now that the puzzle is coming together.
My heart is breaking, this is the perfect description. My poor, poor manchild. He lived the life of Job, it was just his mother inflicting the misery on him instead of God. But when you’re a child your mother is your God.
I have been obsessively reading everything on a subject, in this I am not sure if I want to thank you, kiss you or throw a pillow at you. I think if I ever get the chance it will be all three. In that order.
You have changed many things in my life, shown me many things I have held on to for so long is true.
Thank you HG for being you!
He was not the right man for me. Love a fake, pretended character a fake, achievements a fake, nearly everything a fake.
Now I understand, why someone said to me, you will get over him very fast. She has had a very healthy and practical approach to it.
Leave him behind.
My whole personality was a threat and a harm for him. And he had to push me , to torture me, to deny me … until I broke my own rules and then he had his confirmation, that the world and the people are like in his fantasy. The world is a place of cruelness, treachery and poison. He is all alone and a fighter against mills.
This ones heartbreaking 🙁 thats the belief of the narcissist that everyones out to harm them based on their past abuse. They were done to now they do to the very people that dont want to harm them.
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I destroyed that hollow chocolate bunny I got for Easter.
HG, I don’t know where to ask this or if you’ve hit on this subject, but do you dream?
Mine told me he had a nightmare a week before I left. He said it’s the first time he ever felt terror. (He has no startle reflex)
He said lights were flashing at night and he opened the garage door to see a tree like creature with tendrils trying to get in and attack me. He said he jumped in front of it to protect me and it bit him on the neck. He woke up almost screaming.
I knew he’d had a nightmare, but he didn’t share the details until after I’d left.
Sorry for all the posting but I’m obsessing now that the puzzle is coming together.
No I don’t.
You’re fortunate then, thank you for the answer.
My heart is breaking, this is the perfect description. My poor, poor manchild. He lived the life of Job, it was just his mother inflicting the misery on him instead of God. But when you’re a child your mother is your God.
But….is it really empty
….rage can’t come from empty, or can it?
So sad😔
But you can inconvenience it, irritate it, and expose it….lmao
Exactly!
You are right.
But.
The Mother Nature hates the emptiness. She always fills the emptiness with something else. With Creature, for example…
Or fuel
No. It is YOU who does it. You protect yourself in such way. Survival instinct. Ironically, also natural…
HG
I have been obsessively reading everything on a subject, in this I am not sure if I want to thank you, kiss you or throw a pillow at you. I think if I ever get the chance it will be all three. In that order.
You have changed many things in my life, shown me many things I have held on to for so long is true.
Thank you HG for being you!
You are welcome Twilight.
Hm… I know I harmed him. He only denied it.
He was not the right man for me. Love a fake, pretended character a fake, achievements a fake, nearly everything a fake.
Now I understand, why someone said to me, you will get over him very fast. She has had a very healthy and practical approach to it.
Leave him behind.
My whole personality was a threat and a harm for him. And he had to push me , to torture me, to deny me … until I broke my own rules and then he had his confirmation, that the world and the people are like in his fantasy. The world is a place of cruelness, treachery and poison. He is all alone and a fighter against mills.
You nailed it, Mona.
Chills and sorrow at the same time. I told the ex lesser he couldn’t break what’s already broken. Hmmm..😐
This ones heartbreaking 🙁 thats the belief of the narcissist that everyones out to harm them based on their past abuse. They were done to now they do to the very people that dont want to harm them.